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Why am I feeling this way now??
I asked the questions before with my ex. Ok I started liking this other guy and my ex was going after my best friend but nothing ever happened. Now all those feelings before are coming back. I was almost positive I was over him. I talked to him the other day and like nothing bad happened like it did a few weeks ago. (Long story) Awhile ago his friend told me he was still mad. At that time I didn't care and I knew he had a right to be mad, ect. But I didn't care since I was over him. What am I supposed to do now? I think I still like him. This wasn't how I was planning any of it. I mean almost everything I do reminds me of him, no joke. And on top of it there is this other kid at my school who could probably pass as his twin. Now that's not helping me at all. All I think is, "he is so cute and it looks like him" Thanks for any help.
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Okay, I'm going through the same thing, where everything you do, that guy is always on your mind. I know. it is so so so so hard. Like, I can't even stand it. and right now, you're going through the stages. first: you like a new guy. second: you think about the new guy. third: you start remembering how it was with the old guy. fourth: you start to miss the old guy. fifth: you can't get the old guy off your mind. sixth: you start to think you still like the old guy. seventh: old feelings you had for the old guy re-appear. eighth: you don't know what to do about all these feelings.
You have to figure out what you want. Remember the old guy? your ex. well. do you miss the old him when everything was good? because this is what most people miss, and they forget about the bad times. so try to remember when things were bad. when he wasn't the "old him" and when you do this, does it still matter to you? or do you want to get back with your ex? if you think you can handle being with him again, keep talking to him, but if you can't, then don't. cut yourself off from him completly for a while and keep talking to the new guy for a change. I'm not telling you to just TOTALLY write the old guy off, but stick with the new guy. you broke up with the old guy for good reasons, and if you got back together with him becaus of your old feelings for him from the start of the relationship, thats not healthy and it will most likely end 10 times worse between the both of you.
It's what you want to do. You have to follow your heart. if you feel that talking to him and liking him again is for the best, then okay. do it. but if you really really think about it and discover that you're better with the other guy, no matter how much "cuter" your ex was, then go with him. eventually, these feelings will pass [the ones of your ex] you just have to deal with them for the time being. it gets easier as it goes along. I promise.
hope i helped, good luck! and if you need anything else, or any other advice, feel free to send me another inboxx. :] xxo.
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