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Q: well.. im now 15 and im srating to be i guess u could say more."active" with guys and i really want to get rid of the hair "down there" and i shave it all off but when i do even if i use a lot of shaving creme and a good razor it leaves razor bumbs and bleeds and then theres stubbles the next day!! so should i try to wax.. i mean i would but i don't want my mom know and if i aske dher to buy me wax she would ask why? anyways i need some good advice on the best way to make it smoothe

ASk your mom to bring you to the store cuz you need to grab a few things. If she asks whats in the bag just pull out a few other things. Get makeup or something and that way you could show her that instead of the wax itself. But im sure there is instructions in the box deal-trix

Q: i am thinking about gettting my hair done its about where my belly button is any hairstyles that are cute i could do?

I would cut it like 5 inches shorter. And get it layered.-trix

Q: does anybody know what efy stands for.. a few of my friends are talking about going to efy.. but i dont know what it is..?

Especially For Youth. You can go check it out at this site http://web.ask.com/web?q=What+is+Efy%3F&qsrc=1&o=0 I looked it up for you-trix

Q: ok i have been on a diet for 2 weeks now and i've been doin real good but now its realyl hard..like i have been eating some thinks i know i shouldnt but i cant help it. does anyone have any suggestions that will help me stick to my diet? thanks:)

Well you just got to stay positive and make yourself stick to it. You just got to stay away from the tempting foods. Weather its hard or not :-P trust me i know. If you want a really effective diet try the south beach diet. I always reccommend it-trix

Q: i heard that when you drink up water it makes yur metabolisn faster because yur body thinks its cold and needs to warm up so it works extra hard. an i also heard it yur always really cold then you have a fast metabolisn..well i was wondering if any of those are true? if you aren't totally sure please dont answer. thank you:)

I heard the thing about water. I know that drinking water is betting for you and it does increase. The always being cold thing isnt a myth. I asked my aunt. She is pretty smart-trix

Q: I was wondering where can I get a FREE pop up blocker for my computer that I can just download and it will stop all these pop ups whenever I go to a website I have like 20 things I gotta close out befor I can view A website, so If anyone can tell me a website to go to where I can get just a FREE pop up blocker I'll rate high! Thanks everyone!

Well if you look up on teh top of your internet screen deal see tools? the 2nd one down on the drop list there should be a pop up blocker. If not then go here... http://web.ask.com/web?q=free+pop-up+blockers&qsrc=0&o=0 hope i helped!!-trix

Q: ok.. well.. heres my little situation! im about 5'6 and i weigh 106. yeah i don't like my thighs very much.. i mean they're small.. but big. yeah that makes sense right? haha i know it doesn't. anywaysss well im going to california in march and i want to maybe loose 2 or 3 pounds to weigh 104 or 103. i don't want to be anorexic about it or anything even though i act kind of anorexic sometimes. yeah i don't know if i should try lose a couple pounds or not.. i mean i know im skinny.. i guess but w/e. do you think i need too? and i dont eat that much already so what would a healthy (atleast somewhat) way to do this?
thanks.. srry its long-ish

Long-ish. Loving the word. Haha. ANd i know what you mean by them being biggish smallish. But yeah you can go on the south beach diet. Its healthy and will help you out-trix

Q: is sex all guys care about in a relationship or can they do w/out

they can do without. Its nothing they always think about. Yeah its something they will think about. But not all guys pressure you into having sex. So dont think that. My boyfriend has never once been pressuring me into. I got the impression from one of m x's but i havent ever once before-trix

Q: There are 16 people (all girls) who I'm getting valentines day gifts. What should I get them? Don't make it too expensive.

a hug n kiss

Q: i sweat(spelling?) ALOT and i cant seem to find a deoderent that works. any suggestions

go to the dr.

Q: ok so i dont know what to get my guy for valentines day but i am thinking that i should just like kiss him on the cheek (or lips) and say like "that's my valentines day gift to you" i mean we are only 13 so it would be big not like nothing. do you think that i should?

Yeah that'd be cute

Q: im a 14 female. and i have big boobs, and all the signs of my period.but i haven't gotten it yet. what the eff IS WRONG WITH ME GOSH.heheh

nothign you dont have to worry till you are like 19. People dont get it till 17-trix

Q: Hi, Im looking for a good fudge recipe. Does anyone have one?

look at askjeeves.com

Q: does anyone no any really good books. My mom wants me to get into reading (i hate reading) so i need a good book thatti wont hate to read!

anything will do! thanks a lot!

TTYL, among the hidden/barons and ect., riding freedom, chicken soup books-trix

Q: what kind of things do you give guys on valentines day? Like really good things, or simple things are good to. I just need some ideas. i like to get my shopping done early so i wont have to woory about it later. but im completly lost on what i should get for him as a v-day present. Any Ideas? please help

something that smells good and a box of chocolates-trix

Q: last night i had this really weird dream that my x kised me... i am totally over him because we broke up a while ago.. and i am also in love with my boyfriend now.. but i was just wondering if any 1 would no y i dreamed this?

YOu were just thinking in the past. It happans. No need to worry it was just a dream-trix

Q: Wat do i do to get a guy to notice me? Should i become friends with him or just try to be around him or something else?

Hang out with the same people he does. talk to him. dress cute-trix

Q: Well, me and my boyfriend have been dating for a long bit now. and everytime i see him i get mad at him, im bipolar so i think that might be the reason. and then again my parents are divorsing soon and ive been really upset about it, and really everything makes me mad lately. what should i do, no medicine..just i take it out on everyone lately

I no u dont want medicine but that can help you. IM sorry i hope everything works out to cuz i no that parents divorcing can be hard. I've been thru 3-trix

Q: Does anyone know of anywhere that a 13 year old could work?? any help is appreciated..thanks

Raking, shoveling, or mowing-trix

Q: my boobs are uneven one of them is smaller. i have to wear padded bras to make them even! is this normal?thanks appriciate it

Yeah your normal. One eye is bigger then the other. Same for hands, feet, legs, and arms-trix

bio

My name is Trix, I am 17. I love pink, and degrassi.

I just recently got out of a relationship of 21 months. I love him still but I'm moving on.

I've been there done that im sure

ex. (with the number of expierences)

-Long term relationships (2)
-Bad expierence with BF's family (1)
-Broken bones (11)
-Stitches (2)
-Seen someone killed (1)
-Loss of family (1)
-Cancer in the family (2)
-Family in Iraq (1)
-Mom had brain surgery (2)
-Loss of pet (4)
-Moved from state to state (5)
-New highschool (2)
-Car accident (3)

Like I said "been there done that"