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i dont know if this is in the right catagory and i know its a stupid quesiton but...
what is final fantasy,
is it like a game or sumthin or a movie plz help (link)


Final Fantasy is an animated video game! It's adventurious and fun. :) More like a combat sort of thing with many characters.


You can find more about it on Youtube!


http://www.youtube.com

Just search for Final Fantasy ;)


BahaiMa22



Long story short: I got kicked out of my house for a lip piercing in April. A week later, my mom begged me to move back in. I asked her if I would be able to come and go as I please because I'm 18 now. She said yes, so I moved back in.

Now, in July, she has made so many rules that go against what we agreed. I can't leave the house past 11:00pm, I have to be home by 1:00am, and I can only stay the night at someone's house once a week.

I'm not taking any classes and I can't work (don't ask why, I just can't), so it's not like I have to wake up early for anything. I'm not involved in drugs or sex and she knows that. She just went against everything we agreed on.

What do I do? My friends are tired of leaving clubs early to take me home. And I want to spend the night at people's houses. (link)
Well..


First lets look from Mom's point of view.

1. You are her child.
2. She cares for your saftey
3. She is just looking out for you

I would try and speak to Mom again about how you feel. Tell her that you are an adult now and that you understand she is just looking out for your best interest. Try working something out with Mom, Leave her your cell phone number, tell her where you are going and give her an approx. time you will be home. Tell her that you feel like she is enabling you (That being said, If that is how you are feeling) exsplain to Mom that you wish for your freedom. (Trust me, I know where you are coming from Mom does this too me all the time and I'm 23 years old lol) Anyway, Back to your situation try doing that with Mom and see how it goes. Another thing that helps, Is try making a deal with Mom and see how that works out also.

Good luck!

BahaiMa22


I would really like to get a cat, but the problem is my fiancé is allergic to cats (it's not TOO bad with hives or anything, but his eyes really water and he sneezes quite a lot around cats).

My mother says that she used to be allergic to cats, but got one and her allergies went away within a year-- but only to that one cat. She still had reactions while around cats other than the one she owned.

Can a person really become immune to a certain animal if they are around it enough? Or should I just make my fiancé get allergy shots? (link)

Well...


You could suggest to your Finance maybe some Allergie shots? :)

BahaiMa22


Hey i'm really excited for J.H. (junior high) but i'm afraid i'll make 1 little mistake and it will be the last time i even get looked at. Are there any tips in general? What should i stay away from, homework help, ext. (link)
Just relax!

Remember, If people don't like you for who you are it's there loss. Be nobody but yourself! Everyone does things from time to time that are a little embarrassing but don't make a big deal over it. The biggest mistake you could possibly make is pretending to be someone you are not. Just be yourself and have fun ;)


BahaiMa22


Well I am a female and i am 14. Almost a year ago i met a guy on this game i play online and i got feelings for him and i didn't think he had feelings back. We ended up dating and it was great but it was an online and phone thing. I know people say that doesn't work but for us it did for a while at least! We ended up falling in love with each other and please don't say u can't fall in love at my age cause u can and i did! I had one problem, at the time i lied about my age i know stupid! My mom ended up finding out all about him and that i lied to him and she said we had to break up and we didn't we just talked online! We slowly fell apart arguing and such and he broke up with me and now he hates me and won't talk to me but i sadly still love him! =/ and he doesn't love me and i cry all the time and i just can't move on and i don't know what to do! help? (link)


Well...


They say if it's meant to be it will happen. You are still young, I'm not saying you can't fall in love but I am saying.. that there are a lot of guys out there for you. Ones that you can actually have a relationship rather than just typing and talking on the phone with. You never know who you are talking to on the internet these days. I would try your best to move on.


For those of you who have any form of lip piercing (labrets, lowbrets, monroes etc), do you find that your piercing irritates your gums? Do you forgot it's there or can you always feel it? Also, how much do you find it gets in the way of things such as eating and kissing? (link)

Everyone is different when it comes to body peircings, Everyone reacts and heals faster than others.

However, I had a lip peircing in the middle of my lower lip. At first my lip got swollen and my gums hurt the first few days of the peircing. If you get it done don't play with it and remember to clean it daily. As far as eatting yes it was difficult for the first week because it hurt so much and I had to learn how to eat with a thing on my bottom lip. However.. It will heal in time just remember to clean it like I said. As far as kissing goes, I wouldn't do it too soon after the peircing I would wait until the womb heals before going that far.



