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Age: 17
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My older sister is 17 (Im about to turn 14 in a few days) and today I was hanging out with her in her room while she was looking through her drawers for a pair of shorts. I saw something that looked like a condom wrapper but she covered it up so quickly, i thought i must have seen it wrong because my sister told me shes a virgin. Well, when she left the house, I snooped & turns out .. it was condoms, a few of them. And about 3 were un opened. Im MAD. She lied to me. And shes told me repeatedly how she wants to save herself until marriage. I dont know what to do, do i tell anyone? Im afraid she'll get an STD, or pregnant. But I cant talk to HER. Or she'll freak out at me and deny it - i know. (link)
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You have to let your parents know about this they can do something about it.You're sister may even get pregnant even though she uses a condom because of the pressure and she may not even know.And show them where you saw the condoms,when they have it in their hands she will be in trouble but it is for her own good, and std is a very terrifying disease to get.If the condoms are gone from by the time they check up where they are then you should tell them that you are not lying.that she must of taken the condoms,and get proof that she is using condoms to have sex.You could have a camera hidden or take pictures of it if it is necessary.Your parents also should be absolutely careful with her,and watch her every move because she is heading the wrong path.
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around my town lots of the college girls wear there pants or t shirts inside out is there a reason or what? (link)
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Yes there is because they are maturing on how to dress,want to look like an adult like they are and to get respect from others.If they dress like teens then they think they will be treated like that, and people may even think they are.They must also have a lot of responsibility that is the only thing I don't like about when you become an adult.When you are a young teen you get free stuff from your parents which is cool.College girls want to also people to have something good to be said about them and give a good example to society.
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what do girls like in a guy im 13 m and id like to know what girls like anfd stuff like what are their faveiot features not just on looks but like other things like persanality to (link)
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Some girls love muscles,for the guy to be built up,other girls like guys with a nice personality,and has a good sense of humor.Different other girls like a guy to be hot like have a cool style of hair,dress cool,matches with his outfit as well.Other girls want the guy not only to be goodlucking but have something big in common with her or just somethings in common with her.Most girls favorite features is guys face of a guy to usually impress others but other girls favorite features is the body.But you should choose someone who is not conceaded because that will be a sign that the person is dangerous if you know what I mean.
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my sister in law is 7 weeks pregnant and would like to know what the sex of her unborn child is? she already has 3 children.she is 30. (link)
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Go to the doctor with her to give her an examination,he will use a special device to detect the unborn baby,and then he will tell you what type of sex the unborn baby is.He will even give her a picture of it so you could view it.
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I go back to achool in just about 2 weeks!! I'm crying hystarically every night because I don't want to go!! My best firend is not coming to school with me anymore and I'm going into 7th grade so that means cliques have been made and I'm on the outside!! In 6th grade I did not make many new friends so I don't know how many Im going to make this year! I'm scared and depressed. How can I make the most out of my summer?! (link)
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Enjoy your free time by hanging out with your friends while you still can,go shopping for clothes to go to school,go to amusement parks,or six flags,or have a party at your home or do some workout ,go out early,do what pleases,and have fun!
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i have one really good friend. He is a guy. The only person who understand me and that i can trust.
He both like each other a lot, but his ex girlfriend who he dumped still likes him, his ex and i have been starting to become friends.
My ex boyfriend still likes me and my ex and the guy i like now are like best friends and are in a band together. Im still good friends with my ex too.
I dont wanna hurt anyone-because that like kills me. Me and the guy i like havent talked about dating yet but i want to, and im sure he must too.
School starts monday, and i did kinda want to go into school single just in case i meet someone,but i really like him.
How can i tell his ex? That would be like betraying her because i know she likes him. But i dont wanna hurt her.
What should i do? (link)
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You should probably break up the friendship with her if she does like the guy, then go out with someone she likes but you could ask her if she'll be okay with it,if she is you could stil be friends with her.What you could tell your ex is that you have feelings for his friend,want to go out with him, if he disagrees don't listen to him you could go out with whoever you want to you're single,he has no right to make decisions for you.Most importantly don't hide things from your ex or your friend it is better to tell them then to have it in your conscious.
