Hey, I might be 14 years old, but i have been through A LOT in my life.. anything from... love, to family, to drugs, to relationships, to friends, to druggie friends, to pretty much EVERYTHING. I will give you the best advice i can give you. usually my friends come to me for advice. I will give you the best i can. :]
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ok well my boyfriend jsut got a cell phone for christmas. He called me the first 2 days he had it and we talked forever but now he doesnt call,text, or even im me. I see him online and i say hi but he never replys or anything.
i tried talking to him but of course he said ok ill start calling you more but he hasnt called me at all.
Can someone please tell me what to do or what to say to him.
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He probably just wants his space. ask him if this relationship is what he wants, because hes not acting like it, and that you would rather be with someone who shows intrest rather than what hes doing. or, just give it time, and see hoe everything works out. hope this helped. =]
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Okay heres the thing I like this guy he is everything I wanted and I just don't want anyone to know that I like him. Only my best friend knows. I'd rather have him tell me if he liked me than me tell him so I'm sticking to not telling him. But we don't have alot in common and he dosn't seem interested in me at least sometimes. Sometimes I catch him staring at me and doing something then looks over at me but thats it. What should I do? (link)
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Just be flirty. give him a hint that you like him, but not too much. make a day where the two of you can hang out and talk more. maybe he will be honest and tell you that he likes you if he does! hope this hepled. =]
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Well about a week ago I went over to my one friends house, liz’s. It was an all girls night, and it was just 3 people… me, chelsey, and liz. Well to cut the story short, liz’s boyfriend, josh, came over with some friends. I was really shy at first because they are 2-3 years older than us, but I sooned opened up to all of them and was friendly. Well, one of his friends, brett, in particular, was paying special attention to me, and just being really friendly, almost flirty like.
Now, it’s a week later and josh calls liz and tells her that they needa hang out soon again. She told him that tomorrow night, kira, another friend, is going to have a party and that he can come. He asked if he could come but is it ok if he can bring some friends. She tells him yes but asks who. He told her like 2 other guys and if he could bring brett, bc/ it turns out that brett has a “crush” on me, and thinks im cute; but tells her not to tell me because if brett thinks im interested he would try hooking up/getting together with me. BUT, he has a girlfriend, and she is 3-4 years older than him and they’ve been together quite awhile (but it's a long distance relatonship). It sucks so bad, because I really thought brett was cute before I even found out he liked me and I never knew he had a girlfriend.
Now, the thing is, is that im really nervous because now my friends thinks brett has a crush on me, but I don’t wont’ them to tell anyone, but they already did! I don’t want to embarrass him like that, and what if he was just joking around saying that he “likes” me and says im “cute”. And im sooo afraid that the upperclassmen girls are going to hate me now!
What should I do? Should I show brett that I “like” him and thinks he cute? And if he breaks up with his girlfriend should I try getting with him? The thing is, is that I never hooked up with anyone before, and him dating a girl 3 years older than himself tells me that he likes experienced girls. I’m so confused!
P.S. – I really don’t think he is trying to use me though. He is so nice and he doesn’t have that reputation at all.
Thank you so much for your time and advice! =)
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hmm. well, if you like brett's personality, then go for it...what i mean is, be flirty! make a day where the two of you can hang out. if he tries to makeout with you, only do it if you want him to be your first. if the upperclassmen girls hate you, that just means ther jealouse. Yes, if him and his girlfriend break up, try and get with him, but only if you feel right about it. if you feel right about it, do it. but if youre not sure, dont make plans until you know him and trust him enough. hope this helped. :]
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im so sick of crying. im so sick of hurting. me and my boyfriend broke up two months ago. and im still dwelling on it. yes he was my first love. and yes he already has a new girlfriend. and he treats that girl a 100 times better than he did me. and im sick of crying. im sick of always thinking about him. he doesnt care about me. so why should i care. its a new year and i want to be over this kid ASAP. please help me. (link)
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Okay, hunnie, if this guys doesnt care.. then why waiste your time? If he doesn't care, then hes obviiously not right for you. Having a first love is always hard, and yes, love does hurt. You have a right to be sad. Just know this..If he doesn't care, HE'S NOT WORTH IT! Find a new guy. okay, okay. i know what your thinking... he's different from other guys, and getting over him and moving on is the hardest thing to do, and i dont think i can do it... hunny, yes you can. you wanna know how? think about all the things you dont like about him. HECK! MAKE A LIST! ...dont let him see it though..! Act like you dont care, so maybe he'll think he's missing out! If you want to start a fresh, new year, try not to think about him. when you do, think about eveyrthing bad he's ever done to you! you can also talk to your friends, and get advice from them too. Ive been in your situation, and my friends got me back. i was depressed, and hunny, im fine now! Well, i hope this helped, and if you need anything, just ask. :]
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