Good luck!

Bahaima22


Hey guys! Okay so I'm a in shape kinda girl. I do tons of sports, but I have a lower stomach fat. Like my upper stomach is flat, but then I have that little fat. I would like to my my whole stomach flat. What could I do to get that little fat to be flat? lol thank you!!! =D
Crunches only help my top abs, so what are so ab workouts to get my lower abs working? haha (link)
Walking is the best way to loose stomach fat not just that but body fat. The more you work out the more you will build muscle also. Also you could try standing up putting your hands behind your head and lifting one leg up till your knees just barely touch your chest and keep doing that a few times a day.


Hope I helped!

BahaiMa22


I' trying to remember the name of this old game I used to play; it was a ton of fun..
There's like this guy starting out in a castle and this motes around it. You go through the game and you go through the area, and you have to complete quests with fairytale storiy events in it. Like you can go into the old lady's house inhansel and gretels... and try to save them and stuff.
Oh, and its one ofthose old games where you type in what you want to do..
Please help me!! (link)
Are you talking about Runescape?


ive been bulimic on and off for two or three years, and i want to stop completely so badly. any tips that could help quitting be a little easier? (link)


I would suggest getting professional help. There are clinics everywhere that specialize in bulimic and anorexia. I would see a doctor tell him/her your problem let your parents know what is going on. Try talking it out with friends. Remember the best way to beat an eatting disorder is too do it the right way.


BahaiMa22


I am a separated 35 year old female in love with my 36 year old high school sweetheart, whom is going through a divorce. We had not seen or spoken to each other since September of 2000. In May of this year we finally got in touch only to find that we are still very much in love with each other. We both have children with our spouses and have a long difficult road ahead in closing the chapters in our marriages. We don't know how to "just be friends" and allow each other the space and time to settle our lives. We have tried. No matter what we discuss about not talking or not seeing each other, it's almost unbearable and virtually impossible to stay away. The good thing is that we live about 3 hours away from each other. But that has not managed to keep us apart either. Is there a right or healthy way to do this? (link)


As they say, If it's meant to be it will happen.

If you two are sure you want to be with each other then maybe it's time to start talking about ways you can make it happen. As of right now I would try your best to remain friends and support him through the divorce until it's finalized. If you two want to be together maybe try a first date and take it from there try talking about ways to make it work, Perhaps finding an apartment/house together. etc


Good luck

BahaiMa22


I just turned 16 and you know what comes with that, getting your first job. Does anyone have any advice for this situation? Like where to work or not to work for the first job. How to keep jitters down for that interview or whatever. Anything is fine I just thought I'd ask anyone who's already been through that "first job" deal, and wouldn't mind giving a few pointers.

Thanks
16/f (link)


Whatever you do keep in mind that a job is a job.

At the age 16 female and a first job. I would suggest something maybe like Job Lot, McDonalds or Burger King. Don't over work yourself and maybe start off as a part timer. Remember a job is responsibility and it's also a step towards the real world. As far as an interview just keep it cool remember dress nice! Just play it by ear and answer all the questions best you can.


Good luck!

BahaiMa22


how do people CANTACT people from youtube?


like if someone were to ask andMESSAGE me in youtube" hey i really like ur voice come to an audition and maybe ill sign you in to (lets sayy.........) Geffen Rocrds"



how would you know if it is real and no t a joke?!?

so my question is HOW DO YOU CONTACT SOMEONE IN YOUTUBE?

like to get is signed or you know like the "Fame" coming out..

how od u know (link)
As far as knowing if something is real or not you never know. After all this is the internet and people prank all the time. You can try contacting someone from the email box or just typing in there name where you would look for videos however if someone doesn't have a video posted then there name might not show up in search.


Bahaima22


so i dont know really know what my problem is exactly. i have just been feel really "empty" lately. i don't know why this is happening, but i just feel like my life has no meaning right now. i mean i go through my day smiling and laughing, acting all happy. and then night brings this feeling of complete emptiness and i dont know what to do about it. i feel like i am missing something, like there is something important taht i need to be doing but i just feel blahh. i feel like i am always on the verge of tears no matter how happy i look. there has been talk of moving in my family, and it hasnt really been bothering me... but do you think maybe like subconsiously i am worried and that is what is making me so down? if not, what is going on with me? and how can i get out of this funk that I am in?

any advice is much apprectiated. thanks! (link)

Sounds like you may be depressed. Try to take a moment and ask yourself what is bothering you get to the core of it. Focus on what you like to do, Spend time with friends, Talk with your family. Do things that make you happy. If you keep feeling this way after trying all of them things you may want to see a doctor to see if he can do anything for you. However, I would suggest you to get into things you love doing.


