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me and my bf were talking last night and he kept saying i hate my brother i wish aron was my bro (thats his cousin) and he kept saying it and saying it and like i hate him i wish he wasnt my brother and i said im glad your bro is your bro and he said why do you always stick up for him? and i said cuz.. i have my reasons and he said he hated his bro more and more and kept going on and i got really mad b-cuz i love my brother and my brother is dead so out of that i said at least your bro didnt fricken die... was saying that totally wrong? i mean he kept going on and on and i wanted my point across and i've never told him it b4 but now he knows and after i said that it was a loooooong silence but then we hung up and he called back and said... i love you... and then we got off the phone with that (link)
i'm sorry bout ur borther...n no u werent wrong at all...u did good that u letted him know that sometimes ppl dont value someone till they lose it...so u did good :)n did nothing wrong xoxo effy


me and my bf were talking last night and he kept saying i hate my brother i wish aron was my bro (thats his cousin) and he kept saying it and saying it and like i hate him i wish he wasnt my brother and i said im glad your bro is your bro and he said why do you always stick up for him? and i said cuz.. i have my reasons and he said he hated his bro more and more and kept going on and on i got really mad b-cuz i love my brother and my brother is dead so out of that i said at least your bro didnt fricken die... was saying that totally wrong? i mean he kept going on and on and i wanted my point across and i've never told him it b4 but now he knows (link)
hi,i'm soooo sorry bout ur brother..anywayz no u didnt say it wrong...if u guys have problems bout this then explain to him that it bothers u b/c of wut happend to ur brother...also remind him that ppl these dayz dont value something until they actually lose it...so tell him to b greatful for the brother he has ;) xoxo effy


Now I have this friend (boy) who i tend to like a lot! and sometimes it's weird we see each other a lot but in not the right places and we barely really know each other...but we do...i know this is kinda confusing..lol..but anyways, he asked my friends if i like him and they asked me...i mean i would say yes but the only thing is i dont really "trust" these friends...because they could come out and tell EVERYBODY! and i dont want that..you know..i think he figured out that i like him...i dont constantly stare...he does sometimes...does that mean he likes me? is it wrong for me to like him when i barely know him? should i ask my friend to ask him out for me? HELP!

Signed,
Confused Cupcake (lol) (link)
hi, well i dont think is wrong for u liking him...n since he asked ur friends to ask u if u liked him and he stares at u then prolly he likes u...so give it sometimes...flirt wit him n everything...stare at him back ;) give him some hints that ur interested n let HIM ASK U OUT ;) xoxo effy (play a lil hard to get ;))


what does sex feel like the 1st time i need to know asap (link)
i dunno cuz i never had sex...(i'm still a vergin) but from wut i hurd from my friends the first time it hurts...(that actually depends on the body of the female) usually to make it easier for u (if ur a gurl) u need to b real horney so it wont hurt as much..n plus if ur horney it will hurt but it'll b a pain that u'll enjoy...if ur a guy u dont have to worry bout it i garauntee ur gonna lov it...lmao ;) xoxo effy


This category probably doesn't match my questions but oh well. Anyways... I really don't have that much body hair but most of what I have is black hair. Does anyone know how to bleach my like arm hair blonde? Don't say "be happy with who you are and don't try to change your looks" but just to make it clear to yall, I am doing this for myself, not for any 1 else. Please help asap atleast answer b4 like July 9 or 10 or w/e. Please and thank you! I will rate you if you answer and if it's a reasonable answer. Thankz so much! Luv yall!
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hi...well go to the store get a hair blecher...but body hair blecher...;) xoxo effy


ok well i know that i should just leave him alone but let me tell u the story first..well me and this guy named Jared dated and he told me he loved me but we broke up because there was a misunderstanding and now he had been with this girl for three months and i now see that i am in love with him and he wants me to stay out of there relationship!!!What do i do?!?!?!? (link)
wow...dats a tough one for u sweety...if i were u even though it would b hard n everything i would stay out of the way...i mean put ur self in the other gurl shoes...u wouldnt like it if his ex would try to ruin u guys up would u?!?! didnt think so!!! well dont b a cock blocker n if u lov him so much then let him b happy wit who ever he wants...u in the other hand try to forget him n hang out n do fun stuff, meet new ppl n new guys ;) may b u havent found that MR.RIGHT yet ;) xoxo effy