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what happends when my best friend gets a lil too close to my boyfriend??! i mean they are always talkin! and my boyfriend always has ta talk everything through with mah bestfriend b4 he talks to me about it!! uuh its soo annoying! how can i get rid of that?? (link)
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Simply by spending more time with him,keeping him in track,ask him what he talks about with your best friend,and if you're wondering why should I do that well you have the right to know because you're his girlfriend.Get someone to talk to your bestfriend if that doesn't keep her off from talking too much to your boyfriend then you need to talk to her about this tell her that you don't like the fact that she is always talking to your boyfriend and if she is a friend she should talk to someone else than rather your boyfriend.If she get's mad then that is a sign that she likes your boyfriend and wants to take him away from you so that is when you got to take action so she won't steal your boyfriend.
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ok this girl likes me. and i like her. but im in 9th and she is in 7th. is that kool ? should i go out with her. also she is hot lol all myu friends thing she is hot 2. (link)
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Be careful before you decide to go out with this girl don't just go out because how great she looks but look at her personality if she has a bad one you shouldn't because then you'll regret it for sure.As far as that with the grade maybe you shouldn't because she is too young for you but in the other hand it mostly counts if you really like her,she does back so think about it seriously before making any decision.A girl for her big looks could actually play with your heart so choose the the right one with a good personality as well like for example,there is a stack of apples,some are ugly,okay,rotten,one very nice,you choose that one but you didn't see inside the apple once you take bites out of it,then you see that it is rotten,then it is too late,what you could of done was feel the apple but you just stare it,choose it so look at it that way.As far as your friends if they just care about the outside they have a lot to learn then.
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my grandma recently past away, & i love my grandpa i just don't know what to talk to him about can someone give me ideas? (link)
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You could ask him about how he and you're grandma got along,how did he meet her,how is true love feel with your grandma,does it still hurt him a lot that your grandma past away.Also tell your grandpa that you love him,that even though she is not with him she will be in his spirit,whenever he feels upset he could talk to you about it, that you will never leave him alone,and that is what family is about.You could also ask him about his childhood,life experiences he had with your grandma,and ask him other things about him to show that you really care about him.To tell you something sad but true is that my grandma's cousin died a couple of years ago,felt like a part of me died,especially my poor grandma,an aunt that lived with her always taking care of her,I asked later on when things calmed down more about how nice she was you should also.One of the things I wish is to just get the people I care about back to life who died but sadly I can't and I know you wish it like everybody out there who has someone they care about who passed away.
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Lately I've found myself eating less and become more selfconcious. My boyfriend pokes my stomach a lot in a joking way and I'll think he's poking my stomach fat. My friend called me fat, but he was kidding, but I got very defensive over it. If I skip a meal, breakfast, lunch, or dinner I wont think anything of it. I'll lie sometimes to my mom and say that I did eat when I know I didn't. I'm always hungry, but I never want to go eat anything. Are these signs of anorexia? (link)
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They could be signs of anorexia because you have a eating disorder in which you choose not to eat when you're hungry as well.But did you lose weight from doing that?You should stop this because it could have a lot of serious consequences like dry brittle bones and nails.Also loss of menstrual period,digestive problems,you bruise easilyand could affect you emotionally as well like cause depression as well as guilt.So whatever they say don't listen but if you just want to lose weight do it the right way by following a good diet which will not make you starve.Use diets I have in my advice column to help you if that is what you want to do.
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dear magz,
i like this girl but dont kno if she likes me back.we went out once and i felt a connection but i dont kno how to tell her or ask.plz help.
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Tell the girl if she felt something special that day you too went out or at least something.Also what does she see in a guy and then how she would see you as and then tell her that you like her and ask her if she feels the same way.If she does not then just let it go move on you'll see other girls who you'll be interested it won't be the end of the world if that is what you'll think.If she does accept you then good for you.You should also know that some girls go for a nice personality.Best of luck to you!
