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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
iif u typ3 liik3 thiiz iit piissesz m3 0ff. Alot.
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Hey im new to this site. And I just got 1 rating. I was woundering how many times do you have to be rated for it to show up on your column ?? Because after I got rated I looked at my column and it never showed up. So thats why I was woundering how many times do you have to be rated to have it show on your column ? Thanks
I'm not going to DIRECTLY answer this question but if you refer to the FAQ- http://advicenators.com/faq.php it will have EVERYTHING you need to know about this site, any questions about ratings, becoming a moderator, your column settings, etc, etc. It will be there =)
Welcome to Advicenators.
ok i know this is a little gross. but for a few years now, every once in a while i will get scabs on my scalp, and when i scratch my scalp then sometimes white stuff (not dandriff) ends up under my fingernails. what is this and hwo do i treat it?
Actually, it is dandruf. Best way to treat it buy head and shoulders. Sometimes your scalp gets SO dry that it starts to crack and you'll get scabs (Like you said) and the white stuff is dead skin- Also known as dandruf. Head and shoulders really moisturizes your scalp so that it takes off all the dead skin and leaves your scalp dead skin free.
My boyfriend wants to have sex. I think I love him, but I just don't feel ready yet. How can I tell him and not lose him?
Well, you THINK you love him. If you don't even really love him and he doesn't love you (unless he does) then he shouldn't be thinking about having sex with you. ANYWAY- Just say [insert boyfriend's name here] I really like you alot, and I care about you deeply but I just don't think I'm ready to take our relationship to that level yet. I hope this doesn't change your feelings towards me. And if he gets pissed off about it, then you know he's only in the relationship for the ass and you REALLY shouldn't date a guy that's only in the relationship for the ass. It's not good.
I wish you the best of luck
=)
I have a new jeep and it has those removable plastic windows. Does anyone have any tips on how to clean them without scratching them up?
Windex and newspaper or Vinegar and newspaper. OR some kind of product with bleach and a wet towel. Any of those work.
I want to make dinner for my boyfriend. I'm an ok cook but not really great or anything. Does anyone have any ideas of a nice meal I could cook that would be pretty easy to do? I'm not looking to make frozen pizza or anything, I really want to do this right.
Lemon Chicken with garlic pasta
Put butter and oil in a pan, season your chicken however you'd like. Brown the chicken in the pan and put it in a dish topped with parsley and seseme (sp?) seeds (Optional) and drizzle lemon juice ontop of it.
Pasta: Cook any kind of pasta you'd like, add a little oil, one garlic clove (chopped) parsley, about a tablespoon of butter and 1/4 cup of milk and 2 teaspoons of garlic powder. Mix it together in a pot while it's still hot and then serve in a separate dish.
Do you think its okay to teach your child to hit someone back if they hit him first?
Yes. I think it's perfectly fine, then again that is what I was taught. I was taught to DEFEND myself, not hit someone back if they hit me for no reason. They should only hit back if it's self defense. I would teach my kids the same thing. I think that if someone is continually hitting them, then yes they should hit them back. But if they just do it once then leave it alone. If they do it more than once, then that would be a reason to defend yourself.
Do you think it is okay for a young person to have plastic surgery? I really don't like my nose but I don't know if I should say something to my mom now or just wait until I'm older. What do you guys think?
I personally think it's okay for a young person to get plasic surgery DEPENDING on what it is. But other people would have a much different opinion. It's completely up to your parents on whether or not you can get plasic surgery. Depending on how young you are, it may not be a good idea. But I think in your situation, you should wait until you are older. Getting a nose job isn't something a YOUNG teenager that is still living with her parents should be doing. Wait until you are older, around 18 maybe even 21. Your opinion may change by then! Who knows. So I'd say just wait it out until you are older. I hated my nose for a while and now I have all these people telling me how much they love it and how "cute it is" now my nose is like one of my favorite features on my face. But talk to your mother first and see what she says. If she says no, then wait until you're older.
My brother is getting married next month. He lives in Washington and we have to fly there for the wedding. I am scared to death to fly and I really don't even want to go if I have to. Should I say something to my parents? Should I just go and hope it doesn't crash? HELP!
