about

Hi, I'm Courtney. I want to become a pre-school teacher :] and I've been though a whole heck of a lot, so feel free to ask me anything, i'll do my best to help ! xxo.
"i refuse to sink."

advice

so basically i met this guy at the beginning of the school year.at first we didnt talk even when he dated my "friend" for a little bit.then after they finally broke up he asked me if id like to be his friend.so i said yes ever since we have become closer and closer.as you probably figured i grew to like him.he sometimes acts like he likes me but at times he dont.he told my friend he wasnt intrested me but told my other friend he would think about going out with me.but he still flirts with me.he doesnt act like just a friend sometime.so i just kinda wanna see what he might mean by all this.thank you.

oh, the wonderful world of a boy's mind, it's a complicated and confusing place, trust me haha. It's like they should come with an instruction booklet ;] okay I was in a similar situation as yours at one point in time. He most likely is confused about where he stands with you, and where he WANTS to stand with you. This may be occuring because he might still have feelings for his ex, or doesn't know if you feel the same way as he does, or he doesn't want anything to be awkward between the both of you if you find out that he DOES or DOESN'T like you. yuh know? it would clear things up if you just told him how you felt and then he could stop trying to figure you out, and get with the program. yuh know? it's like a test, you don't know what will be on it, and during the test you're trying to figure everything out, and afterwards you know what was on it and what the answers should have been. it's the same thing with guys and girls trying to figure out what they want from one another. I believe that he likes you since you both openly flirt, but he wants to tell you himself how he feels [not your friends] or he wants YOU to tell him how you feel [that's why he said 2 different things to 2 of your friends so he could see your reaction.] So basically, he likes you, but is confused.
good luck, and don't sweat ittt, what's meant to be will be. hope I helped ! xxo :]

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This guy I like, J, likes another girl, A. A likes him too. Ive been talking to J for a month now and Ive known he liked A. But then tonight he told me that he really liked her and was asking for advice on when to kiss her. I dont know what to do bc a big piece of my heart wants him to be happy and a small part wants him to not like her or vice versa. Of course I gave him the advice bc I really do want him to be happy. And being the friend is about all I can do right now bc theres no way I would try to deliberately try to sabotage them. I know I can only be his friend for now but its tearing me apart inside. What do I to help him, her and also myself? Im really lost.

Me 13/F
J 15/M

Okay, so this guy i am basically in love with has a girlfriend of 3 months. i try to be happy for him also, so i know how painful this must be for you to put on a happy face when you're not feeling so happy on the inside. and you ARE helping him by making these things less complicated and less dramatic for him, yuh know? For her? who cares. she doesn't matter to you right now, it's just that you have to remember that he likes her, and until he doesn't, there's really nothing you can do because you won't sabotage them intentionally.. which shows that you have great character and are a great person. with that said, remeber that you have to make yourself happy. and i know right now that might seem impossible, but it's not. there ARE other guys out there, so try to venture out and find other guys. dont just be hung up on this one guy, you're 13, and have your whole life ahead of you, if you and this guy are meant to be, maybe in the future you will BE. but dont force anything, and just wait it out. go out with your friends, have fun, and occupy yourself. don't bring up the girl he likes unless he does, and try to forget about your worries, it'll make you so much happier.
oh and definetly jam to some music and write your feelings out in a jurnal or something, it'll like free your mind. sounds silly, but it really works. trust me :]
hope i helped hunni, and if you need anything else, don't hesitate to inbox me ! xxo, good luck.

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so my schools havinq a formal in about 2 months. i dont know what to wear or who to take.
i miqht just ask my bestfriend. [hes a quy)
butt i really want a quy i like there.
im not really 'fallinq' fer anyone riqht now.
butt if i happen to , lol , how should i ask them ?
&& where could i qet a not so expensive butt pretty dress ?
im not even much of a dress person , butt ill deal. haha.
i dont want a lonq prom dress ; i juss wanna short dance dress. :) any suqestions ?
&& should i have a friend qo help me find a dress fer her opinion ?