Ok me and my ex boyfriend were going out for 4 months and we broke up and went back out the next month.. and he has changed alot.. in a good way and a bad way.. because he used to talk about other girls and everything with me but now he acts like he doesnt have time for me and he is always yelling at me .. but i really love him and i dont want to break up with him but i know i should because he treats me like crap.. i dont kno what to do. (link)
tell him how u feel n that u dont appriciate the way he treats u...if that dont work then wtf break up wit him...try to forget him n move on...i know its easy to say n hard to do but sometimes life is a biatch n there's nothin we could do bout it...+ i'm 100% sure u'll meet plenty of other guys n u'll b perfectly fine ;) xoxo effy


Alright, as extremely cliche as this sounds, I have fallen for my best guy friend. We both have seperate boy and girlfriends, and both have expressed the desire to break up with them. (Because we can tell each other everything.) Well, almost everything. Some how over the last year I have fallen for him, hard! He's really understanding but I don't want to ruin our friendship if he doesn't like me that way. I have turned down a lot of guy friends and I know how awkward it feels to be around them. But it would feel so goood to get it off my chest.

Any advice? If I should tell him.. how? (link)
well dats a tought one there...may b u should write him a note how u feel...n tell him everything in the end also mention that if he feels weird bout it u understand...n its ok tell him to pretend that he dont know who wrote it...that its "his lil secret admire" dats it...i hope it works...hope i helped ;) xoxo effy *best wishes*


Ok my friend Candace really likes this boy right. And she is only 14 and she told him she luved him and he told her he did to. But she doesnt know if it was real though. What should she do she is like Luvs him but then she has another boy she luvs to and she luvs them alot the thing is they are cousins. lol..so yeah she likes them both goes out with them both and she can both talk to them really good like there conversations are always good and interesting. and she likes them both alot. but luvs them both. is that even possible? what should i say to her? *she likes them both the same way and she luvs them both??
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def. its not love...its puppy lov...or should i say she think she does but she doesnt...she just prolly likes they way they look n she likes them a lot but not lov! def. not love! anyways tell that gurl to stop pimpin n think bout wut she want n who she wants b4 she looses both! xoxo effy


i went out with this guy fro 8 months, we broke up durning the school year and i still like him. now my friend likes him. well shes so annoying and she brags about what they to me. Even though he doesnt like her at all and thinks shes annoying. I duno how to make it stop, shes really getting on my nerves and i already tried to talk to her about, it didnt work. HELP! (link)
tell her how u feel...talk to her one more time if it doesnt work....then try to avoid her n ignore her...i dunno wut else u could do...xoxo effy


hi..im 14 and i still havent even had my first kiss yet. Nor even a boyfriend...ive been asked out before and i just get to nervous to respond. Also, i dont know what to do when im with a guy. Like when i liked this one dude and i sat by him on a charter bus and he was holding my hand and i just was like freaking out and i didnt know what to do...i turned around...what do i do??

**tHaNkS** (link)
well try to relax...is just a guy..u need to b more self confident :-D try to b more flirty...n try to relax...think ur better then them n u can do much better then him :) relax n just B U ;) xoxo effy


are you starving yourself if you eat one salad per day? (link)
yahhhhhhhhhhhh.........wut r u doing...if u dont eat u get sick n u become anorexic...eat healthy like salads n fruits or vegetables...but not just one salad per day...;) xoxo effy


ok im almost 15 and i only have a 34A... i hate it. I heard that if you sleep with no bra on at night your boobs will grow faster because the bra isnt there... but i dont know... and i also herad that moving your arms in circular motion everyday will also increase the size... my mom has big boobs.. why cant i!!!!? (link)
awww...well listen i hurd that if u sleep without bra boobs grow but i dunno if its tru or not...give it try if u want it so bad...but i think u should b happy wit wut u got ;) *best wishes*xoxo effy


I have had this friend for a really really long time. i am ova her house like almost every weekend and we r soooooo close. people actually think we r twin sisters. but lately this girl has really gotten on my nerves. she sings when she doesnt kno the words and she is a horrible singer and she always treats my sister like crap and when i say something to her sister she tells me not to talk to her like that. i dont kno wether i should tell r not!!! PLEASE HELP ME!!! (link)
hi,i'm happy on the "relly close friendship" u guys have but if she treats ur sister like crap then tell her to not treat her like that...talk to her n tell her that u dont like the way she treats ur sister...tell her that she has to respect u n ur family 2...n when she sings when she dont know the words just ignore her :) lol xoxo *best wishes* effy


i went out with this guy fro 8 months, we broke up durning the school year and i still like him. now my friend likes him. well shes so annoying and she brags about what they to me. Even though he doesnt like her at all and thinks shes annoying. I duno how to make it stop, shes really getting on my nerves and i already tried to talk to her about, it didnt work. HELP! (link)
well try to talk to her one more time...see wussup...ttell her that u dont care bout wut they do or talk or w/e...and u dont wanna kno...tell her to stop her brags n so on..if that dont work then just totally avoid her n ignore her *best wishes* hope i helped xoxo effy


