im 14 (almost 15) and my bf is already 15. weve been going out for about 9 months, and weve only done kissing. i want to go further but i dont know how to get him to...help!!!
Siren_Cytherea answered Saturday July 31 2004, 3:17 am: Firstly, consider yourself really lucky to have a guy with you that long who hasn't pushed to go any further than just kissing!
Okay, since YOU want to go further, the best idea would be to just kind of...bring it up casually.
Don't push, though, if he doesn't want to go further. Good things can take time...^_^
Hope this helped a bit!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
TheAdviceGuru answered Saturday July 31 2004, 3:17 am: im sure hes just as scared as you are, if your not comfprtable talking to him in person try talking to him on the intenet about it or have one of your friends bring it up. but chances are if youve gone 9 months with only kissing youll have to make the first move to go further just confident and go for it. [ TheAdviceGuru's advice column | Ask TheAdviceGuru A Question ]
BeastFromTheWeast answered Saturday July 31 2004, 3:12 am: I wouldnt push things. Talk to him about your boundries and what you want to do. He probably wants to go further too, but he could be scared or not ready. I am sure once you guys talk about it you will be able to get further. [ BeastFromTheWeast's advice column | Ask BeastFromTheWeast A Question ]
Mackenzie answered Saturday July 31 2004, 2:31 am: Just bring it up. Tell him how you feel.. you've been together and while and you feel like it'd be appropriate to take the next step. Don't pressure him though; that wouldn't be good. Goodluck! [ Mackenzie's advice column | Ask Mackenzie A Question ]
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