Best of Luck

-BahaiMa22


This is an emergency...
Im gaining so much weight from taking "the pill" so anyone or anybody kno any diff type of birth control method that doesn't make u gain weight and makes u have fewer menstrual periods? Please need help asap!
Thanx so much in advance! (link)


1. Depo Provera -The shot that last 3 months and you get it every 3 months. However you will gain about 12 pounds.

2. The patch- No weight gain

3. IUD Marena - Inserts inside you - No weight gain

I think you may want to concider seeing your doctor. However I have had the best luck with the IUD.

-BahaiMa22


If some girl was forced to give a guy a blowjob from her school, and she has a boyfriend, she obviously thinks he will break up with her but she was forced, does that considered as cheating? (link)


If the girl does it agreeing to it then yes indeed it's cheating. Cheating is cheating no matter what. Unless she was sexually assulted or held against her will.


My car has been put away for a while and it has that... kind of musky smell. Basically, I need a really good air freshener for it. What are some favorites? And where can I find them? Thanks. (and not too expensive please) (link)


Black Ice is good


Can be found at Walmart :)


i am going to the beach by the 21st and i NEED to have a good body by then! i've been trying to get my body to be perfect for 2 years and it hasn't worked so it seems impossible to do it in like less than 2 weeks, but i never give up. i am not fat, i am short girl 14 years old and i have a lot of extra fat on my stomach. it's been there my whole life but it's been getting worse becasue i eat really badly and i say everyday that i'm going to run but i never have time or i'm too lazy. please help me it's so important what should i do? everytime i try to eat healthier i can't because unhealthy food is my escape when i'm sad, bored, angry, happy anything. just what can i do to get the fat off my stomach by then? any suggestions for keeping to eating healthy when everyone else in your house eats unhealthy? (link)


The best way to loose stomach fat is by walking everyday. Don't over do it because the faster you loose it the easier it is to put the weight back on.


ugh im so dumb sometimes ..this kid from my class had alot of feelings for me since last year in school i never tho of giving him a chance til this year n we went out for 1 day cus i didnt like him i dont even kno why i went out with him but we never kiss or nothin it was so dumb so now he has a girlfriend n they been together for 5 months and he cheated on his girl with me he said he would leave her because she is always cheating on him so i dont even feel guilty and she always doing bad things and they break up but he always forgiving her and i guess he really likes her so now after he got me to tongue kiss him and stuff now he walks right by me in school like he dont know me and stuff i try to get his attention by talking to other boys but it dont work i dont know wat to do no more...so i did something bad im acting like i like this boy in school n we always together but i really dont like the boy in school so i feel bad for saying things to him i dont mean n he dont even pay attention to nothing...i dont know wat i did wrong..i need something to get his attention im so confused why is he not talking to me =[ (link)



As harsh as this sounds from what I am reading it sounds like he is just trying to get back at his girlfriend by doing things with you. Don't ever let a guy use you as a "Fallback". If he truely likes you he will give his girl up with time. It seems right now he is just playing the field. I wouldn't do no more with this guy until he knows what he wants.


-BahaiMa22



http://s36.photobucket.com/albums/e44/Angie1626/?action=view¤t=aa.jpg

theres a picture of me.
im getting new glasses but cant decide on what looks good on me so i need advice..thick or thin rims, glass or plastic, colors...etc. or please find some sites with glasses you think would look cute on me. THANKS A BUNCH! =]

ps. im talking about like prescription ones not sunglasses :P (link)

I don't think think glasses would look good by looking at your face.

However maybe something like these?

http://www.searsoptical.com/wps/wcm/resources/image/468c73802007bdf8/AP24_2026789.jpg


Well I'm going out with this girl an by the way I'm jennifers bro 18/m she says this works...an ma girl is kinda wierd I think she might be cheating on me how do u tell (link)


Look for the signs of cheating


I'm not an exspert in this categlory however I can tell you, That people who cheat on their partners often tend to drift away from the relationship. They will try to avoid the situation, Won't call as much, Won't return calls etc. I think you should try questioning her and see what she says.


-BahaiMa22




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