how do u link ur advice column ya know to like put in ur profile b/c mines not workin and i was wondering if there was ne other way.
thx! and please helP!
lyl! xoxo
sweetheart00
go into edit profile and in the grey part next to like the font and stuff theres a little blue word that says 'link' click on it and in the first space put the link and in the second space type what u want the link to say in ur profile..wow the 29th..i was a little late huh? heh
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im 14 (almost 15) and my bf is already 15. weve been going out for about 9 months, and weve only done kissing. i want to go further but i dont know how to get him to...help!!!
haha im sure he wants to too..hes a guy. just talk to him about it..make sure if u have sex u use protection tho
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i was in the car with my dad the other night and there was this possom in the middle of the road and it looked like it had rabies b/c it was still alive...should u kill it and put it out of its missory or go around it?
how do u kno wut rabies looks like? cause when an animal has rabies they dont actually foam at the mouth. and im sure since u were in the car u were going to fast and u werent close enough to see any of its symtoms. id say go around it because its almost impossible to tell from inside ur car if its sick..there was this possom in my backyard a few months ago and we thought it was sick and dying. it actually layed its head down in the dirt with its mouth and eyes open for like 5 min while we argued over who was brave enuff to stick their finger in its mouth. we went inside the house for a trashbag and we came out and it was gone. all he was doing was playin possom. we could have sworn he was sick and had died. so my point is unless u get out of ur car and kno exactly wat rabies is and wat its symptoms r and u kno its sick and suffering..go around it..hope my preachin helped.
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The last time i had a boyfriend was when i was in 6th grade. I am now going into 9th. I am not an ugly girl and i have gotten hit on a couple of times. I also have alot of guy friends. I can manage to get guys to be my friends but not to ask me out or be into me that way. what could i do to work on this and improve my chances in getting a boyfriend? (P.S. i try to be myself around everyone)
do u flirt? maybe if ud flirt a little guys would get the hint that ur open and looking. also..maybe u should make the first move..like if theres a guy u like. ask him if he wants to hang out after school sumtime or go to a movie..if he doesnt get the hint then hes probly just stupid and not worth it. but since ur going into the ninth grade dont worry about it. guys in highschool r different im sure ull meet plently of new guys and go on plenty of dates.
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on of my turtles has a lil sratch on his shell...its not very big and hes not acting weird or anything...but i was just wondering if he can feel the sratch or if it hurts him...
thnxxxx!!
hey thats a good question. i used to have a box turtle who lived under my deck outside and we had to set him free cause (thats were he came from) my dog would chew on his shell and it would actually bleed. but i think that was actually the skin attatched to shell. im not sure let me look it up for you..
When injured, turtle shells bleed, and the wound likely hurts, since shells contain nerves. Damaged shells can heal, but the process is slow.
ha! that explains it. wow..glad u asked.
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im only 13 and i really like this kid but he lives too far away. i met him at summer camp. he's really cool and fun to hang out with. but im not sure if he likes me. I want to go out with him (if he likes me) but i dont know if it would work because its really long drive. im going back to camp in a few weeks and i dont know what will happen...HELP PLEASE !!!!!
tysM!
PS. I RATE IF ITS GOOD ADVICE!!
well if u have the balls..ask him out and c where it goes. long distance relationships dont normally work out, but sumtimes they do. besides what have u got to lose..just give it a shot and if it works great and if it doesnt..then its no big, ur only 13 therell be plenty more guys ahead of u.
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Ok well tomorrow I'm leaving for Flordia. I hafta go on a 5 hour plane trip! Does anyone have any ideas for things to do?? I have my cd player (but ive already heard all my cds!!), a walk to remember book (my favorite :D), and a notebook. CAN ANYONE HELP ME??
make conversation with the ppl next to u. thats what id do. theyll most likley be just as bored as you.
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Ok lets start with this i have been dating my boy friend for a year and a half. But for some reason i want to hurt him. I dont know why though I write weird stuff about him then the next morning i dont even remember writeing that. Or being mad at him. When he asks me to call him i say no he asks why i say i dont know, When he asks for a kiss i push him away. Me and him have kids together and im ingaged to him. And im happy very happy with my choice but latley iv been wanting to be mad at him and wanting to hurt him. He is a very nice smart kind funny sweet guy and he wont do anything wrong to diserve it. But iv just wanted to. What triggers it most the time is when he is with his friends hanging out talking about other girls and stuff and he doesnt mention me. And that he will pick on my favorite bands and movies and stuff. But i also say that this other guy is cute to so it gives him rights to say that about other girls. If you can help me please please help!!
um i dont want to sound pessimistic or w/e but my dad is bi polar..hes in prison cause of it. i think they make pills for it, u should see a doctor before u hurt sum1 or urslef.
