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13 going on 14 =D female !
so then, theres this guy.. hes my bestfriend, and hes the only guy i can trust.. i talk to him everynight on the phone.. && guess what ? i fell for him.. i liked him for a long time.. and the thing is that he likes my bestfriend.. me & her are also close.. we call ourselves "twinnies" because we have so much in common.. and that really hurts because i waited for so long for him .. hoping that i'll get a chance & i like prayed everynight hoping that too.. and im still hoping.. the thing is that my bestfriend my "twinnie" likes him too.. and she thought it was wrong because she js started liking him because i started liking him in the first place, and she knew that too.. but then i put her happiness before mine, so then i let her have him.. and she thinks that i've been happy for a long time and thats a good thing, but i HID my sadness because i knew it would make her feel bad.. and then it hurts even more cause when i talk to him on the phone hes talking about her. im js really upset about the whole entire thing.. help me out please.. please give me some advice and help me get over him.. because this hurts too much for too long.
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That was a great thing that you did for your best friend. Its always best if you think of everyone around you more than yourself. It really makes you feel good. Well I say you should talk to your friend about it and tell her how you're feeling and she should understand. And well you know you don't want to hurt what they have too right? I think you should let them be and you'll find another guy soon. Like talk to other guys and get to know them and soon you might find yourself falling for one of them!
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i think i`m worried that my parents are going to die. i dont know why, it might be because i read this book and this girls dad died and her mom was a wreck.
and i dont want that to happen to my family.
i get really upset when i think about it though.
i dont know what to do to not think of it..
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Yeah almost everybody thinks that when they read or see something sad happen to their parents. But try to forget about it like find a hobbie or join something and that will keep your mind off it for awhile. So I think you should try one of those to keep your mind off that.
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i was in a relationship with this guy before he lives in a different state and we dated on and off for almost 2 years and over the summers and breaks my family and i used to go where he lives and visit him and his family cuz we were close and then my parents got divorced so we stopped going and now 4 years later here i am and i still have feelings for him and him the same for me but im not sure if im ready to be with him again. i mean i really want to but its just awkward because it was 4 years of not seeing eachother because now we are seeing eachother again. so im not sure if a long distance thing would work? i need some advice. (link)
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Yeah being away from a guy for 4 years must be hard. It probably won't work if they are in a different state too and he could have changed over the 4 years and maybe you miss the memories and thats why you want to go back. I just say try to find another guy it will be real hard but talk to other guys and get to know them and then you might catch yourself falling for one of them!
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ugg i cant stop my skin from breaking out everywhere, its not from my period cause i got it like 2 weeks ago. Is there any methods to helthier clearer skin? please help me=)
p.s any advice helps! (link)
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Yeah my skin was like that too. What really I did was I didn't touch them or anything all I did was wash my face everyday. It works trust me. They go away and you have a clear face. Try it and it might work.
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Ryt wel i am seeing this lad and i really like him i have been with him for about a month now and i dont want to hurt him but my ex..who i still love.. wel we have just bin kinda flirtin with each otha and he has asked me to go to the pictures with him and i said yes. I have made sure were not going alone yano so nothing wil happen becausei dont want to cheat. but the thing is i really like my ex and he said that if i wasnt with someone, he would ask me out. The only problem is he has played me before and he has really hurt me..but he apologised for al that said he was realy sorry. i really dont know what to do..so i stay with my bf or what ? please help! x
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It sounds like you like your ex more than your current boyfriend. Okay if you think you your ex is really sorry and you can trust him then I say tell your current boyfriend that you should tell your boyfriend you don't like him anymore but make sure to say i in a nice way so he will understand and not get mad.
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Well I dumped my four month boyfriend
today and I'm fine. But the thing is I
did it through a text message because
he texted me telling me he loved me
and I didn't want to lie to him.
The problem was we never saw each
other so I wouldnt be able to do it
in person, he's ALWAYS busy.
Now I feel guilty because I know doing
it through a text is bad, should I call
him or something or just forget about it? (link)
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I say call him if you don't see him often. Just tell him the reason why you broke up with him. Then he should understand why you did.
