well, im 14/f and im a freshmen also! well i have this problem, me and my ex-best friend charles (ever since this yr) were planning on going with each other to the freshmen dance, ever since 5th grade, we just talked about it in the summer too! but in school now we don't talk ever, i wanna talk to him, its just he has his own crowd, and i have my own, he talks to me sometimes, but when i asked him if he would still go to the freshmen with me he said. "no, im taken karissa" (some chick from a differ. school) its like, he used to LOVE me soo much from 2nd grade to 8th grade, but in the summer he stopped. and i liked him ever since well the summer, and we couldn't date cuz he liked karissa, its horrible i jus dunno what to do, i've told him how i've felt n stuff, what would u do? i really wanna go with him. i rate high thanks!
adore_diz_mami answered Saturday October 9 2004, 6:47 pm: i think u did the best thing by telling him how u felt. Now if he dont respone back with the answer that u want to hear then dont waste your time on him..because this mean that he not goin 2 like u. Just try lookin for some1 better who will pay more attenion 2 u. [ adore_diz_mami's advice column | Ask adore_diz_mami A Question ]
UnluckyWishes answered Saturday October 9 2004, 2:00 pm: Maybe there's nothin you really can do, just hope he might change his mind.I mean in 8th and 9th grade is really gonna be the time were you have fights the most or with the most meaning and when you find the people who are gonna be true to you.It's horrible thinking that everythings changing but life can be really unfair.Try going out and have fun with your friends maybe you'll meet a guy if you take your mind off of it or he'll come around.Hope i helped. [ UnluckyWishes's advice column | Ask UnluckyWishes A Question ]
gUeSsHoO278 answered Saturday October 9 2004, 1:13 pm: Hmm...honestly if he is taking Karissa even after you told him how you feel, understand this now: He's not into you. If he was, he would atleast tell you he likes you but he's taking Karissa. In elementary school, it's not love, it's puppy love. You guys WERE tight, but now, he's changed and he wants to move on. THe best thiing for you to do is find another guy who is into you, and really likes you for who you are. People change, and it hurts, but thats the way life is, it's best to accept that, rather than try to steal him away from karissa. good luck. [ gUeSsHoO278's advice column | Ask gUeSsHoO278 A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Saturday October 9 2004, 11:44 am: babii dawl pretty much said it, but yea. People change over time and theres nothing we can do about it. But its time you find your own guy . . . i mean... maybe later charles will want you back and ull be with another guy but at this point his attitude isnt even worth being arounD.
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