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my crush knows i like him and stuff but he always is behind in his studies and stuff! lately he's been running to me for help! is this a good thing and if so how? and if not how?

signed,
Lost-n-Love

It is a good thing, I think, just because he's coming to you for help. Ask him if he likes you while you help him n stuff.... :) Good luck

x0-aMy gwendoline ..

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What are some new years resolutions?!

My new year resolution is to keep a relationship longer then 8 months :)

xO-amYgwendoline

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I'm the 15 year old girl that the 22 year old likes... you said that you're 14 and you're going out with a 20 year old? Maybe we can talk some more about this... almost everybody that has been responding to my question has just been talking about how it is illegal. I know that, but I don't think it matters if he's not pressuring me to do anything. He never has pressured me to do anything. He recently broke up with his g/f who was 16. I'm turning 16 this summer and he'll still be 22. (he just turned 22) He's says he usually likes younger girls because the girls his age are snobs. Lol, but he's really nice and I don't think he would ever pressure me to do something I didn't want to. And even if he did, I know how to handle myself. Are you sort of in the same situation? Maybe we can email eachother?

Hey!!... Yeah I'm in the same situation!! I'd love to talk to you! Do you have AIM?? If so.. my s/n is NaInErZzZ or if you don't my email is arichardson2008@yahoo.com (lol i think) Hope to talk to you soon!!.. BYE!!!

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To get down to it, I'm a 15 year old girl and a 22 year old guy likes me. I've known this guy for a few months and have become really good friends with him. I didn't know he actually had a crush on me till a few weeks ago. This guy is really nice, very sweet, he always cares about me. He always wants to know how I feel and how he can make it any better. He calls me practically every night. He trusts me and I trust him. We've talked about our feelings for eachother... I used to not think of him as anything more than a friend, but now I think I am starting to like him more. We see eachother at least once a week, usually with groups of other friends but I have been alone with him a couple times, once to his house. He has never tried to pull anything on me... he respects my boundaries, yet he shows he still cares. My parents don't like that I even talk to a 22 year old guy on the phone. If they ever knew I wanted to go out with him, they'd freak. I'd like to give him a chance, but I don't know if it's worth hiding from my parents and the fact that he's so much older than me makes the possibility chances of it working slimmer. Any advice on what I should do?

You need to talk to your parents about this, and make them understand that you're not going to go off with this guy & do bad things. Get your parents to meet him, and see what a wonderful guy he is. If you really like this guy, they should understand and be there for you. In a way, you should kind of understand where their coming from. This guy is 22, old enough to buy alcohol, to drive, to buy cigarettes. You're only 15, and they probably just don't want you involved with someone like that. Until they know what he's like that's what their going to think. I think it's really cute, I'm pretty much in the same situation. Except I'm 14 and he's 20. My parents definately don't want him talking to me, but you know. Doesn't really matter what they think when you consider them the way they are. Good Luck!

*__ amygwendoline

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im a 14/f...i weigh bout 105...yea i knoe its not so much...im trying to gain some weight too...and well this school year i started cheerleading...my arms had gotten a bit big...but i want them bigger!..nd my calvs are still small...i want them bigger!!..and most of all..i want abs!...i want my belly to look like beyoncez in tha new music video soldier...if anyone knows any exercises i kan do at home...to get my self looking good by this spring/summer please give me sum advice!

You can get Abs, from doing simple push-ups. But if you want $$$ involved.. Then you can buy the "Ab Rocker" & "Ab Roller" They're two different devices, and they definately work. Good Luck!!

xO __ amygwendoline

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well me and my boyfriend have been together for 10 months now and well it took 4 months for me to kiss him and well thats all ive ever done with anyone...well now hes kinda wanting more and is testing his limits and well i know its normal for guys to try that but i dont know...im only 14 is it normal for 14 year olds to do stuff like that? see my boyfriend has always gottin some from everyone hes been with accept me, but i kinda know that he cares for me b/c he waited so long and well if i do get up the nerve to do it once, will i have to do it alot? is he going to expect that more? should i do it? any advise?