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I've been in love with the same guy for almost a year. The thing is he's one of my good friends. I love him but i really only want to be his friend but its like i can't help but to love him like that. How can I fall out of love with him?Its kind of wierd too because I'm only 13. (link)
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Yeah its real hard to fall out of love. You both are friends right? And you want to keep being friends and nothing more? I say you just keep liking him the way you do and just act like friends sooner or later you'll like someone else. Or you can tell him how you feel and say you just want to keep being friends but that might turn out a little ackward. Third you can tell him and be his girlfriend. If you'd rather start liking somone else then talk to other boys and get to know them and then you might be falling for one of them! Good Luck!
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I'm sick of my short nails. I wanna try to grow them out. I can not stand seeing the white part of my nails which is why I bight or tear the tip of my nails off. I've tried painting my nails so that i can't see the white part but it just comes off after only a day. I've tried fake nails too, but the white part under them annoys me. How can I get over this and have longish nails? (link)
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You can put on a darker coat of nail polsih put like 2 coats on them and then it would probably last longer. A french manicure might work you can get them in different colors too so you don't have to see the white and they last longer too. If you have trouble set a goal each day and see how long you can go without biting your nails. Like say I will go 3 hours today without biting my nails and the next day make it longer. Then before you know it you'll be tired of bitng your nails.
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Ok i wanna know like what are some cute things i can do with my boyfriend. Besides like kissing and holding hands and such. also what are some cute names i could call him? thanks! (link)
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Yeah like the person below me just compliment him alot. And go places with him if you go always to certain places change it around and go bowling or something like that. Sweetie is a good nick name or cutie or something that goes with his name or what he acts like.
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hey massie ur books are awesom i am like totally like u. but anyways i like this guy, but he is a year younger than me. i go to a private school and you just dont ask a younger guy out. i mean no one does that at our school. what should i do
13,female
jamie (link)
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Okay either ask him out yourself and just forget what everyone else says and maybe they will even go out with younger guys. There is nothing wrong with that either so just do what you feel like. Or you can give him hints that you like him and maybe he will ask you out.
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I'm a 23 year old girl ,my life has been a living hell since my parents left us ,this was 10 years ago (I was 13 )I was the oldest and as you can understand I was always the one who had to pull it togheter for my other sisters ..I lost almost my whole life doing this...,no good memories,only pain and sorrow .
I fully grow up by my self thanks to the power of God .
But now I live with my bf ,he is good to me .
But memories keep coming back to me ,sometimes I woke up in the middle of the night crying and it just go on and on .
I don't know why but I keep asking myself why they walked out on us like that ,It hurts like hell.
I don't have close friend because I'm afraid
I don't know why ..I have thousand of good friend and you could say I am very popular for making jokes ,organising nice school trip ,parties ,acting in stage plays etc etc and I really can give good advice but I really really can't have a close friend , the truth is I am even afraid to be close to my bf , I don't know why ......I feel so unhappy feeling this way
I feel like I'm in a lonely world , I feel depressed ,I barely sleep and I can't concentrate at school.
My sex life sucks ,just because I can't get in the mood because I cant't stand for people to get to close to me ,I just want it to be quick so he can get off me ,this is a really strange feeling I can't explain,
I love him but I can't explain this weird feeling and its not just with him .My ex broke up with me because I never did have sex with him..
All this is depressing for me ,I can't live like this any longer
I am really dying inside
help me ,I need advice
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Just relax for a little get everything off your mind. Life isn't easy and I bet someone else is going through the same thing. I know I've never been where you are now but to help your social life practice talkting to people. I know it would be hard but find someone and go up to and just have a converstion with someone you know and then you will probably make a close friend. Just forget about what your parents did. It must have been hard for them taking care of you and your sisters and they just couldn't handle it. So I wish you the best with everything.
