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If your swimming with a tampon in wont the string hang out or come out of your bathing suit? (link)
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Absolutely not, as long as your tampon is put in correctly, the string should barely be sticking out. =)
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Who are the guys in your picture? (link)
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This is actually posted on my page (for future reference), they're Grant, Clay & Chase [left to right], from Newport Harbor.
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i'm bored as hell because i'm sick with "viral pharyngitis" but i can't do anything because my throat is killing me and motrin doesn't work.
god what can i do? i'm about to kill myself or something i'm sick of sitting at home in excruciating pain with nothing to do. (link)
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me and my boyfriend have been together for a little wile, but this will be our first valentines day. i love him soooo much and i want to do something amazing.... but i have no idea what to do... any suggestions would be amazing.
T I A..xoxo (link)
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There are some suggestions here: http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=518322
http://www.thingsremembered.com/TR/Articles/General+Topics/Valentines_Day_Gifts.htm
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is it normal to have like hair around your nipples..? (link)
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If you have slim to none hairs around there, it's perfectly normal. However, if you have extreme hair growth - I would go to the doctor, it isn't normal to have a large amount of hair there.
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has anyone ever gotten cheated on and took back the person? i was just wondering like if u eveer were able to forgive the person .. did u ever learn to trust them again. stuff like thatt (link)
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Only once, I only take back cheaters (if I think they're a really good guy) one time and that's it. If they do it again, they're out the door. But I will give them one more chance and trust them.
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i like this guy, hes a bit younger, eighth grade.and im in ninth grade. tomorrow im viseting my old school and i always see him in the hallway. He liked me last year but hes looked down upon so i thought going out with him would ruin my rep. But ive changed alot. I like him and i dont care who knows it. I know he'll go out with me, but i dont know how to tell him!
any hints i can give?
ways i can get HIM to ask ME?
i need all this by tomorrow!!!
please help me (link)
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In order for him to ask you out, he's going to have to know that you like him. It's a good idea to be really flirty with him, you could try making him a cute little card telling him you like him. OR you could be a bold girl, and just tell him - confidence is sexy, and it takes confidence to do that (that little line was just to let you into how a guy thinks, haha).
Also, be sure to give him plenty of eye contact. Not scary eye contact, though. And see how long you two can hold it, but if he turns away, don't think anything of it. Sometimes guys are shy, so they turn away.
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Well..I'm 17 and my parents still won't let me date and there's this guy I want to go out with..He likes me back but he works all the time and I only see him on sundays. That's not the issue though. How do I get my parents to understand that I'm old enough and should be allowed to date already? Or get around it without getting grounded? My parents are strict.. (link)
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One way is to get on their good side, do some extra chores and try helping out around the house more. Show them you are responsible, and while talking to them, tell them that you want to be trusted and you can prove to them you can be trusted, if they just give you the opportunity.
Here is a website, that should help you with this. Good luck! =)
http://www.myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/parents.htm
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My ex boyfriend (I'll call him L)and I went out for a month last year, and broke up becuz we were just acting like friends (it was our first relationship). Anyway, we are a rare case, because we just got ridiculously closer and its exactly a year today that we were together; we talk everyday, and he is almost like my best friend, only more. Anyway, i never completely got over him. I honestly love him. Not in love, but i do love him so much. We connect in a way that I never have with anyone. And i know he loves me too, we make a cute couple and balance each other well, but two months ago, i told him that i still had feelings for him and he told that we should just be friends. Anyway, my guy best friend's good friend J likes me alot, and I am attracted to him,but I cant see myself with him, because I still like the other guy. So, last night, I asked L for advice on what to do: whether I should give J a chance or not (because he is the only one who could give me a true answer). And he gave the sweetest advice, that if I saw myself with him than I should give him a chance, but if I cant than maybe I shouldnt. I told him that he (L) would be fifth wheel if I went with J (becasue my guybest friend, his girlfriend, me and L...and now J hang out alot). And he told me not to worry about him, and be selfish for once. Then he quietly asked if I liked someone else, why i was so unsure about J...and I didnt want to answer(because of course I like him). There is nothing wrong with J,but I love L, and I want us to have another chance. We are perfect for each other. We are always flirting with each other, and i love the way he talks to me. He said I brighten his day. Should I give J a chance, or try to give it one try with L again (mind you, he might not even want to try it again.) I want L to know that I do love him. I just dont want to get rejected again. But I dont think I can be with J unless..
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I say, go for J! Listen, you can't spend your whole life waiting on something to happen between you and L, again. Because honestly, it may never happen. So I think you should move on, with J or just in general.
OR you can talk to L and see if wants things the way they used to be, meaning getting back together and see what he has to say. But still, please do not sit around waiting for him - it isn't worth it. Trust me.
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Guys and girls awnser plz!If a guy asks if you have a boy friend or not, dose that means he's interested?like i was talking to this a guy that i know on msn and he was like "soo do u have a bf?"It was so random... it had nothing to do with the conversation... (link)
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It just depends, sometimes it's just making conversation and pure curiosity. While other times it means I like you and want to date you, but I need to know if you're with someone else first.