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Everyone at school thinks it is REALLY weird for poeple to wear pure black outfits and black make up. Black is the only color that really looks good on me, so I prefer to wear it.
is there any other color that has the same slimming effect as the color black? im not fat, but im not the skinniest. ive got big boobs and a kinda chubby lower stomach. i want to hide this, so i wear the black stuff.
i just need another color in clothing that looks good with almost anything and is slimming in those areas i mentioned.
u can wear almost any color just as long as its a darker color. and for makeup and stuff try like dark brown colors n stuff.
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ok well i am a crazy grl u noe and i like to be with my bf a lot u noe and i still like to make out and all that crap but other tiems i just want to hang or have fun like i do with my freidns like egg ppls houses or teapee u noe jsut pure fun and do guyz not go for like just full of energy personality grls i mean will they ever wanna do that kinda stuff with their girlfrend give me some advice
eh dont worry about it theres guys out there out like that u just gotta be patient and be urself and theyll come to u..and if there isnt then u have no choice but to become a lesbian. im jk..but really just be patient, theyre out there.
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im kind of going out with this boy secretly.i feel terrible about it.but if anyone ever found out they just wouldnt accept us.well we barely talk to each other anymore i dont know what to do.he always seems to be really busy.If we do talk its like for 10minutes really late at night.how can i spend more time with him or talk to him more with out anyone finding out?please help me..
i dont wanna judge u or anything cause u said they wouldnt understand ur relationship..but i dont c y if u really love eachother, it isnt worth trying. and if ur not accepted then at least u still have eachother. i dont think u two should date if ur ashamed of him..but if thats how u want it then ur just gonna have to give up ur free time with ur friends and spend it with him if u want to spend more time with him. cause its obviously one or the other.
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hey. what will happen if u jack off before your voice changes? is it ok? i really need to know!!
absolutley nothing..so have fun and wack away
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OK, I really like this guy, a lot like i cant stop thinking about him no matter what people tell me about him, like it doesnt even matter to me, but like, im not sure if he REALLY likes me, hes never said like "i like you" as cheesy as Im sure that would sound, but, hes always wanting to do stuff (btw i just asked another question earlier sorry :-/ ) and like, im okay with it, but how do i tell him that i dont want to take it too far unless were in a relationship?
exactly like u just did. tell him u kno how things are goin..that ur not sure if he really likes u, but that no matter..u dont want it too go to far unless ur dating.
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Sorry this is so long, but u need the whole story to understand.
About a week ago, I had sex with my boyfriend. The next day, i told my best friend about it. Since im only 14, she flipped out on me. She told me I was WAY too young and I was stupid for doing that. She made me promise I wouldn't do it again until I was older.
She has always said she will respect what I do even if I do mess up. But she didn't understand that.
A few days ago, I had sex with him again, and didn't tell her. I talked to her on the phone last night, and I accidently told her I had sex again, and she flipped out. She asked me a bunch of stupid questions, but I answered them. I also let it slip that I gave my first blow job. She REALLY got mad about that, so I told her I was kidding about it and I had never done that.
I want to tell her I did all that stuff, but im afraid she won't understand. Is there any easy way to tell her? or is it best just left alone?
well if uve told her more than once and she flips out everytime it seems that its best left alone. but before u completley decide to drop it. try talking to her one more time about it. ask her why it bugs her so much, cause she seems to be freaking out way too much for it to be only cause ur 14, maybe shes jealous of u..but then again she really could just care. but its your decision to mess with this kid. if she doesnt like it its ok for her to express her opinion but she cant make u promise like that. just try talking to her about it one more time and say everything that u feel u need to say and if she continues not to understand and continues to freak out just avoid telling her..its her own fault.
