Question Posted Wednesday January 18 2006, 10:11 pm
Okay, so this is long. But, I went to summer camp with this REALLY amazingly hot guy, well call him Jake. Okay, well I wasn’t exactly nice to Jake. Its kind of confusing but I guess I was jealous that he flirted with a lot of other girls and it was a couple summers ago so I was about 12 and yeah, stupid with boys. I added him as a friend on myspace like forever ago. And, we never really talked on it but I was basically in love with him. He lives like 15 minutes away from where I live. Anyways, I never saw him again and he never commented my myspace or anything. Well, one day, I guess he noticed me because he left me 3 picture comments! They all said “Gorgeous.” And “Youre so beautiful.” I was shocked. And THEN he left me a message that said that he loved me. I know its stupid, but I obsessed. It was about 4 days ago and I cant stop obsessing! So, today I IMed him and he wouldn’t answer. That’s the second time Ive tried. I also left him a message on myspace and he didn’t respond. Its like he doesn’t know me! Why would he say all that nice stuff and then not talk to me? Im so confused.
Porphyrogenitus answered Thursday January 19 2006, 12:49 am: It sounds like he's playing around with you. Don't attach too much significance to this just yet. Take your time to find out more and attempt to engage him in conversation. Don't act like a love struck ninny by swooning over his every word. Be composed (at least outwardly appear as such) and interact with him like you would any other guy. Lead him on. If he genuinely is interested, he'll pursue. If he drops the ball then you know he was just playing a cruel joke. [ Porphyrogenitus's advice column | Ask Porphyrogenitus A Question ]
jealousyxo answered Wednesday January 18 2006, 11:42 pm: Hmm well maybe he was just busy and coudlnt answer you at those times.Just keep leaving him comments and Iming him soo he was HAVE to answer you.He could be shy to talk to you also.He could also just be being friendly with you which really sucks.I would maybe suggest saying to him on a comment that you two should hang out sometime,and message him your cell/home phone number.I hope things work out for you!Boys are soo confusing arent they ? lol
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