Question Posted Wednesday August 24 2005, 11:14 pm
i have one really good friend. He is a guy. The only person who understand me and that i can trust.
He both like each other a lot, but his ex girlfriend who he dumped still likes him, his ex and i have been starting to become friends.
My ex boyfriend still likes me and my ex and the guy i like now are like best friends and are in a band together. Im still good friends with my ex too.
I dont wanna hurt anyone-because that like kills me. Me and the guy i like havent talked about dating yet but i want to, and im sure he must too.
School starts monday, and i did kinda want to go into school single just in case i meet someone,but i really like him.
How can i tell his ex? That would be like betraying her because i know she likes him. But i dont wanna hurt her.
What should i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Courtney answered Thursday August 25 2005, 8:40 am: Talk to his ex b/c she may not care much as you think and if she doesn't understand, then that is her problem. Hers not yours. The same thing goes for your ex. His problem not yours. They have to deal with it not you. Try to be calm and patient with them and try to be rational with them. But if they can't understand what you're going through and understand that he is what you want, then that's there problem. Talk to him. After all, he is what you want so go and get him. Talk to them both and explain why you want him. Just speak from the heart. And do what you think is best for you, not them, and do what you want regardless. [ Courtney's advice column | Ask Courtney A Question ]
sunnyville answered Wednesday August 24 2005, 11:32 pm: You should probably break up the friendship with her if she does like the guy, then go out with someone she likes but you could ask her if she'll be okay with it,if she is you could stil be friends with her.What you could tell your ex is that you have feelings for his friend,want to go out with him, if he disagrees don't listen to him you could go out with whoever you want to you're single,he has no right to make decisions for you.Most importantly don't hide things from your ex or your friend it is better to tell them then to have it in your conscious. [ sunnyville's advice column | Ask sunnyville A Question ]
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