If you do "it" once, then he will expect you to do it alot. It's honestly up to you, Don't let him pressure you into doing anything you want to do & if your nervous about it, then I wouldn't do it. You're just not ready, you're not too blame. Allot of girls are like that, and guys are too. I'm 14, and I've yet to makeout with a guy because I'm too afraid I'm going to suck at it, and I'll feel stupid. Of course I've had my chances of guys wanting sex from me, and I just never gave it to them, because I know how some guys are, they start rumors after you do it with them and then you break up, and your life is ruined. That's usually how it goes, but if this boy is for sure the best guy in the world, and you trust him with everything you have, then go for it! Good luck, and make the right choices.
xO __ amygwendoline

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Well, i like this kid. I told this other kid that was friends with him and he told him when i didnt want him to. But he thinks his friend was just lieing. He always flirts with me and acts like he likes me. Now hes going out with this other girl and i am very dissapointed. What should i do?
I am a girl, age 13

Well I think you should tell him A.S.A.P for yourself that you like him!! Unless, your friends with the chick he's dating, if not then definately tell him! If your too nervous to, then write him a note explaining everything!! Then maybe he'll break up with his current girlfriend for you, since he seems to like you alot!! Good luck.
xO__amygwendoline

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this boy and i meet 1 year and 2 months ago at a cabin and i live in minnesota and he lives in a driffrent state and we talk all of the time on the phone and internet.he asked me out and i said yes and i dont know if its the right thing because we havent seen each other for awhile what do u think is it the right thing to do since i like him and he obviously likes me???

well i personally think its right just because the long distance relationship thing doesn't matter to me, i think its a good idea if u really liek the person then what does it matter if they live 1000 miles away or 10.

keep it up if u really like tha kid. but if it gets too tuff like you may wanna hug/kiss/or whatever with him and u can't and you want to be able to do it, then give it up
but good luck in whatever u do

*amy

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well, im 14/f and im a freshmen also! well i have this problem, me and my ex-best friend charles (ever since this yr) were planning on going with each other to the freshmen dance, ever since 5th grade, we just talked about it in the summer too! but in school now we don't talk ever, i wanna talk to him, its just he has his own crowd, and i have my own, he talks to me sometimes, but when i asked him if he would still go to the freshmen with me he said. "no, im taken karissa" (some chick from a differ. school) its like, he used to LOVE me soo much from 2nd grade to 8th grade, but in the summer he stopped. and i liked him ever since well the summer, and we couldn't date cuz he liked karissa, its horrible i jus dunno what to do, i've told him how i've felt n stuff, what would u do? i really wanna go with him. i rate high thanks!

well i think you should punch karissa n whatever.

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Does anyone know any good diets that actually work? Any exercises?

Well, If you exercise and you eat healthy.. im definitely sure you'll lose weight.. as for that
~Tae-Bo
~Pilates
(what i do, they work cool)

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see i dated this guy that we'll call david and it didnt work out.... but now he always smiles at me in the hallways and i always get chills in my stomach and i like run out of breath should i tell him how i feel?

Yes Definitely!! Cause he might have feelings for you! Aw thats so cute, but yes tell him right away just everything
good luck
amY*

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hey, i was reading answers that you wrote to other people and i noticed we have the same name! lol woot woot! anyways.. man ive fallen in love over the past few months with the guy who used to be my best friend ever.. well like we used to talk on the phone everyday and just hang out al the time.. hes in H.S. and im still in junior high so we go to different schools.. he honestly cares about me alot and he tells me it all the time.. but it seems that were drifting and im making so much effort not to but it seems he just wnats to let this all slip away.... what do i do to stop it?!?! thanks for your help... *amy*

hahah, awesome!!

well!! im pretty sure i know what you mean, but let me just get this right..

he used to be your best friend, but since you guys are in differ. schools you aren't as close as you used to be? and he doesn't care that everything is slipping away? but you do, and you care for him a lot..

ok lol. well i think you should straight-up tell him that you really really have feelings for him, if he doesn't know already but if he does good! and tell him that you care for him soo much and you really don't want your friendship to go away, just because you like him alot..

if he tells you that he cares for you allot, im sure that he feels the same way you do, and you probably just need to talk this out with him, and make sure that you guys don't drift apart from each other.

i had the same problem, and me and my friend never ever talked again, and we still don't, its actually quite bad, and i wish i made more of an effort to be his friend, but i didn't think it was that important, but mann do i regret it now.

well tell me what happens.. and if u have any more ?'s please ask away! good luck!!

