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HELP!!
Ok lets start with this i have been dating my boy friend for a year and a half. But for some reason i want to hurt him. I dont know why though I write weird stuff about him then the next morning i dont even remember writeing that. Or being mad at him. When he asks me to call him i say no he asks why i say i dont know, When he asks for a kiss i push him away. Me and him have kids together and im ingaged to him. And im happy very happy with my choice but latley iv been wanting to be mad at him and wanting to hurt him. He is a very nice smart kind funny sweet guy and he wont do anything wrong to diserve it. But iv just wanted to. What triggers it most the time is when he is with his friends hanging out talking about other girls and stuff and he doesnt mention me. And that he will pick on my favorite bands and movies and stuff. But i also say that this other guy is cute to so it gives him rights to say that about other girls. If you can help me please please help!!
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Maybe girl you need a break...just hang out with your friends for a while :)
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Maybe u guys need a break. Not like breaking up or anything, just take some time to be by urself away from him. Go and hang with just ur friends. C if anything happens. Tell him about ur relationship. If u dont like how he talks about other girls tell him. In relationships u should always be truthful to each other. communication is everything in a relationship. *Jennifer*
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all you have to do is follow your heart....explain to him how you feel about him and your relationship... if you dont like how he talks about other girls then tell him and you have to stop talking about other guys!! the key to success in relationships is communication!
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Haha, before i read your additional info i was going to say that maybe you are bi polar. I am not sure if you are on any sort of medication, but if you arent, i really suggest talking to your doctor about starting some. With being bi polar and having feelings like you are having towards your boyfriend, that can be very dangerous..and it could also eventually be dangerous to your kids. If you get the right medication it can help you to control the way you are feeling. I also think you really need to talk to your boyfriend about this and make sure he knows why you are mad or why you want to hurt him. Good luck :)
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Well, more than likley it comes from you being bi-polar. I know a few people who are bi-polar and it is, as you know, something that causes drastic mood swings. You should go to a doctor to take pills for that. That's more than likley the problem. If it's not, then maybe you're just feeling frustrated over being around him so much, and you need some space away from him. Just try and remember ya'll are both not going to agree on everything, so if he doesn't like your bands it's alright. I think it would help if you went to the doctor and got some medicine to help you out, if you have it, then just make sure you're taking it. OR just spend some time away from him, go on a vacation by yourself maybe with a few of your close friends.
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um i dont want to sound pessimistic or w/e but my dad is bi polar..hes in prison cause of it. i think they make pills for it, u should see a doctor before u hurt sum1 or urslef.
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