It's nothing to worry about AT ALL. Of course you can say something to your parents that you're scared to fly. I know plenty of people are afraid to fly. I'm still scared to fly a little... But really it's not that bad. Plane crashes are SO unlikely to happen. I think you'll be fine. The only part that is a little scary is takeoff. It's a little bumpy but you'll be FINE!!! Bring a book or a CD/MP3 player with you to listen to while you're on the plane and it should calm you down. You can even take a few sleeping pills before you go on the flight so that way you'll sleep the whole way. But it's nothing to be worried about. You really will be okay. But if you're still nervous, then really talk to your parents. But I think your brother would be really upset if you didn't go to the wedding. Just talk to your parents... But I reaaaallllly think you should go!!! But hey, that's just my opinion.
i'm 14/f, and i need new sneakers. can anyone recommend me any brand of sneakers(not nike because EVERYONE has them) or any kind of sneakers that they think is really good and looks really nice?
Check out this site: http://www.journeys.com/catalog.aspx?c=girls
They have a bunch of different brands. Just click on each one: Athletic, board, casual and it will show you a bunch of different ones. And there's no Nike on there. =)
What is the real difference between a friend and a "best friend"?
A friend is more like someone you just say hey to and what's up and stuff in school and a best friend is a friend that is much closer to you, that's more like a sister and someone you can confide in and trust more than any other friend.
I am 15 my bf is 16. I know he doesn't have a lot of money and I was wondering, do you think it is OK if I offer to pay sometimes? I don't want to hurt his feelings or make him mad. Should I ask him about it?
NO!!!! Don't ask him about it! Go for it and pay! I'm sure he appreciates it. I pay for my boyfriend alot of times and NEITHER of us have money. It's okay for the girl to pay. I hate those stupid rules that a guy is always supposed to pay. SCREW THAT! I think it's stupid. It's nice if the girl pays once in a while. You won't hurt his feelings or make him mad, I PROMISE. He really would appreciate it though. If he questions it just say you pay all the time and I wanted to do something nice =)
But it's PERFECTLY fine to pay once in a while.
My sister is coming to visit me from out of town. She has 2 kids ages 1 and 3. I don't have kids of my own and am a single guy, which means I know nothing about having little kids around the house. Can someone maybe give me some tips on what I might need to do to childproof my house before they get here? I don't want my nephews getting hurt!
All open outlets COVER THEM. Anything that's really high or furniture that's not sturdy, take things off of it so that it doesn't come crashing down and hurting them. If you have any glassware or anything with sharpe edges that could be within their reach, move it. When you or your sister is cooking make sure the handles to the pots and pans are facing inside the stove, not hanging out over so they can grab it. Any small objects that they would put in their mouths, figurines that you may have on display or something, move them into a safe spot. All cleaning products move into one general area and put a lock on the cubbord.
For anything else, you could refer to this site: http://www.keepkidshealthy.com/welcome/safety/childproofing_the_house.html
Under my right arm pit have this lumb thats pretty tall adn the size of maybe a nickle. It hurts and my mom said its an in grown hair and ive had it the last 3 days.. Okay? well I just loked and left and more are growing. It hurts to raise my hand and there solid.. I dont know what is it? Please dont tell me to go to the docters because i will if i have to but my mom told me a day ago that they would cutt it.. So im afraid..
Okay, This sounds stupid but for the last month I;ve had a toe infection and its taking forever to heal? No i didnt go to the docters but i did put meddison on it...
:-\ HELP!!!--Meg :-\
Oh please. It's nothing to be afraid of. They aren't going to cut anything. And I do have to tell you to go to the doctor. An ingrown hair doesn't become the size of a nickle. I have NO clue what to tell you. You DO have to go to the doctor though. Trust me, an ingrown hair does not become the size of a nickle. The biggest it will get is like the circumference of a pen cap. That's IT. So, sorry hun but you need to go to the doctor. And about the toe infection, have you been putting medication on it every day? If not, then maybe that's why it won't heal. Put it on every day, twice a day. And if that doesn't heal then you'll have to go back to the doctor about that too. I can't tell you what the thing under your armpit is, I'm not a doctor. The only way you'll find out is if you go to the doctor.
ok so i have a boyfriend who i met online. he(20years old) lives in england and i(18) live in spring grove, pa,so as you can tell there is a distance problem. can a long distance relationship work?
