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how do I tell if she is cheating
Well I'm going out with this girl an by the way I'm jennifers bro 18/m she says this works...an ma girl is kinda wierd I think she might be cheating on me how do u tell
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Women who cheat tend to become very distant from their partners. They start breaking plans or not making them at all. A lot of times they will lie about a friend needing them when they really don't and are out with someone else. On the flip side of that some women become very affectionate when they are cheating in order to keep you from being suspicious. Some will blow you off when you call or just not answer and say they were busy or the "phone never rang"
She could also be stressing about other things though and just not want to talk to you about them. Have you tried talking to her and asking if she wants out of the relationship or if something is bothering her?
Some women who cheat will be cheating with someone they really don't want to date and trying to keep you on the string so they have someone to come back to when they get bored with the other guy. Some will also try to tell you how sorry they are and make it your fault they cheated. Just remember people choose to cheat. It doesn't "just happen" and it's not an "accident" it is a choice and you deserve better than to be chosen 2nd best.
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Look for the signs of cheating
I'm not an exspert in this categlory however I can tell you, That people who cheat on their partners often tend to drift away from the relationship. They will try to avoid the situation, Won't call as much, Won't return calls etc. I think you should try questioning her and see what she says.
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First I would suggest reviewing this site for signs. I noticed that you have indicated that your girlfriend is kind of weird- I am not sure of what kind of weird means so I can't really go into detail about it. I have been cheated on and I noticed things like changes in communications. Changes in attitude, changes in interest of me period, willingness to go to the store and stay for ever, changes in cell phone ringing to cell phone on silent mode, changes in people he associated with -all of a sudden there were new friends, I noticed phone numbers in his pockets, claiming they were male friends (I called and they weren't).I also observed the fact of whispering all of the time when talking to his friends - it was also boys with the boys, girls with the girls - and there was also whispering on the phone and constant texting!
The fact that you are questioning the possibility of cheating, really concerns me and makes me feel that something has changed and that something is going on to catch your attention. Don't accuse her just yet... sit back watch, listen, and wait.. it all comes out, trust me.
Now, mentally my friend, be prepared to accept the possibility that she could be, but spiritually be prepared to move on with your life and not blame yourself b/c it will cause you to become bitter with inability to trust or love completely again. As a matter of fact, it also causes you to become a worry wart, or a watch dog and that destroys your relationship too... why do you think she is cheating on you? email me and tell me. sophia_pettus@yahoo.com
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