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Guys?
Alright, this kid Ive known for like, not even a year, is really confusing. At first, he was hooking up with my friend, then, he got a girlfriend, and then, we started hanging out. So then out of the blue he got a girlfriend and didn't talk to me for months. But of course after they break up he comes back and apologizes and everything? Me, STILL not over him even though he treated me like shit, accepted that and fell for him even more.
So then, we were fine, hooked up and everything, and then next day hes like, blahblahblah you were my rebound and I feel like an asshole blahblah, I dont want you to be that so give me awhile, and Im like, ohk well we already hooked up, so your going to just leave it at that and expect me not to feel like a rebound, and he was trying to be sweet about it and everything but I wouldnt give up and he said he didnt need/want me. So yeah I was really upset and the next night somehow things evened out and we were ohk, but now we're back to the oh I love you stuff. The thing is I really do love him and I dont know if he feels th same for me? Urg, i dont know.
I just need opinions, and what you think I should do. Thanks.
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I don't think this guy is worth it. If he has all these girlfriends and comes running back and forth to them then he really can't have a relationship. It will be real hard to let him go but you don't want him to keep breaking your heart right? There are plenty more guys out there. Just talk to some of them and then maybe you might be falling for one of them.
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Run away. Run far far away.
This boy doesn't seem mature enough to have an actual relationship with anyone and you're just going to get into a vicious cycle of love and hate.
It'll hurt a lot to let him go and it'll take some time but you really should try to get over him or at least stay away from him till he grows up a little.
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well it sounds to me like he doesn't really like/love you. He's just using you for hook-ups and nothing more. Maybe you make yourself too available and he's taking advantage of it. I know you love him and you want him. But you need to make him work you get to you. If you're too easy then he would treat you like crapp and unappreciate what he have.
I've experience this myself. then I realized that he's just using me... I dropped him. Then he's crawling back like usual. But this time I make him work for it. He can't get me whenever he wants.
So I think you should get the lead wit this guy. He doesn't take control .. you should be controllin, and make the rules. Shows him you know what you want and worth. You're not one of those trashy sluts that he can hook up wit when he wants or feels like. it can be hard to do but if you're strong enough you won't fall for his games. and you won't get hurt. It mights be the other way around.
anyways hope I help. good luck =] and happie new year.
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