okay so for the dress thing.. there's a store called mandee in the mall, [i dont know if your mall has it] but here's a website and it has locations and everything on here. scroll through and see if you like anything. when i go to sweet 16s and bat mitzvahs and stuff i get my short, cheap, pretty dresses from here. i love it..
1. http://www.mandee.com/nshop/product.php?view=listing&groupName=dresses&mem_of=dresses%20%5Bamp%5D%20suits
- you can also go to this website and it has store locations, its also in the mall by me, they have some pretty cheap and pretty dresses :] its called deb's..
2. http://www.debshops.com/family/index.jsp?page=2&categoryId=3369421&cp=3371585.3365393
3. you can also try thrift stores and browse the sale racks in lord and taylors and macys and suchh :]

now onto the boy dilemmas :] okay so its in 2 months, so just see how this month goes and if you fall for someone, then good for you, if you don't, ask your best friend to go with you. thats always good because if you go with your friend, your only going as that and if you want to dance with other guys and stuff, he won't get mad :] yuh know? and if you wanna ask them, just be like, "hey, are you going to that dance with anyone?" and if they say no you could say something like, "yeah, im not either, i thnk we should go together, it'd be so much fun!"
something like thaatt. and yeah, bring a friend along to see the dresses, its always good to have a second opinion :]
dont sweat itt, this iss easy :] good luck and have funn ! hope i helped. xxo.

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So I met this amaaiiiiiiiiiizing guy!
He always sends me sooongs about love that makes the lover sound love your bestfriend // someone you can always count on and will always be there for you. which is exactly what I want out of a relationship. So I want to be able to suprise him with a couple songs like that.. Any ideas?

He listens to mostly country and roock but ill take any suggestions =]

I'll rate all answers!

here are some you'll hoepfully enjoyy :]

-Escape the fate: ashley
-we the kings: check yes juliet
-we the kings: secret valentine
-we the kings: skyway avenue
-a rocket to the moon: dakota
-a cursive memory: everything
-5 second rule: falling in love
-stereo skyline: heartbeat
-backseat goodbye: hey
-backseat goodbye: technicolor eyes
-anberlin: inevitable
-sherwood: middle of the night
-sherwood: the best in me
-sherwood: the only song
-red hot chili peppers: i could die for you
-acceptance: so contagious
-the spill canvas: staplegunned
-cash cash: sugar rush
-the cab: take my hand
-spitalfield:the only thing that matters
-britney spears: unusual you
-the audition: warm me up
-honor society: why didn't i?

i have lots more, so if you want any, just send me an inboxx. xxo :] good luck and have funn.

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Ok so in the 5th grade (im in 9th now) I liked this guy so I told my best friend and she all of a sudden went and blabbed it to him. Surprisingly, when she told him, he said he liked me back. Things were pretty cool between us I guess. The rest of the year was kind of akward for us but we made it through. People thought we went out but we really never did. Sometimes he would call me and sometimes we would talk at school but then during summer break he calls me and asks me if I want to go out with him. I wasn't really surprised but I didn't know what to say. I wasn't even in the 6th gade yet!! i didn't think i was ready for a relationship so i said no. He sounded hurt and I know i broke his heart but I just didn't know how to fix things. I was 11 then and now I'm almost 15. We haven't talked since then. He goes to my church but whenever I see him i make an effort to avoid him. I think he's avoiding me too and i just odn't know what to do. Should I talk to him? Or not? Should i leave things the way they are with us or should i try to become friends with him? I really want to be friends and honestly I don't know if I want to be more than that. It's crossed my mind a few times but I'm just not sure. HELP?

Thanks so much :)

In my opinion, I'd say definetly start casually talking to him. See how it feels, and it's bound to be awkward at first, but that all happened years ago, so there shouldn't be any hard feelings, yuh know? I'm sure he wants to talk to you also, but since you are both avoiding eachother, it seems as though he is too scared to come up to you and make conversation. so make it easier on the both of you and go up to him :] stop avoiding eachother and try to re-build your friendship that was lost. anything lost can be found. trust me :] and you'll boht find that you want eachothers friendships, and as of now, don't get start thinking about the "what could have beens" or the "what should have beens" just think of the present and not if you'll end up being bf and gf. there's plenty of time for that, just get this situation over with first, and then tackle the next one.
xxo, good luck :] hope i helped ! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me.

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im a dark skinned girl. like hispanic, indian dark. and i want to get eye shawdow that will stand out and look good on me and cheap. like walmart any ideas?

okay sooo, with your skin color, I'd definetly suggest tha you use either a gold or a deep purple color.
you can find either of these in target or walmart, just look where it says Loreal or Revlon in the makeup isle and the colors will be there. I know that revlon has this diamond lust color and it would look great on you !

good luck, hope I helped :] xxo. have funnn.