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Ok so I used to like my ex boyfriend yet he has another girl friend. It used to be that whenever I wanted to I could have him back, but not now. Its been hard but Ive gotten over him. And Im finally happy for him and so forth, yet theres someone else I like. I cant tell my own best friend because well hes praticually a best friend to both me and her and I know that she wouldnt be to happy. Im so confused about him. Someone at work spread a rumour saying that we liked eachother yet she had no idea she is just a drama strater. Yet I dont know how he reacted really. Hs ex girlfriend works with us and I know that she was all worried but I dont know if maybe he was plaing it cool with her. I was playing it off becuase I didnt want any drama to start. I know that he tells our other friend everything yet I dont have the guts to ask her if he likes me. I need any advice I can get as to what I should do. I dont want him to just see me as a frined cus I feel much more. Do I just need to grow some confidence and ask him or just let it go? I knew on New Years Eve he wanted to kiss someone, yet he hung out with our normal crew. I dont know Im so ocnufsed on this. And I always get the short end of the stick everytime. Any advice would be great. Thanx =) (link)
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If you really like him go for it! If your friend wouldn't be happy because you like a guy that is a best friend to you guys then thats her problem. She should be happy for you. So I think you should tell her and go for the guy. Good Luck!
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ladies... how do you make a guy want you more without actually touching him? i mean, wut are some sexy things to say to him, or things you can do that will make him want you. im not looking to have sex by the way so please dont suggest that. thnx (link)
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Just talk to him so you guys can get to know each other more then soon he will feel so calm he will start to like you more. Smile at him in hall ways when you pass him or say hi. Those are hints for him. You can't actually make a guy like you. You can also tell him how you feel about him or if your shy have it go through a friend. And if he finds out it will make him notice you more.
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Alright, this kid Ive known for like, not even a year, is really confusing. At first, he was hooking up with my friend, then, he got a girlfriend, and then, we started hanging out. So then out of the blue he got a girlfriend and didn't talk to me for months. But of course after they break up he comes back and apologizes and everything? Me, STILL not over him even though he treated me like shit, accepted that and fell for him even more.
So then, we were fine, hooked up and everything, and then next day hes like, blahblahblah you were my rebound and I feel like an asshole blahblah, I dont want you to be that so give me awhile, and Im like, ohk well we already hooked up, so your going to just leave it at that and expect me not to feel like a rebound, and he was trying to be sweet about it and everything but I wouldnt give up and he said he didnt need/want me. So yeah I was really upset and the next night somehow things evened out and we were ohk, but now we're back to the oh I love you stuff. The thing is I really do love him and I dont know if he feels th same for me? Urg, i dont know.
I just need opinions, and what you think I should do. Thanks. (link)
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I don't think this guy is worth it. If he has all these girlfriends and comes running back and forth to them then he really can't have a relationship. It will be real hard to let him go but you don't want him to keep breaking your heart right? There are plenty more guys out there. Just talk to some of them and then maybe you might be falling for one of them.
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i don't know really how to say this seeing i've never datied the guy but everytime i see him with another girl i fell like my heart breaks......why is that i mean ik now i like him but i just don't understand why i fell that way. also i would do anything for him ANYTHING i don't know why though it confuses me. (link)
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Okay the reason it breaks your heart all the time is because you are real sad that he is with another girl and not you. You should tell him how you feel and then he might have same feelings for you or he'll finally come around to you or he won't like you. But if he dosn't he's not worth chasing after. But if you tell him there is a chance he'll be with you and no one else.
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im so sick of crying. im so sick of hurting. me and my boyfriend broke up two months ago. and im still dwelling on it. yes he was my first love. and yes he already has a new girlfriend. and he treats that girl a 100 times better than he did me. and im sick of crying. im sick of always thinking about him. he doesnt care about me. so why should i care. its a new year and i want to be over this kid ASAP. please help me. (link)
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Okay just look at all the other guys that you should try. If he dosn't care about you anymore its not worth it. Yeah everyone hates sitting in their room crying and thinking of that guy so just try to find another guy. Yeah its hard to get over the first love I've been there not to long ago. So the best thing to do is thinnk positive about other guys and talk to them and then you might find yourself falling for one of them.