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Okay well i have this friend. and we are liek bff..lets call her Mariah*, and i have another friend...lets call her Tina*. well Mariah* HATES Tina* and whenever she finds out me and Tina* hang out, she gets mad at me. I dont wanna have to Hide being friends with Tina* and i dont wanna lie to Mariah* cause ik adventually she'll find out. what should i do?? *and dont tell me to just sit down and talk to Mariah* because there is no reasoning with her. she would KiLL me. no joke (link)
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Let Mariah know that you like both the same way and you should try to get Mariah to get along with Tina I know that is crazy but that is the only way you could not hide anything from Mariah and she won't get mad at you anymore for hanging out with Tina.But first,find out what Mariah hates about Tina and if Tina hates or dislikes Mariah or if she knows Mariah and how?When you do do what you can to change the negative things about what one or both dislikes about the other person.Then get them to talk when things are calm.
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okay my friend mel is like super gorgeous. one of those people that are wow. but latley she has been pretty insicure about herself. and she is usually the total opposite. it might be because begginging of junior year but im not sure. she has been quite pale and pretty damp and drowisy. then when we went shopping she dropped a full size at AF and half at hollister. im really worried. when we went to in and out she refused her fave burger. i dont know if shes starving herslef or what. im worried she is and im worried shes taking laxitives. should i just comfront her about what im thinking, or should i just let the fase end [ hopefully its just a fase]. i dont want to seem noisy or an ass. how should i do this? (link)
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Try helping her convincing her that she could still lose weight by eating but she could still eat a burger but make sure it does not have a lot of fat.Tell her to eat normally to live a little because if she keeps doing that to herself she will faint oneday ,when she at least expects it a, she will not feel well like get dizzy,and her stomach will be growling which will mean she needs to eat something.You could also make her want to eat like eating her favorite burger or something very good in front of her but remember you're only doing it for a good cause like a true friend would do is help.
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i want to get a hamster but i am not aware of anything. what kind of cage should i be getting (please give me like a name) how often to i have to clean the cage, how do i clean the cage? what kind of hamster is the least likely to bite? which hamster is the cutest? do i get a dwarf or regual hamster? whats the difference? thx (link)
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Get a cage called a terrarium and clean the cage like every week at least.Clean the change just by using a paper towel or cloth with water or if they may have a special spray or bottle to clean it just ask a person who works in the petshop.I would highly recommend you get a baby hamster so it won't bite and it'll get used to you easily.The hamster that is the cutest would be one that has nice hair but not messy.You should get a dwarf hamster.A regular hamster easily has health issues and is harder to handle.A dwarf hamster is a very popular hamster and are sensitive to a diquieting environment.
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All right, I need help... I went out with this guy for 3 months... But we were friends 2 months before we started going out... He had a crush on me, and I ended up liking him and we went out (like I said) so our relationship was more like 5 months it's just, for the first 2 months we didn't do anything, and everything was going great, or, so I thought... He broke up with me ON our 3 month anniversary, and yesterday WOULD HAVE been our 6 month anniversary and, it made me really sad... The thing is, is that he verbally abused me... He would say something and I wouldn't understand how he meant it, so I'd get upset, and he would call me stupid and tell me it was all my fault. After he broke up with me he got drunk and messed around with this that liked him, but, he didn't really like her because, he never talks to her anymore... Well, we still talked after he made out with that girl but, about a month ago we got into quite a few arguments and he told me I am not worth it, I can't handle anything, I don't deserve him talking to me, and a lot of other things that really hurt. He's friends, that I am also friends with, tell me he doesn't care about me AT ALL... But yet I still care about him, and everything that happened still REALLY hurts... Oh, and now he likes the school slut and thinks she is "amazingly hot" and wants to do stuff with her... But, my question is, why? Why does it still hurt when I know he is a really mean person, and it's been 3 months since we broke up, so why can't I shake this? Please help... (Yes, I will rate high for serious and helpful answers. Thanks in advance and, sorry for making this so long.) (link)
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What may be happening is that you probably fell in love with this guy because when it's true love it could make you blind or make you into a different person.Or it is that you have feelings for him of course which is normal it is hard to forget someone you really like or love.I strongly suggest that you should not talk about him with friends or anyone about it so it'll be easier to froget him.That girl who you call a slut well she may be hot for him but she is just a sad girl who will probably end up lonely and who will eventually suffer.Your guy will so regret that he broke up with you but he choose the wrong girl to be with now and believe me he will want to be back with you again.You should move on think about other things like your studies and you should also make sure when you get interested in another make sure the guy has a nice personality and someone who is your type.