xo AMY

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wELL...i LiKe a GuY a YeAr yOunGeR...aNd hE dosnet know me... really but i know who he is..and hes smokin! since hes a year younger and we dont have ne classes it might be hard 2 get 2 know him... any suggestions?
i RaTe well
thanx alot

if you know anybody in his grade, get them to talk to him for you to see if he knows who u are. or if he thinks your hot, and get him to write you notes n stuff, and get to know each other that way.. or if he has aol talk to him on there

good luck
AMY

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i need help & fast. how do you scrunch your hair ? i used moose but minez not working so great. i need help & fast !

well when you get outta the shower, dont brush or anythin, keep it in the towel and then it should be wavey just take gel and scrunch your hair up and then blowdry it while your still scrunching it, and then use hairspray to keep it in, thats wut i do
good luckk

//nainee

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how do u french braid?? im having a sleep over and i wanna do someones hair like that for our game on tuesday :o)

I'm not sure, but search on Google. It will show ya how lol. and with pics

-amy

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Ok, I'm getting contacts really soon. The problem is, I have this little fear of things going in my eye. I have practiced so many times trying to put them in, but I always subconciously close my eye and I can never get them in all the way. What am I supposed to do to get over this? I really want to wear these contacts, but I'm so scared putting them in!

Lol, I have the same problem. Well I did. Just go for it. It's definitely going to be scary, and the scariest part is just putting it in there. It depends what brand you have. If you have Tru-Clear or Freshlook then stick to your eye really fast if you just put them right, they suction just right then and there, but sometimes it takes like the 2nd or 3rd try to get em in. Now that I have contacts I'm not afraid to even put eyedrops in by myself. Its cool. But good luck.. If you have any questions, jus drop something in my box, I'll help you if u need any help.. or im me (NaInErZzZ) good luck neways!

~*nainee..

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Ok well I really, really like this guy, K. Well K and me met online and we were "talking" and now we have met in person and all. Well I like totally ADORE him! He is soooo sweet and funny! I think he likes me too. But now he has said that he is going to stay single for a while! He's scared because all of these other girls have hurt him really badly, it has just torn him up! How can I make him see what's right in front of him and make him get over these other girls and start a relationship with me? ~Thanks sooo much!~
*`*`MissEmmyBoo*`*`
Oh and by the way I am a 14/f! :)

Tell him that you really want to start a relationship with him, and your not like everyother gurl he has dated. Tell him to give you a chance, and if he thinks that your like "every other girl" then you can jus remain friends. But if he won't then you need to understand the fact and appreciate what relationship you two already have. Good luck..

_amy

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When you get your first period is it normal if it just lasts for 2 days?

Every gurl is their own person and everyones different. So yes, its normal.

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Ok, so I'm a fourteen year old girl and to start off with, I have recently broken up with a boyfriend I had for over a year. I loved him very very much, and still do. He says he still loves me as well, but he moved and I never see him so it's too hard to be anything more than friends. Well recently, I've been hanging out with another guy a lot. He and I are both in marching band, so we see each other a whole lot. Well yesterday, we had a band compeition starting at eleven AM, and the bus got to the school at 1:30AM. Well at the compeition we were hanging out a whole lot, and on the bus ride home he started using me as a pillow again(this isn't anything new) and I subconsciously started playing with his hair. All of a sudden, my hand slipped into his and the next thing I know we're holding hands. See, what I'm wondering is, is it okay to be slowly falling in love with this new guy while I still have feelings for my ex? Is it fair to him? Help.

Yes, your definitely going to feel this way alot. Of course your going to have a crush on other guys while your dateing somebody. It won't be fair to him if you start dateing someone else while your dating him. You don't even need to tell him what your feeling. But if you still have strong feelings for your ex. Maybe you should wait until it starts to fade. But it's honestly up to you. Good luck* =)

*aMy

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OK...uhmm i have this guy that i really, really like and he treats me like a princess and like im the most precious thing in the whole entire world! but the thing is...my dad doesnt like him b/c he herd sumthing about him and now he has that assumption about him. I REALLY REALLY wanna go out with him and go to our skewls formal but i feel like i cant go bhind my dad and what he says...what should i do? please help me!! thanx!

Woah, that sucks. Your in a very very bad position. Maybe if your dad got to know your boyfriend better, then maybe he would like him. Or get your mom to talk to your dad, but if she feels the same way as your dad, then that sucks. Well you have just got to talk to your dad, and make him think that whatever he heard isn't true. If that doesn't work, then your just going to have to talk to him SERIOUSLY about this, and tell him that he has to trust you.

~*Nainee

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