okay..theres this boy i like, and he and i are getting pretty close, and i think he likes me..and we were hanging out..and he told me one time he puked his food up on purpose..cause he wrestles and he wants to be in a littler weight class...but he told one of his bestfriends...that he does it often..and im mad that he lied to me and im sad cause he could get sick..but he doesnt know i know...and i dont want to say sumthing to a counsler or hed get kicked off the wrestling team for cheating, and im afraid if i say sumthing...he will get mad! and i really like him alot and i dont want him mad, but im prolly gunna talk to him about it what should i say?
Suchtig2ihr answered Sunday October 17 2004, 7:03 pm: Tell him straight up that it isnt good for him.. you should take some time to look up some stuff online about it. there are some other alteritives to doing that he could watch what he eats insted of makeing his self puke.. make sure you tell him what the acid from his stomace is doing to his throut and teeth its rather sick and gory if u look at pic's of it.. well.. i hope i was of some help to you x0xLuckyx0x [ Suchtig2ihr's advice column | Ask Suchtig2ihr A Question ]
kris567 answered Sunday October 17 2004, 4:47 pm: Tell him how u feel about what hes doing and tell him how he could really have problems with it and how sick he could get from purging (thats wat its called when u make urself throw up).
sunshine1232 answered Sunday October 17 2004, 1:55 pm: you should go up to him and say you shouldn't make yourself puke your food up it isn't good it doesn't matter if he gets mad at you because you are trying to help him and if you love him like you say you do then you will help him and try to get him the good help he needs and you will be doing a good thing for yourself to because then you won't have to see him suffer and him having low self esteem about himself
jazz82289 answered Sunday October 17 2004, 1:52 pm: Oh my goodness, that's awful! Try telling him what that does to his esophogus and his intestines, get some pictures off the internet that show what happens to people who do that. But then tell him that you are upset because he lied to you, but you are more concerned about his health than anything. Tell him that you are concerned because you care about him, not because you want to control him. Good luck! [ jazz82289's advice column | Ask jazz82289 A Question ]
cutie101 answered Sunday October 17 2004, 1:10 pm: hi, well this sounds serious, you should tell him the truth nothing is better than the truth, when you talk to him tell him you dont want him to get hurt because you really care about him,tell him that he doesnt have to cheat to be good. well hope it go's well and wish you the best of luck. [ cutie101's advice column | Ask cutie101 A Question ]
liddylflirtx3 answered Sunday October 17 2004, 12:31 pm: I think you should confront him and tell him that you know what he's doing to his body and that you think it is very unhealthy. Tell him you're scared for him and you really like him and don't want to see him do that to his body. If he wants to weigh less, he should work out more and eat more healthy foods, not force himself to throw up!
MissEmmyBoo answered Sunday October 17 2004, 12:16 pm: I think that you should say something to him about this!! Tell him that you know he likes wrestling , but you really care about him and don't want him to get hurt!! Be his friend and let him know that you're there for him. *Hope I helped!*
-Emily- [ MissEmmyBoo's advice column | Ask MissEmmyBoo A Question ]
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