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(13//f) ok well i have had my period before and yesterday i got it and i was bleeding like a ton. usually when i first get it, i only bleed a little and it is dark brown. but yesterday it was blood and a lot of it! and i ran out of pads so i put a tampon in and when i went to the bathroom an hour later there wsas blood all over my pantilyner ( i always wear them when i wear a tompon) so i took the tampon out and i didnt even have to like pull! it was sooo full of blood! is this normal? i know that it could have been my heavy day but normally they arent that bloody! and now it is just as bloody as yesterday!...is this normal??
please help ASAP!!!!!!!!!!
sorry, it was long...
thanks!! (link)
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What could of happen is that you didn't eat very well and yes it is normal sometimes periods are long,short,difficult to handle or easy to handle but you shouldn't be frightened what could help is a warm bath to clean your body and from your period.You should also wear the new always which has a good pad that you could touch and drys really quick but also make sure it has wings.Another I would recommend when you have a tuff period remember to wear something dark not white.
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Whenever I eat a large amount of dairy products of any kind, particularly milk, I get this awful painful feeling internally right below my back...and then I get diarrhea. Could I be lactose intolerant? (link)
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What I recommend is to drink a differnt type of milk .Talk to your parents about this and tell them to take you to the doctor to examine you just to see if anything is wrong.Yes it could probably be lactose intolerant but to know if it is or not talk to your doctor all about the problem so he could help you out.
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One of my best guy friend wants to go out with me. But I'm scared it my ruin our friendship after we might break up. Should I risk my friendship and go out with him or don't take the risk and save our friendship? (link)
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I should probably say don't take the risk and save your friendship but if you really want to be with this guy and have strong feelings then take the risk.The reason I say that is because you may regret it and will stay in your conscious.Make the right choice for yourself.
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Alright so my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a month. He went away to camp for a week last week. I missed him like crazy and couldn't stop thinking about him. So on saturday I called him and left a message. A couple of hours I got a picture sent to my cell phone of him. At first I was like WTF? Because he was leaning up against a wall and he had his legs bent and kinda of spread...and then one of his hands was between his legs. Since it was taken from a cell phone the graphics are horrible...so it's not crystal clear. But I freaked out because it looked he was masturbating (and i found that disgusting, like do it on your own time but don't tell me). My friend called him and was asking wtf was up with the picture. I'm a lot more calm about it now, but I want to know how to bring it up with him...without making him think that i don't like him anymore and without making too much of an awkward moment. Any advice will help. (link)
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Take this slowly ,tell your boyfriend that you just are wondering the reason he liked to make his picture come out like that but show that you are not thinking anything wrong also tell him you're just curious that's all.Maybe you're boyfriend came out like that because he wanted to impress you so bad that he came out like that didn't you think about that?I'm sure there is nothing to worry about.
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i have this friend and we get in fights all the time and i love her to death but it seems like were no supposed to be friends but i really want to be friends with her...whast should i do
-to hate or not to hate-
13/f (link)
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What you could do is have a long discussion about this telling her you don't want to get into fights anymore,and friends should be able to communicate without fighting any why you too.Whenever you're about to have an arguement in which you know will lead to a fight you must tell her that you don't want to argue you just want to be normal friends and what does she think about getting along well with you?I'm sure she feels to want to stop this whole thing but remember you too must cooperate to solve this because if just one wants to then it will just fail so keep that in mind.
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