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my best friends family hates me
Hey guys, I'm having some trouble. My best friends family hates me because they think we are lesbians but honestly we aren't. We view each other as sisters and love each other but not like that.In truth I'm a really good influence and I'm not a bad kid. Does anyone have any ideas of things i could do or ways to make them like me? All help is appreciated. Thanks in advance.
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Tell you friend, and you could go talk to the parents together. Tell them that you are just really good friends, and they misunderstand you.
(Also this kind of angers me, because even if you were a lesbian, they shouldnt hate you. You should love everyone, and there is nothing wrong with gay people)
You could also get a boyfriend, or your friend could get a boyfriend. Have him hang out with you guys, so they would see you like guys, not girls. ( i know you might not want a boyfriend, but im just saying it would help)
I hope everything ends up good, and you and your friend can stay friends, and her family starts to like you.
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Have you talked to your friend about this?
If not, go talk to her. Tell her that it isn't cool with you that her parents don't like you and are thinking the wrong thoughts about your relationship. Tell her you want her parents to know the truth, and realize that you're JUST friends. Then, you can come up with something to say to her parents, together. OR you can just have her talk to them if:
A. her parents dislike you that much and you would just be totally uncomfortable.
B. you and your friend agree it would be better if she handled talking to her parents.
If you agree that you both want to talk to them, maybe you can sit down with her parents or go out to dinner with them and explain that you're nothing more than friends. Tell them you're just really close and consider each other sisters, not girlfriends. Just tell them the truth, and let them know that nothing is going on between the 2 of you.
-Laura. (16-f)
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