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Q: is there anywhere where i can get a lowfat sweets/cookies recipe? i would prefer it to have a low about of sugar and calories but still tastes good. (under 100 calories per serving with decent size servings)

and if you have the nutritional facts or whatever on the site/recipe that is a def bonus!

I would suggest maybe try www.foodnetwork.com i believe thats what its called.They have recipes of all kinds of things,just go to the search bar and type in "lowfat cookies".I would suggested oatmeal rasins cookies as being a pretty healthy choice.I hope i could help!

♥ danielle

Q: what are the "birds and the bees"? i have heard it a lot and i have an idea of what it is but can someone explain it completely? thanks! ill rate!

Haha i didnt get it either,i was like birds and bees what the heck are they? but yeah anywayz lol its really "the sex talk".Its basically where your parents or a trusted adult talks you about sex and the pros and cons of it,how you make a baby,protection,things like that.You could also try google if you dont get it but its pretty much means talking about sex.Hope i could help!

♥ danielle

Q: OKay say if your getting a blood test for say Bi Polar disorder, would they be able to determine if you had been doing drugs. For example if you had done weed within the week.

Ehh i hate blood tests.Im pretty sure they can,That stuff goes into your bloodstream,they can tell usually if you did drugs between like 3-4 months ago.Also try typing it in google for more information,but i think im correct on this.

♥ danielle

Q: Well .. i know this is kinda nasty but im old enough believe me because if i wont then i wouldnt ask this .. well nobody ever talked to me about sex but like i know about it .. but i was wonderin does a guy wont it shaved or hairy .. like not alot of hair i dont know help!!!

Oh i answered this question like awhile back.But yeah most guys prefer it shaved,very few i think like it unshaven.But if your not fully ready to shave it all the way,some guys dont mind the hair being about a half an inch long.It really depends on your partner.

♥ danielle

Q: Are guys supposed to masturbate? This was a big issue at school today. I was wondering if most guys masturbate. K thanks .. ♥ Tiff

well i dunno if they are supposed to or not its just in their human nature too.I heard that about 79 % of guys masturbate but i think that numbers way higher.Bascially every guy does,its normal for them,thats what happens when they hit puberty and their hormones start lol.

♥ danielle

Q: 13/m
ok i hope that this is in the correct category. well i masturbate wayyy 2 much. i kno i need 2 stop. 1 because my girlfriend doesn't like me doing it. 2. becuz its a little weird that i do it a lot. like whenever i get a boner ( and no1 is around or im in my room , if im at my house ) i masturbate. i only do it at my house and shit but still. Plus the major thing is that i need 2 do this for my girlfriend * i dont wanna loose her or risk loosing her *. please dont tell me 2 think of sumthing else, trust me i have tried, it doesn't work for me.
thanks in advance
tiredofit

hun its normal pretty much ALL guys do it.You didnt have to tell your girlfriend you do it because its really none of her buisness,its a private thing.Just tell her you dont do it anymore,or if you want to tell her the truth,tell her your trying really hard to stop but its something all guys pretty much do.If she dosent understand or wants to dump you because of that shes not even worth it.I hope i could help!

♥ danielle

Q: is it true tampons make your cherry pop? and does it mean you're not a not a virgin anymore?

yes and no,it depends on how far you push the tampon in or how big it is,but i doubt your cherry will pop from that.It dosent technically mean your not a virgin anymore because you didnt have intercourse,there are plenty of ways to op your cherry,so dont worry about it your still a virgin ; ]

♥ danielle

Q: Yesterday I was on the phone with my boyfriend and he said that he wanted me to give him a bj. But i don't know what that means. I'm not planning on doing anything sexual with him for a while. I'm just curious to know what it is. So if anyone could tell me what a bj is that would be helpful.

I didnt know what that meant either for awhile lol but umm it means that he puts his penis in your mouth and you have to blow or suck on it.Its also known as "giving head" too.Hope i could help!

