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cant get over first love
im so sick of crying. im so sick of hurting. me and my boyfriend broke up two months ago. and im still dwelling on it. yes he was my first love. and yes he already has a new girlfriend. and he treats that girl a 100 times better than he did me. and im sick of crying. im sick of always thinking about him. he doesnt care about me. so why should i care. its a new year and i want to be over this kid ASAP. please help me.
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getting over your first love isn't easy. he seems like a real jerk.. & you need to find somebody who can treat you right. all you need to do for this year is change your focus. instead of even thinking about him, try & think of guys you might be interested, & start meeting new people. i`m usually against falling back on somebody after a break up because its kind of like using them.. but i think that it's been long enough to find someone else. your feelings probably wont go away, but trust me.. shifting your focus will definitly help. try and find someone who can treat you the way he SHOULD have.
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Okay just look at all the other guys that you should try. If he dosn't care about you anymore its not worth it. Yeah everyone hates sitting in their room crying and thinking of that guy so just try to find another guy. Yeah its hard to get over the first love I've been there not to long ago. So the best thing to do is thinnk positive about other guys and talk to them and then you might find yourself falling for one of them.
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Okay, hunnie, if this guys doesnt care.. then why waiste your time? If he doesn't care, then hes obviiously not right for you. Having a first love is always hard, and yes, love does hurt. You have a right to be sad. Just know this..If he doesn't care, HE'S NOT WORTH IT! Find a new guy. okay, okay. i know what your thinking... he's different from other guys, and getting over him and moving on is the hardest thing to do, and i dont think i can do it... hunny, yes you can. you wanna know how? think about all the things you dont like about him. HECK! MAKE A LIST! ...dont let him see it though..! Act like you dont care, so maybe he'll think he's missing out! If you want to start a fresh, new year, try not to think about him. when you do, think about eveyrthing bad he's ever done to you! you can also talk to your friends, and get advice from them too. Ive been in your situation, and my friends got me back. i was depressed, and hunny, im fine now! Well, i hope this helped, and if you need anything, just ask. :]
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