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...problems
k so i have a tight group of 4 friends including me, and me and one of my friends keep having private conversations because we trust each other...the others get really mad when we have a convo and are like at least include us in it and its really really frustrating because some of the things i cant trust them with...are they over exaggerating or just jealous? because i think that me and my other friend deserve to keep some secrets...
Thanks:)
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it is very common you have specially one person that your closest to and can talk about evveyrthing l, i also have 4 best friends, but really , theres only 1 which i feel very confortable talking about everything any topic, there are some things i just don't mention to the other ones , but that doesn't mean i appreciate them less,,its just that our relationship its different, maybe they are just jealous, but im pretty sure that they are not 100% honest with you, they also have that someone who they trust everything to . dont worry it will not be inportant once they understand this , explain to them that surely they dont tell you 100% everything . they also must be keeping secrets from you :) thats when one of my friends understood why i wasnt able to trust her some things. cause she also has the same problem with me hahha =)
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its good to have a friend you trust enough to tell her your secrets but your other friends are all feeling left out and maybe even jelouse of how you two have become so close.
its nice to share things with someone but its not really nice if you leave other people out. i mean you dnt have to tell your other friends your secrets if you dnt trust them enough... cos there getting mad why dnt you and your friend have your private convos when the others arent around cos then they wont feel left out,
or you could call each other after school or at night.
you could tell your friends about how you dnt trust them enough to tell them your secrets but that might cause a fight. xxsal
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Well, if you can't trust them with your secrets, you can't likely let them in on it, right?
Be honest with them. Tell them you can't trust them with it and give them a specific example as to why you feel this way.
If they can't keep your secrets, they have no one to blame but themselves.
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I understand what you mean, but I don't think it's very nice how you go off with a really close friend whilst with the others. Wait when you're just with the one person you want to talk to, and when with the other two, just talk to them and see if you can trust them as much.
Hope this helped :)
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