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he wont leave his girl
ugh im so dumb sometimes ..this kid from my class had alot of feelings for me since last year in school i never tho of giving him a chance til this year n we went out for 1 day cus i didnt like him i dont even kno why i went out with him but we never kiss or nothin it was so dumb so now he has a girlfriend n they been together for 5 months and he cheated on his girl with me he said he would leave her because she is always cheating on him so i dont even feel guilty and she always doing bad things and they break up but he always forgiving her and i guess he really likes her so now after he got me to tongue kiss him and stuff now he walks right by me in school like he dont know me and stuff i try to get his attention by talking to other boys but it dont work i dont know wat to do no more...so i did something bad im acting like i like this boy in school n we always together but i really dont like the boy in school so i feel bad for saying things to him i dont mean n he dont even pay attention to nothing...i dont know wat i did wrong..i need something to get his attention im so confused why is he not talking to me =[
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I just went through an extremely similar situation... and although I know you don't want to hear it, he was just using you. He was trying to get back at his girlfriend and you were willing to help him do that. I know it sucks and it hurts, but he is probably also trying to make you feel like he did last year when he really liked you. Since you hurt him, he most likely just wanted to hurt you back. Instead of trying to get his attention with other boys, the best thing to do is just try to move on. And no matter what happens, don't let him back into your life unless he is completely broken up with his girlfriend. That way you csn prevent him from using you any further than he already has.
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bahai is totally right...but i think it goes a bit deeper than that...not only are you being used by this guy to get back at his girl, he's also using you to get back at you. He had real feelings for you and by going out with him for one day you totally toyed with his emotions and now he's messing with yours as a form of payback. Karma sucks but it's a lesson we all learn in life. He's not interested. I would move onto someone who actually likes you. It might sound harsh but it's the truth so just take it for what it is and find someone new.
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As harsh as this sounds from what I am reading it sounds like he is just trying to get back at his girlfriend by doing things with you. Don't ever let a guy use you as a "Fallback". If he truely likes you he will give his girl up with time. It seems right now he is just playing the field. I wouldn't do no more with this guy until he knows what he wants.
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