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Awkward Picture
Alright so my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a month. He went away to camp for a week last week. I missed him like crazy and couldn't stop thinking about him. So on saturday I called him and left a message. A couple of hours I got a picture sent to my cell phone of him. At first I was like WTF? Because he was leaning up against a wall and he had his legs bent and kinda of spread...and then one of his hands was between his legs. Since it was taken from a cell phone the graphics are horrible...so it's not crystal clear. But I freaked out because it looked he was masturbating (and i found that disgusting, like do it on your own time but don't tell me). My friend called him and was asking wtf was up with the picture. I'm a lot more calm about it now, but I want to know how to bring it up with him...without making him think that i don't like him anymore and without making too much of an awkward moment. Any advice will help.
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send and even grosser pic of you and say... how do you like that! hope i helped :0
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hahaha your bf is probably just lonely casue he wasnt getting any at camp.. at least you know he was loyal to you... anyway when he gets back maybe you can do it for him.. hahha
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Take this slowly ,tell your boyfriend that you just are wondering the reason he liked to make his picture come out like that but show that you are not thinking anything wrong also tell him you're just curious that's all.Maybe you're boyfriend came out like that because he wanted to impress you so bad that he came out like that didn't you think about that?I'm sure there is nothing to worry about.
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Ok my advice is that when he gets home and you guys get togther make one of your friends call you. So you have a reason to bring the picture up because he snet it into your self phone. And than once you get off ask him about it. Because he would probally be puzzled look on his face when you pick up on your phone. Than when you get off ask him about such as " I recived your message and I was woundering what was up with the picture " than what ever he says you should go " I dont want you to have the idea i dont like you anymore because I still do " so than he'll tell you about it. Maybe it was a inside joke. i know this isnt my best advice. But thats a way to bring it up. Hope I Helped <33
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He might not have taken the picture? Maybe someone else from the camp took the picture and sent it? That has happened before. I don't really like camera phones sometimes. I have a friend who has a camera phone. At my church, we had 'messy games night' and people had to put their faces in a rice casserole and dig Jolly Ranchers out. This particular friend of mine took pictures of several members of the youth group. I know my friend isn't going to sell them online or anything, but other people might. Perhaps someone else took the picture. If not, maybe you should ask him to only send pics from the waist up? Ask who took the picture and go from there. If he did take the picture, then he made the awkward moment. Perhaps he didn't realize he was sending that picture? Maybe he ment to send another picture? Who knows. You'll just have to ask him. Be gentle though. Oh, and be glad you picked the phone up! Imagine what could've happened if your mom, dad or a sibling had picked it up! Talk about awkward!
-FunnyCide
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Well the awkward moment was of his own making! Unless he isn't the one who sent the picture. If he wasn't then he certainly needs to know about it. That is the bad thing about those picture phones, you never know when someone might be taking your picture. Girls need to be cautious of people using them in locker rooms and restrooms, Be aware your picture could be taken. It could be on the internet the next day...all without your knowledge. This could be what happened to him.
It might be best if its no longer bugging you not to make a big issue of it. Just tell him you really don't want those kinds of pictures coming to your phone. What if someone other than you ( parent springs to mind!) had picked up your phone instead of you? Now THAT would have been real awkward!
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