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well my boyfriend and i r really close and just recently started dating even tho we have liked each other for a while. before we were best friends and still r and share everything with each other.
andyway so i am probably moving this summer and its really hard for the both of us and he doesnt want me to move at all. he hates the idea. im 14 and hes 15 almost 16. the thing is we arent sure if we should have a long distance relationship. honestly i dont think either of us want to but we both dont want to leave each other either. it is extremely difficult for him to except this because we both care for each other so much and love each other like best friends. we are best friends.
so my ? is i want to know what you think about long distance relationships and if they work out well or not. i would only be able to visit like twice a yr too. i dont think its going to work tho but the thought of leaving him and losing him breaks myheart. the thing is i wouldnt be able to see him in person and hug him and hold hands and kiss him and stuff. we go to different schools and already hate having to go weekend to weekend cause i just switched schools a couple months ago and we used to have classes together and see each other everyday.
and he will be able to drive by the time i move and said he might be allowed to go down and see me but i just dont things would work out well. plus if im moving its a new start-on everything. he says not to worry about it yet but i do.and i know we thinks about it too. we are in a serious relationship and this is the first time either of us have been in a serious relationship. i love having him as my first serious bf and its wrking out really well but i just dont know and or think its going to work well. it sounds like it would be too hard and i dont want us to decide on a long distance relationship and then get frusterated when it doesnt work out and quit and just have everything left like that. and no matter what we will be best friends-even if it's just in my heart and memories. thanks again :]. (link)
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Well, if you want my opinion, I'm going to be straight-forward about it: No. Long distance relationships are VERY difficult, and very few last through them. It isn't impossible, but it's definitely not easy. I've been there, and I bet I cried about everyday, it was terrible for me, and it's that way for a lot of people. So I do not recommend this, plus, you'll be moving and meet new guys. Then, you'll still be with this guy you're with now, visa-versa.
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Is it wrong to really like your counselor?
she's in college, and i'm in highschool-junior
it wouldn't be wrong to continue seeing her for guidance after i graduate?
any advice? (link)
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It depends on what you mean by the word "like." If you mean, you just like her in general as a person, and that she gives you great guidance, then I don't see anything wrong with it. Or you may mean you like her in a "I want to date her..." type of way, I think it's fine, just wait until you graduate from high school. Then, she or you cannot get into trouble, but right now - you can.
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I have a pimple under the skin on my bottom lip. I mean, it's not a bump.. I pulled my lip up to see a circle and a dot on it. You can't even see it.. it's just my lip color. My mom said it was a pimple under the skin so I'm going to go with what she said. I noticed something was off with my lips because that side was dry. But my lips are not chapped or cracked. Is there anything I can do to make it go away? (link)
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Check this out, it'll help you a lot. =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507367
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So there's this friend of mine, let's call him Joe. He goes to a different high school and I haven't hung out with him in a month. Sometimes, he texts me and, and I don't really know what to say. I'm really shy. I've never had a guy that I'm attracted to text me before. Last night, he texted me while he was in Puerto Rico,( which was really nice) and we talked for and hour and a half. I ended the conversation because I didn't know what to say, so I just told him that I had to go. What should I do? (link)
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I think you should text him soon, or maybe give him a call if you have his number. Tell him that you are sorry you had to go so soon last time you talked, and continue the conversation. You can talk about various things, like how your trip is going, how things are going back with him, etc. Here's a website with LOTS of convo starters for you. =)
http://myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/convo.htm
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how do you know if a shy guy likes you?!?! (link)
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There are various ways a shy guy can show that he likes you. He may tilt his head while talking to you, it's a sign he's listening and really cares about what you're saying. He might stare at you until you look back at him, then he'll turn away. The list goes on, I found this website for you that should help you out. =)
http://www.links2love.com/teens_flirting_2.htm
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Ok well my bf is taking me to the book store and hes buying me a couple books but i dont know what to get him and I am going to a hockey game with him so idk i guess our gift is just spending all day with each other. We actually arent dating yet but we r best friends and have taked about dating (we can talk about anything :] ) and i think hes going to ask me out before the game at his house anyways so bascially im calling him my bf in here. Back to the question: i asked him if I had to get him something and he said no of course not i dont care if you do and i told him i want to write him something instead. he knows i looove to write (want to be an author! i've already published a couple poems!) so i told him i was going to write something instead. i wanted to write him a note and the words to 'our' song. Does that sound ok? he sometimes just tells me when hes listening to it and loves it and that he loves me and so i thought writing him a note and the lyrics would be a good idea. i want to show him i care and i dont think a gift would work. plus im terrible at getting guys gifts! also is giving him one of those big solid hershey kisses cool too? its not the huge ones but the bottom is like 2/3 the size of the palm of my hand. and then maybe give him a real kiss? thanks SO much and if you have any other ideas PLEEEASE share! :] and he always wants pics of me so maybe a picture too? again THANX (link)
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I think that sounds great, very good idea. I would go with that, definitely. You may want to check out my gift guide on my column, though I know I'm answering this late. My apologies to you, and hope you have great holidays!
And a picture would also be nice!
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what do i do when my boyfriend flirts with every girl but he tells me that im being controlling when i say something about it but im about to flip out help (link)
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I think you should get rid of this one, I'm sorry to say. But if he was a good guy, he wouldn't flirt with every single girl that walks his way - especially, right in front of your face. Considering if he does that in front of you, makes me wonder what he does when he's NOT with you. Plus, I think it's a drama-filled situation, since he gets angry when confronted about his behavior. Your best bet is to breakup with him, and move on with someone who only wants to flirt with you.
Happy holidays!
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The opening of the hills when Audrina is walking down the street and she is wearing this silver dress.
Does anyone know where I can find a similar dress like hers? (link)
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H & M usually carries those types of dresses.
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some songs like.
seven years.
tears don't fall.
and some other songs sound better in acoustic.
what are some other ones? (link)
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*On The Way Down - Ryan Cabrera
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who is my soulmate (link)
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Jellybean.
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