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Hi this is my senior prom and I want it to be perfect, but I can not find a hair style that I love. I am thinking about doing a curly pony tail or either curly half up. but i can't decide what to with the front. Like should I have it twisted back in rows or what other things could you do???

okay so, i have some pictures and ideas for you..

1.http://www.123-hairstyles-ideas.com/images/o108.jpg
-she did a little bump thing in the front. its really cute and modern :]

2.http://www.hairboutique.com/tips/images/UPDOS_01A_250h.jpg
-she just did big twists, which is really cute! i love it.

3. http://imagesme.net/beautyhairstyles/sarah-michelle-gellar-french-braid-hair-style2.jpg
-she has curly hair in the back, but in the front she took her hair and braided it to the back. also a very cute and modern look right now :] this is my favorite.

4.http://www.celebrity-hair-styles-magazine.com/images/celebrity-hair-cuts-gallery-14.jpg
-you can also do braids like this in the front. more than one, with some hair hanging down. it would look spectacular!

5. you can also just put on a headband or some cute clips..

hope i helped! good luck and have fun ! xxo :] if you need anything else, just inbox mee.

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I want somthing like this shirt (it can be in shirt or dress form) only in red and cheap.

http://www.zarmina.com/k021.html

I'd rather it not have as much enbelishment but it dosnt really matter.

i know they have a lot like that at..

-urban outfitters..
[in the store and on their website]
-forever21..
[store and website]
-luckybrand..
[store, website.. some of their locations are in macys or lord and taylors and such]
-freepeople
[website]
-gap
[store or website]
-old navy
[store]

hope i helped ! good luck :] xxo

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so i was at this MASC(missouri asociation of student councils) thing...and i met this girl, and shes really cool and we spent like the whole day together. but the thing is, she lives in southern missouri, and i live in northern missouri...about 6-4 hours apart. so my question is should i even try to get a relationship going or should i try, but never see her...but shes really cool and idk if i can just forget her...

!! don't forget herr !! you should go for it. if you feel a connection between you both, than distance won't matter. You'll figure out a way to deal with it, but seriously if you like her, and want to get a relationship going, keep in touch and go with the flow. see how it all works out, and maybe something awesome will come out of your persistance :]
hope I helped ! good luck and don't give upp. haha. have fun ! xxo.

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Can I have all of your opinions on this dress for prom? Ideally, it would be in either royal blue, or the platinum, which is pictured.



http://www.bghaute.com/style_details.php?product_id=741

oh wow. that is seriously a stunning prom dress. nice choice.
I think the royal blue would be a little much, so I would stick with the platinum, because that color is sososo pretty !
You're gonna look bea-u-tiful! good luck, hope I helped and HAVE FUNN !! xxo :]

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ok sooo yea my boyfriend and me took a break in december and he made out wit some girl.......she knew we were together but i guess she thought we werent anymore......so they made out and went out! my supposed bff was encouraging him i still havent forgave him but we are still together!!!! my boyfriend and her are always hanging out and then he is always ohh she is cool unlike u and ur friends ohhh she loves my family.............and she is just a bitch!!!!! what can i do???

I agree with the advice given before me. These people are not your friends, and aren't worthy of your great friendship.
I suggest you break-up with your boyfriend, who cheated on you. trust me girl, you can do 50 times better than that scum.
And your supposedly "best friend" needs to get a wake up call. find another group of people to hang out with. She's not cool and she's really backstabbing. you don't want to hang with those kinds of people, they'll end up with no friends when they get older and you'll have plenty ... laughing in their faces. :]
Just move on from them. Forget them. and if they come crawling back to you, tell them to hit the road, because you. deserve. much. better.
hope I helped, good luck, and if you need anything else, just inbox me ! xxo :]

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what makes a person easy to trust and easy to open up to them?

