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why is love so confusing?


Question Posted Monday January 1 2007, 8:54 pm

Ok so I used to like my ex boyfriend yet he has another girl friend. It used to be that whenever I wanted to I could have him back, but not now. Its been hard but Ive gotten over him. And Im finally happy for him and so forth, yet theres someone else I like. I cant tell my own best friend because well hes praticually a best friend to both me and her and I know that she wouldnt be to happy. Im so confused about him. Someone at work spread a rumour saying that we liked eachother yet she had no idea she is just a drama strater. Yet I dont know how he reacted really. Hs ex girlfriend works with us and I know that she was all worried but I dont know if maybe he was plaing it cool with her. I was playing it off becuase I didnt want any drama to start. I know that he tells our other friend everything yet I dont have the guts to ask her if he likes me. I need any advice I can get as to what I should do. I dont want him to just see me as a frined cus I feel much more. Do I just need to grow some confidence and ask him or just let it go? I knew on New Years Eve he wanted to kiss someone, yet he hung out with our normal crew. I dont know Im so ocnufsed on this. And I always get the short end of the stick everytime. Any advice would be great. Thanx =)

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Sydnie_I_can_Try answered Monday January 1 2007, 9:35 pm:
Well, if he is a clos efriend of yours all I can say is, DONT CONFUSE YOUR FEELINGS FOR HIM! But there is no real way to tell if he really does like you unless you confront him or your mutual friends. Relax, if you don't want to confront him or your friend, go with the flow, he may come around tell you himself. It all depends on how you react to all of it.

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khadiya answered Monday January 1 2007, 9:09 pm:
Just tell your freind. IF she is just a friend to him then she has no reason to get mad about anything. And if she does kno if he likes you or not she will probably tell you. This would be a good thing because if you stay keeping this a secret, your actually wasting your time. The more time you waste the less time your gonna be with him or someone else.

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kiran answered Monday January 1 2007, 9:09 pm:
If you really like him go for it! If your friend wouldn't be happy because you like a guy that is a best friend to you guys then thats her problem. She should be happy for you. So I think you should tell her and go for the guy. Good Luck!

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