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I have always been feeling down at school. I get bullied a lot, but my teachers don't really help the situation. Especially at my lunch where these kids keep making fun of me, pointing me out, and harrassing me. I try hard to skip lunch but not just because of them but because of the food they offer. I hate their food. And I can't pack because I just plainly hate lunchtime anyway. So every day when I do go to lunch with my friends, I am totally quiet, feeling depressed, anti-social, and never wanting to be involved in conversation. However, when I go back to class (hanging out with other friends) I am happy, free-spirited, and extroverted. My friends think I am like that all the time, since that's the only time they see me. They never want to find time to see me when we are not in school, because they say they are always "busy and stressed out" to come see me.
My grades have been fluctuating, and I get just totally stressed out thinking about school, and trying to pass. I've been battling anxiety, stress, and depression, so it's been hard for me for quite some time.
I don't want everyone to think I am this emo person, trying to feel suicidal 24/7 when I don't. I can be a very optimistic person, but it's hard to show it when my friends at lunch ignore me a little but, forgetting I am there, and assuming I am jsut tired. I don't know what to do! I want my friends to know I can be happy, yet I want to be happy. I don't know.. can someone help me out here?
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If they treat you like that are they really your friends? But anyways you should talk to them privately sometime and ask them why are they ignoring you. Probably the reason why all those kids pick on you is probably because you act shy and you are letting them do that to you. If you perk up a bit maybe they'll start thinking that they can push you around and do whatever they want to with you. You just need to stand up to them. Just be who you really are deep inside you. Also talk to your parents about the stress and depression thats what parents are for too. They'll probably help you out.
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theres this boy that i think i really like. hes not the coolest person ever (not that it should matter...but i havent even told my best friend that i like him yet) anyways, what are some subtle ways to hint to him that i like him cause in one of my classes we sit next to eachother and talk all the time...so what are some things i can do to hint it? cause i want him to know but im not ready to say it yet.. thanks (link)
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Talk to him about stuff you have in common. Maybe flirt a little. When you pass him smile at him but not a big happy friendly smile just a shy smile. Look at him when he's not looking and have it noticeable enough that he will look over at you. Online you can talk about what you normally talk about then. Then when you are ready you can tell your friends and him and you 2 will be together!
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Okay, I told you guys how I had this thing for one of my friends. Well, one of my other friends, Laura, who lives down the street from me, tells me today while I'm talking to her on Instant Messenger that she likes me. So I'm over at my house freaking out because I was trying to plan out what I was gonna say to Ashley, the girl I like.
So I tell Laura that I sorta like her a little.
And I could tell she was struggling with her words. This is what we both said:
Laura:Okay... would you ever consider going out?
me: with who?
me: you?
Laura: yes
me: i guess so.. Why?
me: well, that was awkward..
laura: Uh... Meredith
me: uh, meredith what?
Laura: Meredith's helping me with what to say, but, would you go out with me?
Laura: (Sorry, clicked enter too soon..)
me: omg.. I.. I guess.
So, did I do the right thing?
I mean, Laura's been my best friend for a long long LONG time, and our moms are friends, too. I didn't want to make her mad at me, so I said yes. I really do like her, but I'm just not sure if I like her enough to go out with her.
So I have been going out with her for about an hour now. It's 8:50 here in Georgia, so you do the math.
I just want to know if I did the right thing or if I should break up with her and go for Ashley? (link)
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Think about who you like most. If its Laura then stick with her but if you don't like her enough to go out with then I say you tell her that but you still want to be friends. If you like Ashley more then go for her. You don't have to stick with Laura because she likes you. Just go for who you like most.
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Well i like this girl but i cant seem to get past the "friends" stage can i please get some advice preferably from a girl telling me what girls like. (link)
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I suggest telling her you like her because like the one below me said that when a girl finds out that a guy like her then she starts liking him back because she notices him more now. So telling her might be the best idea. If you don't want to tell her than give her hints which might also make her notice you. Flirt with her and talk to her alot. Smile at her when you pass her and if she falls help her out. Those really get a girl to notice you more.
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