Well for starters, you have to be friends with them, to trust them. Perfect strangers aren't those who should be trusted, yuh know? :]
1. they're your close friend.
2. they are easy to talk to.
3. you can be yourself around them.
4. you're not afraid to say something stupid or ignorant around them.
5. they are friendly and kind.
6. they will tell you if your wrong, but support you or give you other options.
7. they help you when you need advice.
8. they have a positive attitude and you don't hear bad things about them.
9. they prove to you that they won't tell anyone what you say and that you can trust them.
It's mainly all about the person and how they act. If they are nice but totally backstabbing, then whatever, don't tell them anything personal. If you get into fights with the people you "trust" often because of something that was said or done, then you shouldn't trust them either because the ones you trust shouldn't be getting into fights with you. You also know that they have your back no matter what, in whatever situation, while some people won't. They will turn on you in 2 seconds flat. you just have to be careful and feel comfortable with the one you "trust".
Hope I helped ! good luck and if you have any other questions, feel free to inbox me :] xxo.

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In this Avril Lavigne fan video what music video is used at 2 minutes and 20 seconds through 2 minutes and 27 seconds?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pkGacEwwb9A

from 2:20-2:27 the music video is from the song "my happy ending"
I love avril :] ! she has great music.
hope i helped! good luck. xxo

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I am a 16 female. Just went through my first break up as of a few hours ago. We were going out for 7 months. He and I both decided to end it and stay friends. Although right now he is pretty pissed off. I am feeling 60% sad, 10% mad, 20% confused and the other 10% is lost somewhere in my brain. I've never experienced a break up before, so all I am asking is for some helpful advice or stories to help me feel better and move on.
Please and thank you!!!

Break ups suck.
I've been through a couple, and I'd like to tell you that it gets easier, but it doesn't :[ however, you do get over it in a matter of time. the first few days after the breakup are the hardest. but you'll get through it.
When my ex boyfriend and I broke up, it was hard because we had been best friends for 5 years, on and off. I tried to pretend ike I was happy, but hiding my real feelings just made it worse. I just had to talk to my friends and take my mind off of it. I had to remember the reasons why we broke up and it was because he wasn't the same person he was in the beginning.
You'll find another guy sooner or later. everything happens for a reason, just listen to alot of music and write down your feelings. Talk to your friends, vent a lot, and try to put the things that remind you of him away some place like in a closet or maybe even the garbage depending on how you feel. scream, cry, punch your pillow, but let your emotions out. holding them in does absolutley nothing. trust me on that. also, don't look at his facebook or myspcae or whatever, it doesn't help. and it just makes you think of them more. don't talk to him for a bit, let yourself and him cool off. and then when you both are more at ease and okay with what happened, try to resolve the problem or at least try to be friends. if that doesn't work. just forget him. no guy is worht your tears. :]
hope i helped ! good luck, xxo. and dont forget to go out and have fun as much as possible !

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I asked the questions before with my ex. Ok I started liking this other guy and my ex was going after my best friend but nothing ever happened. Now all those feelings before are coming back. I was almost positive I was over him. I talked to him the other day and like nothing bad happened like it did a few weeks ago. (Long story) Awhile ago his friend told me he was still mad. At that time I didn't care and I knew he had a right to be mad, ect. But I didn't care since I was over him. What am I supposed to do now? I think I still like him. This wasn't how I was planning any of it. I mean almost everything I do reminds me of him, no joke. And on top of it there is this other kid at my school who could probably pass as his twin. Now that's not helping me at all. All I think is, "he is so cute and it looks like him" Thanks for any help.

Okay, I'm going through the same thing, where everything you do, that guy is always on your mind. I know. it is so so so so hard. Like, I can't even stand it. and right now, you're going through the stages. first: you like a new guy. second: you think about the new guy. third: you start remembering how it was with the old guy. fourth: you start to miss the old guy. fifth: you can't get the old guy off your mind. sixth: you start to think you still like the old guy. seventh: old feelings you had for the old guy re-appear. eighth: you don't know what to do about all these feelings.
You have to figure out what you want. Remember the old guy? your ex. well. do you miss the old him when everything was good? because this is what most people miss, and they forget about the bad times. so try to remember when things were bad. when he wasn't the "old him" and when you do this, does it still matter to you? or do you want to get back with your ex? if you think you can handle being with him again, keep talking to him, but if you can't, then don't. cut yourself off from him completly for a while and keep talking to the new guy for a change. I'm not telling you to just TOTALLY write the old guy off, but stick with the new guy. you broke up with the old guy for good reasons, and if you got back together with him becaus of your old feelings for him from the start of the relationship, thats not healthy and it will most likely end 10 times worse between the both of you.
It's what you want to do. You have to follow your heart. if you feel that talking to him and liking him again is for the best, then okay. do it. but if you really really think about it and discover that you're better with the other guy, no matter how much "cuter" your ex was, then go with him. eventually, these feelings will pass [the ones of your ex] you just have to deal with them for the time being. it gets easier as it goes along. I promise.
hope i helped, good luck! and if you need anything else, or any other advice, feel free to send me another inboxx. :] xxo.

