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i have been dating this boy now for two years my parents recently informed me that they dont like him and i am no longer allowed to see him i love this boy with all my heart and if i just leave him like this because of my parents he would be tottaly devistated becuase he always talks about being together forever and things like that what should i do
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well its gotten to the point where they tell me i cant even bring him to my own prom im seventeen years old almost 18 in a month and i will be going to college in the fall where i can see him whenever i want because im going out of town college i just hope things dont downfall before then!
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Hmm well theres two options you can A.Do what your parents tell you to do and lose your love or B.Stand up for you love and stay with him. You can tell them that you arent going to leave him or sneak around but I dont suggest sneaking around because it could get you into serious trouble.well really that depends on your age.If your like 17 then you can pretty much just be like whatever I love him. Me and my ex actually went through the same thing cept worse I tried to sneak off and see him several times last year but wed be talking and get caught up then Wed get caught multiple times.They even tried to run him over.crazy eh? But he still stuck around and they dont ACTUALLY know i see him but im sure they think it and we are great friends.Just remember if you really do love him and stay with him your family will still love you.They are your family.But really its your choice. I dont want you to get into trouble but you shouldnt be unhappy either
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Okay that is totally unfair of your parents to tell you only now after two years?! you need to sit down and talk with them and ask them why they have a problem with him..and listen to them they are your parents and they are probably just concerned for you. take into account what they say and if their reasons for not liking him are totally un acceptable explain to them that you love him and that you know yourself he is a good person and would never hurt you and that you are not prepared to leave him just because they have issues and that they are going to have to accept him if they want you to be anyway happy=] i hope that helps hope all works out for you too. good luck!
<3 jess
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