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ok, next year i will be in 7th grade and i am gonna do athletics. im kinda short for my age and dont have much muscle or anything. im not overweight, but im not exactly "strong and athletic". im afraid that next year i will make the bad teams and be one of the worst atheletes there. im not a ver good runner and im afraid were gonna have to do alot of that! i just dont wanna look stupid in front of all my other friends who are tall and long-legged and will be able to run a mile in 5 minutes, wen im bak there truggin along. does any1 no an easy way 2 get in shape without havin 2 like do hours and hours of strenuous excersise?? plz answer! :)
I RATE WELL!!!!!
theres really no easy way to get into shape without workin pretty hard. but if u think ur gonna be doing a lot of running. then start running now. got jog around ur block a few times a day. start out slow tho otherwise ull just mess urself up and quit. but also dont worry about what ur friends think. if theyre ur true friends they wont care and if they do theyll only wanna help. so like i said just pick a time of day and jog around ur block a couple times..everyday (exept for like weekends cause u should rest too) and then after a week or so run ur block 4 times instead of just two. ull be in runnin shape in no time..i run/walk everyday cause i wanna stay in shape, and its not hard and strenuous its actually pretty relaxing..besides the heart rate. it gives u time to think n stuff. try it.
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hey i need help, i dont know what to do. i found out that my boyfriend doesn't like something about me and i dont know if i should confront him or just pretend i never found out.
ask him about it. it shouldnt be a big deal bc theres almost always at least one thing u dont like about sumbody but if it really bothers u than u need to ask him otherwise itll continue to bug u and cause bigger problems in ur relationship.
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my sisters and me are fighting alot and they are herting me like big bleading scarches what do i do
take sum of those kung foo classes..no seriously..kick her ass a couple of times and shell back off.
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i'm 15 and i want my belly button pirced and my dad doesn't mind but my mom want let...i mean all my close friends have theres done...even my friend that has the meanest parents in the world! but i was woundering how i could get my mom to let me get it done!??
first off..u have to be 16 to get ur belly button pierced and u have to have 4 forms of id. like ur birth certificate and drivers permit (cause u need a picture id and sumthin with ur birthday) and same for ur mother or father who has to be there to prove relation and age. im not sure exactly what you could say to them to convince them to let u get it done i just think you should kno what ive told u and that if they say no..dont do it urself. it could turn out horribly and u could end up in the emergency room..and it could come out crooked and stuff. also..if they say no, dont go to some place thatll do it without id because they are very unclean and u could get aids or some other disease. just take other ppls advice on how to convince ur parents to let you..and if it doesnt work then u can get it done when ur 18 cause then ur parents dont have to be there.
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Last year my step-dad was diagnosed with a brain tumor. (cancerous) And since then everything has changed-- which i expected. But i didnt expect my whole family to get so uptight about things. I mean, hes not fully cured ( never will be ) but hes still living.. i want to show them that he can still have fun!!! How do i help them understand that it would be bettter for everyone if they let him out a little more? ik.. its a weird question, but i need some advice..
~ cori
i kno how the cancer deal goes too. but they just might not be letting him do as much stuff as before because even if he looks and acts ok hes still really unhealthy and sick. his body cant take as much stuff as it could before. but just because they wont let him have as much fun outside the house doesnt mean u cant have fun with him inside the house. even so much as just playing a simple bored game with him or watching tv with him will make him happy. and unfortunatley making him happy is the only thing u can do for him. but if u really want to try and convince ur family to let him out more just try to sit them down and talk it over with them. thats all u can really do and just hope theyll listen to what u have to say, but then again they may help u to realize sum stuff about his condidtion too.
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hey--> my brother [a college kid] screamed at me because he said i told his best friends sister [who i really dont even talk too bc shes older than me] all these stories about stuff they do at parties but i didnt...i tried to convince him it wasnt me but he doesnt believe me...today i was looking through his conversations in the log manager on aim and my bro n his best friend were talking about all this stuff they think i said but i honestly didnt know about any of it! and i dont know what to do...me and my brother got along last year really well and this summer were constantly fighting...i tried talking to him but it didnt work...hope u can help
just do what you can to avoid fighting with him, but its ok u two r supposed to fight its what brothers and sisters do..and we always get over it too. hell eventually figure out what happened or find out who really told and thingsll be ok again so dont sweat it. just try to get him to sit down and calmly talk about it with u again and if he wont then its not worth ur time anyway cause hell get over it. but if u two talk just tell him exactly wats on ur mind..about how u two are constantly fighting and it makes u sad and talk about u guys' lack of trust. its something that u guys should eventually talk about anyway.
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