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so theres this guy that ive fallen so badly for. we had a thing for a little and he just swept me off my feet then. now its all crumbling down on me. hes so immature and gets mad at me all the time and ignores me all the time and i dont understand because im so nice to him all the time and i try so hard to be perfect. i know im never going to be good enough for him so im just trying to think of ways to get over him. like theres this guy whose so nice and perfect such a gentlemen but im still stuck on the imature guy that treats me like shit. i need to get over this one guy so i can hav a normal life not one constantly thinking what hes doing where hes at if hes thinking of me who the new girl in his life is. i got it bad for the kid, and it sucks we cant even be friends because for some reason he hates me, couldnt tell you what i did. oh well, should i just ignore him for as long as it takes me to get over him then start talking to him months later and see if he misses me? or should i just let him go forever? :/ .. help?

wow wow wow. im in the SAME boat as you right now. besides the fact that i haven't met anyone else I want to be with .. haha. but okay. I know that everyone on here is going to tell you to move on and stuff, but that is easier said then done. everyday I tell myself that it's over, he has a girlfriend now, just forget about him ... but i just can't. It doesn't work. and yeah, I talk to him, but it hurts to talk to him.
I suggest that you listen to music. lots and lots of music. i also thin that you should write down your feelings any way that you can. it helps after a while. and if you want to cry, CRY. let your emotions out, it will feel soosoo much better afterwardss.
Try to forget him. get with the other guy and have fun. hang out with your friends and have a good time. forget about him for a while, even if it's only for an hour. just take your mind off of it and over time it will get better. especially if you find a new guy :] just let him go, if he comes back.. then see what happens then. everything happens for a reason, so just go with the flow and everything will fall into place :] I promise.
good luck, hope i helped ! xxo

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ooooooomg sooo, theres this girl, i mean i guesssssss we\'re friends. but its mostly like a love/hate, hate/hate relationship. she\'s suchhhh a bitch to me, but thats okay cuz im an even bigger one back (:
and like sometimes i just cannnot stand the girl! like omgshh seriously whats up with her hairr!? mine is cleeearly more awesome cause its naturally striaght. i know shes jealous ;]
her names courtney, if you were wondering.
and i dunno shes kinda weird sometimes too i mean she said she was a shiny star with sprinkles..
oh and she said she wanted to push me off a bridge! i was like umm hellloo, i can swim stupid :) so she said she was gonna jump on me..
oh well.
well anyway, how bout some advice about how to curl my hair cause it doesnt..ever
kk thnnxx ;]

hahaaa, this courtney girl sounds like a good time ;] lol. awww, i bet you 2 are best friends :] !! thats so cute. and im sure she means what she says. all of the time. and im sure you do too. which is why you are the perfect friends. ahaha. okay well. we all can't have wonderful curly hair. ;] try not starightening it for a while, even if you do have staright hair. and then, after a week of not straightening it, take a curling iron, some curling mousse, and use it to your advantagee. this will hopefully hold for a few hours, and if it starts to fade, then at least you tried. :]
hope i helped ! xxo. good luck and if you have anyyyy other questions, just call me shiny starr and send me an inbox ;]

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How can you tell if a guy you're pretty good friends with, but also have a crush on, only sees you as a friend? He doesn't know I like him and I think he might too but I'm not sure. I already know what signs to look for to figure out if he likes me but i'm not good at this and I really need help figuring this out so i want to know how to tell if he just sees you as a friend. Please please help I'm so bad at this and I'm having trouble getting through to him as well =/

here is a list of signs and stuff. but way more in depth .. read it all, lol. seriously. this is sucha good site...
http://www.wikihow.com/Tell-if-a-Guy-Likes-You-More-Than-a-Friend