♥ danielle

Q: ok i am 13/female and i just started my period October of 2005. it hasnt came on since then. and it is january 22nd of 2006!! is something wrong with me? my mom says that i sgould oviolate every month so thats why im scared. help me. i rate 5's for good answers.
Thanks

Oh hun,its completely normal.Your period is irregular the first time you get it it mayb last to a yaer or so.The same thing happened to me except it wasent as long as yours,it was about 45 days i think.Hope i could help!

♥ danielle

Q: So I have this boyfriend I love with all my heart. We've been going out for a little over a year. But like lately Uve been meeting other guys and I don't like them or anything but I always think of like what would happen if I cheated on my boyfriend with one of them. One of these guys, I will be seeing this weekend and I know it's possible something couldl happen. And I don't know. I don't want to cheat, but I might. Helppp!

If you truly love your boyfriend,you shouldnt even think about cheating on him.I mean how would you feel if he cheated on you? When you hang out with one of the guys this weekend,if you feel the tension between you two starting and you think your ready to give in and do something with him,tell him that you have a boyfriend that you really care about and that it could really mess things up between you too,and then hopefully he will back off.If you hang out again with them and your afraid of doing something,bring one of/or a couple of your girlfriends along with you so they can stop you if you give in,and to make you feel comfortable.I hope i could help!

♥ danielle

Q: well i like this guy n yes i am gay. hes a senior i like him alot a realy realy lot. n he is gay n my only problem is im a freshman. n we talk sometimes not often but we have alot in common. i need to know if i should bother asking him out. n e help would b wicked good.

thnx

I think you should ask him out.The worst thing he could say is no.You being a freshmen and him being a senior isnt that much of a age difference.I hope i could help & good luck!

♥ danielle

Q: iwant to give me advice about poliomyelitis

go to google and type in "poliomyelitis" it will give you tons of stuff you need or want to know about it.I typed that in and got tons of helpful sites.

♥ danielle

Q: Me and my girlfriend of 3 years just broke up. Well she broke up with me, claiming she needed a time out to decide what to do with her life. I love this girl so much, and as you guys can imagine im debastated and heart broken. My question is, what should i do, ive been getting all emotional, and i dont wanna be anymore, the way i see it she got rid of me for no real reason. Should i start dating/fooling around with other women, or should i wait a litle bit? i always find that its easier to forget if you get somebody else.

Well im sorry about the break up,they can be really rough.Since you guys just broke up,i would suggest that you maybe take some time for griving,since your relationship lasted for 3 years,its going to take you awhile to get over her.But if you want to get out and start to date to get your mind off of her,you could try it but you might not be just ready yet for that.It really all depends on if you think your ready to start dating again,whenever you think your ready go for it.Moving on is a slow,hard process but youll get through it,everyone does at some point.I hope everything works out for you!

Oh well you are her could possibly go out again,but you dont know how long that will take when shes ready to be with you again.You can still have that hope of being with her again,but i guess in the meantime you can date other people.

♥ danielle

Q: I had sex with a guy and the condom broke, its been like... 2 weeks and i was wondering what the earliest signs for pregnancy were? Like,what starts happening to your body? and how soon does it happen? pleeeaaseee i need to know as much as possible! im 16 and i CANNOT be pregnate! thanks alot!

http://www.surebaby.com/
go to the gray box all the way at the bottom,theres also a link in there for more signs.

I hope that helps you out!

♥ danielle

Q: hi, i'm just wondering if anyone can tell me what the all extras are on Friends season 10 dvd and how long the extras last.
Thank you x

http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000AMFEHC/104-2406254-7415902?v=glance&n=130

i think that might help,you could also try goggling it ; ]

♥ danielle

Q: Okay. The guy I like likes me AND my best friend. My best friend also likes him. Me and this guy had practically gone out in the summer and we were very close, so you can probably understand why I'm still hanging on to him. We're very good friends. And, everyone that I talk to says we'd make such a good couple and we're meant to be. But, my question is, should I still be hanging onto him, or let my best friend have him (even if it does mean I'll be hurt)?

