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how to stand out
i may not be the most popular girl in school, but you could say im in that clique of girls. Theres this guy i like, & people say he likes me back & he was suppose to ask me out but then i guess didnt do it. I want to get his attention, i mean i always think i look ugly but people say im not. Is there anyway i can feel & look pretty to get this guys and maybe other peoples attention? please help me
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boosting your self esteem is actually a lot easier than you may think. some of this may sound really stupid & corny but, it definitly works for me.. so maybe it will work for you. first of all, when you look in the mirror pick out the things you like about yourself.. for example, i usually like how i do my eye makeup. put on some music while you get ready for school, like, upbeat music. i have a pair of old speakers from my computer that i bring in the bathroom & i hook up my ipod to it. see, little things like that can really make all the difference. try not to be negative about your appearance and you'll have more confidence when your at school or with your friends, & guys.
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If the guy that you like really likes you he would most likely have asked you out. He could have been nervous. But with the looks I'm sure you are pretty, but if you want to stand out, get a new hair cut or a really cute outfit that excentuates your best features. A structured jacket will give curves but not make you look huge and paired with good jeans it is adorable. Some heels or flats look great. I'm sure something might happen!
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Well, looking pretty isn't a lot about how you look. It's about how you feel about the way you look.
You could sport miniskirts and dye your hair blonde to attract him to you but then what will stop him from asking out the girl next to you who also has blonde hair and wears miniskirts?
My psychologist used to have me do this exericize when I had depression. I was supposed to look into the mirror every night and tell myself I was beatiful five times. Eventually, I started to believe it and that confidence showed on me every time I talked to someone. And it's funny because right after I got over my depression, I started attracting guys like flies.
It's just the way that you walk and talk that makes you different from everyone else. People who show confidence attract other people who want to feed off their confidence.
Corny phrase moment: beauty is only skin deep.
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I really don't know what to tell you about this one. Confidence comes from the inside and out, so you just need to remind yourself about all the good things about yourself. Dress in a way that makes you feel comfortable and pretty so in you're head you're thinking "I look great, he's a psycho not to look at me." Guys think confidence is sexy, so just hold your head up high and do your best!
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