okay..theres this boy i like, and he and i are getting pretty close, and i think he likes me..and we were hanging out..and he told me one time he puked his food up on purpose..cause he wrestles and he wants to be in a littler weight class...but he told one of his bestfriends...that he does it often..and im mad that he lied to me and im sad cause he could get sick..but he doesnt know i know...and i dont want to say sumthing to a counsler or hed get kicked off the wrestling team for cheating, and im afraid if i say sumthing...he will get mad! and i really like him alot and i dont want him mad, but im prolly gunna talk to him about it what should i say?
what you think about it. your only concerned and care about him. hope that helps. good luck
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I am a 35 yr old Christian with Christian parents and wish to help my parents financially.My Mom has no job experience, other trying to be an Avon lady when I was a kid, got chased by a Doberman and quit. She's a mother that's all she knows how to do. My parents have raisied 6 children and 1 grandchild, he is a jr in high school. My Dad receives a very small disability check and now a little social security from a work related injury 10yrs ago and forced into early retirement (which is all gone now) He has had several back surgeries and still not in real good physical shape. He has to have cortizone shots all the time just to unstiffen. For extra income he mows lawns in his neighborhood, but it is just killing him. He's stubborn. But now that has slowed down due to the season change and honestly I'm not sure that next spring he will be able to do it anymore. My nephew, that my parents are raising, needed braces, has an upcoming school band trip in February..etc, etc, etc. For the first time, my Mom called us all and said no Christmas this year, we can't afford it! That's ok it's time we (my 4 sisters and 1 brother) take on the Christmas event. I am about to receive a $10,000 commisson check thru work (biggest yet-and rare)...how and how much should I give them? They will take it eventually (after refusing due to pride) but how do I go about presenting it to them without making them feel bad, or depressing my Dad for not being able to provide like he always has. My Dad can't get life insurance due to medical problems and I know they have not planned for the future (life insurance, death,etc.). Since there are so many of us kids, they were never able to set back $. Honestly, I am the only child that can afford to do this for them, I just want to do it right and find a way to make sure they are financially comfortable. Any advice you can give me would be greatly appreciated.
Denise in Texas
Well since christmas is coming up soon, give it to them as a gift. Set aside a certain amount in the bank and use it as a gift to them. umm... If it is needed at this very moment and it cant wait until Christmas then get together with your sisters and brother and discuss how much to give and when would be the best time and how to go about doing it. You should all try and decide a time that you all agree with. That is the only thing I can think of right now. I hope this helps and sorry i couldnt offer any more advice. I wish you and your family the best of luck.
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ok, i dont want to come off like slutty or anything...but my b/f and i have been together for about 2 months now & all he's done is given me like lil kisses(no tongue). like he's pretty touchy feely and all but i mean its been 2 months & we love each other so much and its been nice, but i'd like there to be more..like we've talked about moving further and stuff but when we're alone 2gether nothing happens! he's only had like 2 g/fs & he's only kissed and got head b4..which he knows i will NOT give him head..but anyways lol, how do i get him to losen up and like actually make out with me & relax .. i love him so much & i know he loves me, but sometimes itd be a lil nice to have a lil more physical in the relationship..know what i mean?
thanks,jessica
haha, dont worry... that doesnt make you a slut. lol. Make the first move. Maybe he is afraid to make the first move. so leave it up to you. Just start makeing out with him. Or when he gives you a "lil kiss" add your tongue to it. you said you've talked about moving on... well then move on. make your move! have fun, good luck!
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i have STARIGHT eyelashes..and i use a eyelash curler everyday and then use hella mascara and then i have to curl them again jus to make em pretty...anyone have any easier techniques? whatdo other gurls do with super straight eyelashes? and mascara that works great for this?
try using mascars that has a curled brush.
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I have this friend and we hang out a lot. The problem is that he has a girlfriend 2 years older than him and im only one year older than him. They have been going out for about 3 weeks but he hangs out with me more then her. He always asks me to hang out on a day and then he asks me to walk to her house with him and hang out. He is always him self around me but he doesnt really be himself around her. What do u think is goin to happen between them and me and him. I would hate to ruin ne thing between them but he is always with me atleast a lot more than with her. and when he is with her, he always asks someone to go with him, usually me. What is this all about do u think?
it culd be for several reasons. it could be because he likes you or that he is nervous around his girlfriend. He may want you there just so that he wont be so nervous and be himself around her. Just find out why he always wants you around when he is with her.