thanks for any help,
jami
It can work if you really want it to. My answer isn't going to be a huge paragraph so just keep this quote in mind... "Distance is not an obstacle- rather a great reminder of just how strong true love can be." If you have the will to make it work, it will no matter what anyone tells you.
i wrote...i keep going for a wee the last few days, i've been at least 8-10 times just today i did have unprotected sex just over 2 week ago but he did pull out before he came i know people do get pregnant from the "pull out" method also im 10 days late for a period it isn't unsual for me tho but could i be pregnant?
but i would like to add...
this is really scaring me now still no period... 15 days late and today i've been geting this clear odorless liquid even when its dry its still clear not like dischanrge! i keep feeling a bit sick normally around the morning/lunch time and i kinda fainted the other day like i was sitting on the chair then i found myself on the floor :|
Well I had answered your question before and advised you to take a pregnancy test. Have you done that yet? Because from everything you added onto your question seem to be signs that you are pregnant. You REALLY need to take a pregnancy test. Go to the drugstore and buy a pregnancy test. The cheapest ones are around $10. That's the ONLY way you'll know for sure if you're pregnant or not. But for your sake, TAKE A PREGNANCY TEST! It's the only way you'll know for sure.
okay this is gonna sound gross but i need help. a few days ago i had a sore throat and my stomach hurt (like cramps) yesterday the sore throat was gone but my stomach was worse, like cramps and dizziness sorta. lastnight i kept waking up with diarrhea. i know its gross and all. but like whenever i started to wipe there was a little blood. now this morning i went to the bathroom (just number one) but there was blood. and now in my underwear there is a little blood. am i starting my period or is it because i was sick??? thanks in advance for anyone who tries to help. just only answer if you think you REALLY know. THANKS.
When I first started my period, I'd get diarrhea too when I was PMSing. You DID start your period and the cramps and diarrhea was part of PMS. The soar throat part MAY be something completely different because I have never heard of a woman getting a soar throat while PMSing. But as far as I'm concerned, you started your period. Welcome to the world of being a woman.
Does AIM store your conversations?
No. The only way any version of AIM would store it is if you had Dead AIM downloaded. The only way messages on AIM are able to be saved is if you go into your convo window and go to file and click save. Other than that, and if you don't have Dead AIM, they cannot be stored.
Hi- Ever since I got my first period almost three years ago I've had a strange depository in my underwear. Im 15 and a female and I don't think that it's a yeast infection because the depository is not "clumps" or "chunks" nor is my vagina itchy, the depository is a white gooey liquid that I always see. I eat healthy and I'm still a virgin. I expected it to go away but Im starting to realise that it may actually be a problem.
help?????
It's just discharge. ALL girls get it at one point or another. It really isn't ANYTHING to be concerned about. You can wear pantie liners (Kotex light days for example) to protect your panties from getting ruined. But, all it is is discharge. Not anything that will be a problem. All girls get it when they're getting their period. Don't be concerned. 100% normal I promise =)
okay.. well i think i started my peroid lol.. okay well .. i had this reddish brown discharge since saturday and now today and yesterday its been pure red.. did i start ? and its only noticable when i wipe and theres alot on the tp.. but none comes out in to the toilet .. can you explain that?
You got your period. Just because it doesn't show up in the toilet doesn't mean you didn't get it. Whenever you wipe yourself it just shows up on the toilet paper. The same thing happens to me. But yes, you got your period. Welcome to the world of being a woman.
I know you guys arent doctors. And I'm going to go to the doctors soon for a physical. But I have this red thing on the shin of my leg. It's not raised, and it doenst itch. It just seems like dry skin. Pinkish/red. Ive had it for like 2 or 3 weeks. It used to be the size of a dime, now its the size of a quarter. Once again, it's not raised. But I'm just wondering if anyone had the same thing, and that it is. thanks.
It could just be a patch of dry skin. And from the description you gave, it DOES sound like ecsema (sp?) which I have too, but it doesn't itch so I'm not really sure what it could be. My mom has something like that on her chin, and it's just a dry patch of skin that doesn't itch and she needed to use medicated cream to get it to go away. It could be the same thing for you. But that's really all I can tell you. When you go to the doctors, they'll know MUCH better than all of us.