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confused!
Well about a week ago I went over to my one friends house, liz’s. It was an all girls night, and it was just 3 people… me, chelsey, and liz. Well to cut the story short, liz’s boyfriend, josh, came over with some friends. I was really shy at first because they are 2-3 years older than us, but I sooned opened up to all of them and was friendly. Well, one of his friends, brett, in particular, was paying special attention to me, and just being really friendly, almost flirty like.
Now, it’s a week later and josh calls liz and tells her that they needa hang out soon again. She told him that tomorrow night, kira, another friend, is going to have a party and that he can come. He asked if he could come but is it ok if he can bring some friends. She tells him yes but asks who. He told her like 2 other guys and if he could bring brett, bc/ it turns out that brett has a “crush” on me, and thinks im cute; but tells her not to tell me because if brett thinks im interested he would try hooking up/getting together with me. BUT, he has a girlfriend, and she is 3-4 years older than him and they’ve been together quite awhile (but it's a long distance relatonship). It sucks so bad, because I really thought brett was cute before I even found out he liked me and I never knew he had a girlfriend.
Now, the thing is, is that im really nervous because now my friends thinks brett has a crush on me, but I don’t wont’ them to tell anyone, but they already did! I don’t want to embarrass him like that, and what if he was just joking around saying that he “likes” me and says im “cute”. And im sooo afraid that the upperclassmen girls are going to hate me now!
What should I do? Should I show brett that I “like” him and thinks he cute? And if he breaks up with his girlfriend should I try getting with him? The thing is, is that I never hooked up with anyone before, and him dating a girl 3 years older than himself tells me that he likes experienced girls. I’m so confused!
P.S. – I really don’t think he is trying to use me though. He is so nice and he doesn’t have that reputation at all.
Thank you so much for your time and advice! =)
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hmm. well, if you like brett's personality, then go for it...what i mean is, be flirty! make a day where the two of you can hang out. if he tries to makeout with you, only do it if you want him to be your first. if the upperclassmen girls hate you, that just means ther jealouse. Yes, if him and his girlfriend break up, try and get with him, but only if you feel right about it. if you feel right about it, do it. but if youre not sure, dont make plans until you know him and trust him enough. hope this helped. :]
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Ok...
The good thing is that he does not have a bad reputation. THATS GOOD! I believe that for him to tell his friend that he likes you and he thinks you are cute then he is meaning it.
His relationship with the other girl...is ridiculous. She is older than him and she lives far away. So if he likes you i believe he is starting to realize that.
You like him right? Then dont back up because of a girl that lives far away. Get to know him, spend time with him.
BUT, dont make him choose. Let him take the time to deside by himself. If he chooses to break up with her for you then congratulations and i am happy for you! But make sure he really broke up with her.
If the upperclass girls hate you because you chose to do what will make your life happy instead of theirs then they arent worth your time because they would be selfish.
Hope my advice helped
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