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ahh..homecomings next saturday..and all my frens know how to dance.."BUT ME" and like i can shake my hips and all thatbt i cant move my booty to well and i never know what to do with my hands..SOMEONE HELP i needa learn how to shake my thang and notlook stupid doin it ~!
try asking one of your friends to give you a few pointers.
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Is it ok to aproach a guy like makeing out if you not dating? Please HELP
sara
it all depends. If it is a guy you know (that your not dating), such as a friend, then do as you please. there is no written rule saying you cant make out with a friend hoping more. But if it is someone you dont know then no, it would seem a little slutty. But its you, so do whatever you choose.
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I want to get my tragus pierced.But I have heard that they are finding that piercing the tragus part of your ear could be harmful.Any knowledge of how true this is?Also personal experiences would be helpful too.
if you get it done professionally it should be fine. My cousins wife used to peirce ears where she worked and she told me that if you dont get it done and you do it yourself, not knowing what your doing, that you could hit a nerve and go deaf. But i dunno how true it is. i have never heard of anyone going deaf by getting it done. So i am gonna say go get it. it will be fine.
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Hello,
I am a natural brunette with my own natural highlights of red and a few blonde tones in it. I recently decided to have the style of Rachel Stevens and went to a salon to get it done. The hairdresser did a lovely job but i am not too sure, sometime i look at it and think wow he did a great job and then sometimes i want to cry. I think it is too light for me and being the first time i have gone this colour, i am thinking about going to another salon to get my natural colour put back on so all i have to worry abbout is growing the fringe out that he cut in. My partner says it is nice and that i am stupid to get it re-done. What should i do, i think i might be worrying about it if i dont.
i think you should stick in there and keep it for while. Stay with that color atleast until your roots are starting to show. Then go backl and get it your natural color. You never know by that time you may have gotten used to it that color and want to kepp it that way. But whatever. if you go now and get it colored you natural color then it more and likely will damage your hair with all the chemicals in it. By damge i mean it could start falling out or it could fry it out. So wait a little while before you go get it colored again.
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It is possible to be in love at the age of 13???
Rainbowcherrie
It is possible. Anything is possible. It may be unlikely but it could be.
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me and my bf recently slept together and now i fink i mite be pregnant but im wondering can somebody under 16 have an abortion whitout their parents knowind thanx
first thing you should do is to find out if your really pregnant first. take a home pregnancy test and go get checked out by a doctor and if you are then youi can start to think about abortion. No, you cant have an abortion with out your parents knowing. They will have to sign papers for you. So they will need to know if you are. And i wouldnt really try and go get an abortion behind their backs because it could only make things worse for you. Tell them and if they dont agree on abortion then sit down and agree on something to do with you and/or the baby. They may want to have it and give it up for adoption or have it and keep it. You'll never know. Whether or not you tell them is your choice, but they will find out sooner or later. So whatever you choose to do, Good Luck!
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i have two best friends. one i've known since middle school...so that's about 4 yrs now. and now i also have a new best friend...whom i met in high shcool. they're both wonderful and i'm so glad i have them but there's one problem. they can't stand each other for anything! when i'm with one, she's talking shit about the other. and when i'm with the other one, she's talking shit about her. they both want me to take their own sides and be more loyal to one then the other. ahhhh! what do i do!?!??! HELP!
plain out lay it on the line and tell them you refuse to choose between them and tell them you dont want to put up with anymore of their shiznit. Tell them to quit talkin crap on each other. that is just real disrespectful to you. If they are true friends they shouldnt care who you talk to and who else is considered your friend.
