The last time i had a boyfriend was when i was in 6th grade. I am now going into 9th. I am not an ugly girl and i have gotten hit on a couple of times. I also have alot of guy friends. I can manage to get guys to be my friends but not to ask me out or be into me that way. what could i do to work on this and improve my chances in getting a boyfriend? (P.S. i try to be myself around everyone)
Sporkster answered Saturday July 31 2004, 7:29 am: Maybe it's because they're intimidated by you. All boys, even though they may act bold and daring, are scared witless when it comes to asking girls out. Just flirt with them a bit to let them know you're interested. Once they're pretty sure you're interested I'm almost certain they'll ask you out. [ Sporkster's advice column | Ask Sporkster A Question ]
*ashlee* answered Saturday July 31 2004, 6:12 am: do u flirt? maybe if ud flirt a little guys would get the hint that ur open and looking. also..maybe u should make the first move..like if theres a guy u like. ask him if he wants to hang out after school sumtime or go to a movie..if he doesnt get the hint then hes probly just stupid and not worth it. but since ur going into the ninth grade dont worry about it. guys in highschool r different im sure ull meet plently of new guys and go on plenty of dates. [ *ashlee*'s advice column | Ask *ashlee* A Question ]
Siren_Cytherea answered Saturday July 31 2004, 2:53 am: That's great that you try to be yourself around everyone. Yay!
You just have to find the right guy. I went 6-8 without a guy. I got one the summer of 8th grade, lol. It's really just about them realizing that you're cool and that you deserve a chance (girlfriend wise)
I really don't think there's anything you can do to actually improve your chances of getting a boyfriend. Talk to people, be yourself, and guys will notice.
Hope this helped a little!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
DreamTheDream answered Saturday July 31 2004, 2:39 am: All i can say is be yourself and one day the right guy will come along and accept you for who you are. Dont change anything about you just to get a guy..you`ll get one some day. Maybe not right now, but you have to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one. Good Luck [ DreamTheDream's advice column | Ask DreamTheDream A Question ]
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