there really is no way of knowing except that .. well. if he doesn't have a girlfriend. that's a good sign :] but if he sees you as a friend, he doesn't go out of his way to talk to you or make you smile. his body language is also a HUGE part of this. if he's always turned away but still looking a you, it means he's offstandish, and isn't open to your feelings [the opposite is the oppostie of that haha..] also, if he tries to get your attention, it means he likes you and wants you to notice him as more than just that friend.
don't worry. every girl is bad at this. there are signs, but unless we stalk each and every movement a guy makes, we'll never know what theyre thinking haha. we're not their brains. just take a deep breath and keep your cool. you got this. you probably are getting through to him just flirttt like crazy girl. thats my best advice. flirt flirt flirt. he'll get the hint, and if he flirts back WOOHOO :]] just trust your insitincts. follow your heart. and maybe one day you can talk to him or get one of your friends to tell him that you liek him and see what he says. or get one fo your friends to ask him if he might like you, or ever could as more than a friend. you never know what could happen !!
good luck, and slow down. don't rush things. everything is okay. trust me. :]
xxo good luck ! hope I helped ! xxo.

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i sweat entierly 2 much and its always my underarms or my palms! need help anything that will work. also what can u do about yellow underarm stains. and i switch my deotarent brand about every 3weeks. (15/f) if it helps

I agree with Mrfixit. you should see a doctor so he can suggest other optons for you, but what you can do until then is..
-use baby powder on your hands. it dries it out and try to stay away from mosturizers for a while. thats just going to make your palms more moist.
-here are some deoderants I highly suggest you use..
http://www.dove.us/#/Products/deodorant/clinicalprotection_energize.aspx/
*REALLY GOOD !! and super fresh scent

http://www.dove.us/#/Products/deodorant/clinicalprotection_cool.aspx/
*love this, its simple and works very well.

http://www.dove.us/#/Products/deodorant/clinicalprotection_clean.aspx/
*this is also really good, just a different scent.

and for the underarm stains, get an empty spray bottle, buy some white vinegar, pour it into the bottle. spray it on the stains on your shirt until wet and saturated. then let your shirt sit for 1-2 hours [depending on ow bad the stains are] then throw it in the wash and YAYY clean shirt :]
or you could by oxyxlean and soak your shirts in that. but i recomend the less expensive white vinegar approach :]

good luck ! hope i helped ! xxo :]

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Okay, so basically my boyfriend promised me he'd see me today, and sleep over tonight.

However just before he was about to leave, he told me he couldn't come because he wanted to do a few chores. He didn't have to, but he wanted to get them done.

It's kinda stupid, but I'm a bit disappointed and angry at him. I didn't show that to him, I told him it was fine and I understood, because it'd be silly to actually argue with him over it.

But I feel guilty for feeling this way, it's not his fault.

I know it's pathetic, but I seriously wouldn't have cared if he said "I can't see you today, I have stuff to do"

It was that he was like "Yeah sure! Promise I'll see you today, and for once I'll be able to sleep over" but then just before he leaves he texts me saying "Sorry can't come over, If I don't do this stuff I won't be able to do it until tomorrow"

:(

Okay, look. you can't be mad with him or upset with him until you talk to him about why he backed out at the last minute. I mean, he could be nervous and totally got like freaked out, or he might have thought it wasn't a good idea and couldn't think of a better excuse because he knew you'd get mad. so when you speak with him, don't flip. Just ask him about his actions and that he can tell you anything and you won't get upset or anything. Maybe something is going on and he needs your help. guys are pretty complicated. and tghey tend to hide their feelings and try to make you happy, when they know that what they promise they can't follow through with it.
it sucks, yes, but if this was the case, then at least he wants to make you happy :] but seriously.. COMMUNICATION IS KEY. i promise, if you talk to him, you'll find out what's wrong. and i don't break promises.
Oh and you do have some right to be upset. he shouldn't make promises he can't keep. thats like saying you'll be home for dinner and never coming home. not cool. so you can be upset, but don't let that show when you talk to him, until after you hear his reasonings. just ask him why he felt the need to do his chores right when he was going to come see you. maybe awkward situations scare him.
I have maybes for you because I don't know the definites. He has his own reasons, and i have my guesses on those, but you should find out why and get it all sorted out. you'll feel so much better. and i think the main reason why you're upset is that he made an "excuse" or a way out. like you weren't good enough for the truth. you know? and I know how that feels. don't worry though, I'm here for you if you have any other questions or anything. just inbox me ! and keep me posteddd.
xxo good luck, hope I helped :] !

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