OkaY there is this boy I like. And we go out, lets say his name is Chris. Well we were talking one night and he told me that he luved me and he wasnt kidding. And I told my friend I wasnt like I didnt believe it I mean if A boy just tells you that its really wierd. So yeah I told him I luved him back. But I dnt even know if he does. He told me he does and even e-mailed me saying that he luvved me and that he wasnt lyin. i really like him but im tottally not sur what to do and i like him alot. but i never really thought about luvin anyone until it was tru and how am i supposed to know its tru. i think i luv him but im not 100% sure and i told him that back so obviously he thinks i feel the same exact way. well please can someone tell me if you think he is playing with me. i mean he i liked him in the beginning of 8th grade but then he said that he couldnt go wit me cuz he aint want a girlfriend then all of a sudded we do go out and he is like all i luv u and he said he started likin me on the last day of school whitch was about a month and half ago..so its been a while and we have only been going out for..4dayz?!

Please help me! (link)
wow sayin "i love u" after 4 dayz...moving fast there...but then again he liked u since the last day of school n u guys been talkin for n month n something so...i think its ok...u should kno if ur in love if u think bout the guy 24/7 n all u want to do is do it wit him...u always talk bout him...n when u think of him u automatically get a smile on ur face...u talk to him a lot...n u cant stand it when u cant talk to him for one day...u get butterflys when ur bout to see him or when u think of something sweet bout him...u tihnk of the sweetest names for him...n u think that he's the cutest,finest,hottest,sweetest,adorable amazing human that there could b...thats how u kno if ur in love...if u dont feel that then ur not but that dont mean u dont like him...just give it sometime get to talk to him more...get to kno him more...get to see him more ;) n things will change...u'll either let ur feelings grow...(if u like his ways) or the feelins will drop either way let him know ;)*best wishes* xoxo effy


ok im blonde right now but its like died blonde it looks good but i want to put some strawberry blonde highlights in with it i have blue eyes so i think that it would look good im just not sure how strawberry blonde goes with already blonde hair so can someone tell me how it would look or give me some sites to go to so i can see how it would look? thanks love lots... ps. my hair is like 2 inches past my shoulder (link)
i think it will look cute...but if u wanna find out ur self...go to www.google.com n search for imagis n 'died blonde wit some strawberry blonds highlights" it should give u lots of pic's...xoxo effy


Is it possible for my husbands ex wife and a man to go into an attorneys office and pretend to be myself and my husband in order to make up a will leaving everything to his three children while leaving out my own? I had heard that my husbands former wife and her male friend had my social security number and pertinent info which could be used for such a thing. I heard also that they might attempt to make out a will taking all of the property and giving it to her children (who are also my husbands) . I don't know if it would be that difficult seeing as an attroney would not know my husband nor myself and these two could possibly pull this off. I am paranoid (link)
....i bet u are...i would b 2...xoxo effy

p.s.sorry bout the whole thing!


i was wondering, this lady wants me to babysit about a few hours after i get the braces on(tomorrow)
do u think i'd be up to it
sum of my friends that went to the same place im goin said that it only hurt after the numbness wore off, my sis said it didn't kick in for her until a few days later

do u think i would be up to watchin kids
they aren't hard to handle, one of them will do w/e i want, the other will either be in his backyard(fenced in) or watchin t.v, or on the comp

sumtimes they give me a bit of trouble, but nuttin i can't handle on a regular basis

if not my sis will get the job
i really WANT the money, but if i can't handle it then ill give it to my sis

i was just askin sum1's opinion on the subject
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i say go for it...b/c like ur sis said they usually dont kick in until after few dayz...like 2 or so.. :) so give it a try...xoxo effy


does anyone know any good web sites that share ideas to prank? (link)
just go to www.google.com n search for "ideas to prank" it should give u lots of websites :-D xoxo effy




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