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17-F Ok there are these to boys Rob and Dan. Dan is my type and we get along really well, the thing is we don't wanna screw up what we have and it seems whenever we hang out I wanna do naughty things to him. But Rob he's more sweet and nice to me and I've known him for a while and I can see us having a long relationship. But Dan is more exciting and Rob is more loyal and faithful. I'm a senior in HS and I haven't had a BF in over a year so I dunno who to pick please help
it all depends on you right now. do you want to settle down and have a committed relationship then choose rob and if you just want a boyfriend for shits and giggles then choose dan. Either way if your just looking to do stuff with one of them, then you can still choose rob and do stuff and also be in a commited relationship... if thas what you really want. Its your decision. good luck
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Ok. There's this one thing. I like this guy Brian from my class {my age only 6 months and 2 days older than me} (I got over Felipe). And (ummm how can I put this in a nice way?) he treats me like shit sometimes. He's really smart because his parents are teachers (but that doesn't matter) and sometimes he can be snotty. Sometimes we joke around and sometimes we get pissed @ eachother. Like in class the other day we (the whole class) were talking about Martha Stewat ad house arrest when I remembered that I read something about Martha getting beat up in jail and I tell the class (and I sit right behind Brian) and then Brian turns to me and says "Where did you hear that? A girl magazine?" And I'm like "No Brian. More like US Weekly!" And then he's like "Whatever"... See what I mean?... He treats me bad. How can I get him to see me more of a gf than of "the girl he argues a lot with'? !~*Steph*~! I rAte GoOd!
maybe he likes you just the same ut is afraid to show it because maybe he thinks you dont like him. so let him know you like him. i dont care how you do it but see if anything changes between you two. If it changes for the good then you know he likes you. hope this helps.
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hey i know this is kinda a stupid ? but i would like 2 know what yall think: I was just hired as a gymnastics coach and i am kinda chubby like not fat fat but chubby u know but neways i was wonderin if u think ppl would think that it is stupid that is bigish gurl is teach these kids 2 do gymnastics if u know what i am talkin about? i am just curious thanks i will rate you!!!
if you can do gymnastics and you are good at it then i wouldnt worry about it. And plus if you were hired they obviously see something in you for them to pick you to teach them. so no worries!
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here is my ? kinda stupid i know lol but i have a black dress and shoes for homecomin and i was wonderin what color nail polish i should wear? cuz i don't wanna wear black cuz that is 2 much. thanks for ne help i will rate u
Go with like a pink or a red. It'll add some color and stand out and complete the black. Have fun.
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when should it be okay to have sex?
When ever you are ready. Make sure you use protection and if you would happen to have a kid make sure your responsible and mature enough to raise a kid, physically and mentally. Have fun!
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okay, i asked this guy to my homecoming, as friends, like 3 weeks beforehand and he said hed go "if he can," so i was talking to one of my most trustworthy friends and hes like i was hanging out with the guy you like and we talked about whats going on with you and him and he said he probably wouldnt go to HC with me. he said that he hates that he has lead me on and that he doesnt like me like i like him. he never told me he couldnt go to HC with me (it was last sunday)so now i dont know what to do.
i havent talked to him in almost 2 weeks. and i was gonna talk to him at a party tomorrow but its cancelled so the next party is my birthday party and if i found out from him then it would eat me alive all night. when he first said he saw me as a friend i held back but then when we were together we would make out.
should i ask him outright whats going on? how should i like word it?
If your gonna ask him whats up then just plain out say it. Dont start it with a bunch of bull shit. Get straight to your point.
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everytime i have sex with my boyfriend, he tells me he's too big to fit "in there" is it my fault...or should i just break up with him and go out with a man whose dick is smaller?
haha... sorry to laugh but it is just that most guys like a girl thats tight. i dont really get what he is complaining about. And it will fit. If you can pop a kid outta there then you can get his dick in you. He just needs to try harder and have sex a little more to aid it loosening it.! have fun!
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i have had my period 4 a awhile and i have basketball it is 4 days a week and i dont want to wear a pad cause i dont really lyk them it feels lyk a diper and ya i odnt lyk it wut shoudl i do and how can i ask my mom!
i dont no wut to do
Try going with a thinner pad so it doesnt feel as awkward. Every female has a different body contour so it is different for everyone. You should go to the store and ick the ones you want to try and the ones you think will best work for you. Notice i said you and not your mom. You should pick it and not her. Also, try using a tampon. just simply tell your mom you want to try it to see which is more comfortable for you. Tell her you are going to go to the store and pick up some pads that suit you and a box of tampons. She will understand, she has been through this sort of thing. its no big deal.
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