God i hate it when your friend likes the same guy as you.I would talk this out with your friend,if one of you goes out with him,your bound to get jealous of one another and get into a fight.I would maybe ask the boy to see which one of you he would rather go out with,maybe like one night he goes out with you then the next night your friend and he then decides which one he likes better and then he can be with that girl.Im basically just rambling on about this but lol.But it could also matter who ever gets him first you know ? im sorry its like midnight im like half awake im soo sorry,i hope i could help you out,and maybe one of my opitions was useful.Just dont fight with your best friend over a boy its stupid, remember friends are whatever boys are whatever ; ] jsut be happy for her if she gets him,and hopefully she will do the same for you if you get him.

♥ danielle

Q: Okay, so this is long. But, I went to summer camp with this REALLY amazingly hot guy, well call him Jake. Okay, well I wasn’t exactly nice to Jake. Its kind of confusing but I guess I was jealous that he flirted with a lot of other girls and it was a couple summers ago so I was about 12 and yeah, stupid with boys. I added him as a friend on myspace like forever ago. And, we never really talked on it but I was basically in love with him. He lives like 15 minutes away from where I live. Anyways, I never saw him again and he never commented my myspace or anything. Well, one day, I guess he noticed me because he left me 3 picture comments! They all said “Gorgeous.” And “Youre so beautiful.” I was shocked. And THEN he left me a message that said that he loved me. I know its stupid, but I obsessed. It was about 4 days ago and I cant stop obsessing! So, today I IMed him and he wouldn’t answer. That’s the second time Ive tried. I also left him a message on myspace and he didn’t respond. Its like he doesn’t know me! Why would he say all that nice stuff and then not talk to me? Im so confused.

Hmm well maybe he was just busy and coudlnt answer you at those times.Just keep leaving him comments and Iming him soo he was HAVE to answer you.He could be shy to talk to you also.He could also just be being friendly with you which really sucks.I would maybe suggest saying to him on a comment that you two should hang out sometime,and message him your cell/home phone number.I hope things work out for you!Boys are soo confusing arent they ? lol

♥ danielle

Q: okay so tonight my bf and i were in the hott tub.. kinda fooling around. no we didnt have sex. But i did end up getting alittttleee excited and i think he did too. But it was all touching n stuff. ANYWAY.. its pretty silly buttt is there anyway i could possibly get pregnant if he did ejaculate? i mean theres cylorine.. and stuff. but idk. just wanted to see if theres a possible chance.
dont be lame with your answers. its not a joke. An honest answer would be greatly appreciated.

5 for whoever can tell me.

No,you wouldnt get pregnant unless he stuck his thing inside of you,youll be fine.

♥ danielle

Q: ok, i hadnt got my period and im 13 years old. I went to the docter and they said i wouldnt get it for a while,but ive been having pains in my side ALOT. I went to the hospital and they said that im probly getting my period. I do have pubic hair and i do have dischange and ive had this since like this time last year. My boobs have been getting bigger and everything. When do you think ill get my period?

Dont sweat it,your time will come.I got mine when i was your age.It seems you me you will be getting it soon because you have all the signs that mean your going to get it,so really all you can do right now is wait.About the pains,im not too sure about that because i never got pains before i got it the first time,but if your doctors say that stuff is going on with your body then i would trust the doctors on this one,they know what their talking about lol.

♥ danielle

Q: i just joined this site and im so confused. it wont let me upload ANY pictures because they are over 15k. how do you make them so they arnt?
thanks!

this is what i pasted from the last question i had,i think this is what your talking about :

i know it sucks dosent it? well what i do is i
go to my pictures and right click on the picture i want,then i do "edit" then i go to the top of the toolbar and go to image "stretch/screw" then do for the sizes i do 50% for both.And then go to file "save", and then i click "done".I hope i could help you out!

♥ danielle