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so this guy...
13 going on 14 =D female !
so then, theres this guy.. hes my bestfriend, and hes the only guy i can trust.. i talk to him everynight on the phone.. && guess what ? i fell for him.. i liked him for a long time.. and the thing is that he likes my bestfriend.. me & her are also close.. we call ourselves "twinnies" because we have so much in common.. and that really hurts because i waited for so long for him .. hoping that i'll get a chance & i like prayed everynight hoping that too.. and im still hoping.. the thing is that my bestfriend my "twinnie" likes him too.. and she thought it was wrong because she js started liking him because i started liking him in the first place, and she knew that too.. but then i put her happiness before mine, so then i let her have him.. and she thinks that i've been happy for a long time and thats a good thing, but i HID my sadness because i knew it would make her feel bad.. and then it hurts even more cause when i talk to him on the phone hes talking about her. im js really upset about the whole entire thing.. help me out please.. please give me some advice and help me get over him.. because this hurts too much for too long.
<3 mary
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all i can really find is jus 2 find a new guy to take your mind off this one then when he talks about her(twinnie)you can talk about him(new guy)if they break up or get in a argument all you should say is NEUTRAL or NOT IN THIS because if you take sides you lose a friend
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That was a great thing that you did for your best friend. Its always best if you think of everyone around you more than yourself. It really makes you feel good. Well I say you should talk to your friend about it and tell her how you're feeling and she should understand. And well you know you don't want to hurt what they have too right? I think you should let them be and you'll find another guy soon. Like talk to other guys and get to know them and soon you might find yourself falling for one of them!
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Well Mary, join the club. I've had the EXACT same problem. First of all, yes, it was very nice of you to let her have him, but at the same time, you are only hurting yourself. My advice to you would be to let your friend know what it is you have been feeling. If you're as close to her as you say, then she will understand and hopefully do something about it to make sure you are both happy. You shouldn't have to put yourself through all of this pain. You need to remember, you need to work on pleasing yourself and not trying to satisfy everybody around you, whether they are your best friend or your worst enemy. So just talk to your friend about how your feeling and hopefully things will change for the better. Hope I was able to help :] xxo Hannah
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