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Q: Is it true that stomach ulcers can be caused by being stressed or worried too much? I was told this and I'm not sure if it's true.

well,i always thought that it was true,but now im not too sure lol i just found out like right now.Type in google "stomach ulcers cause stress"

This website seemed pretty good:
http://www.mamashealth.com/stomach.asp

need anymore information just leave one in the inbox ; ]

♥ danielle

Q: Do u think im too young for sex? I WANT TO SOOOOOO BADDDDDDDD! uhhhh..hes 17, but he promises me i wouldnt get pregnant if we used a condom in he took it out before he cummed in me..is that true?

Well if you honestly think your mature,ready,and think your capable of raising a child if you do get pregnant then yes,you are ready.If you cant handle raising a child,or are not sure about having sex dont do it especially for the sake of having sex if you truly dont love him sex is a huge deal.Now if you do have sex,if he does take it out before he cums,its a lesser chance of you getting pregnant,but theres always that slaight chance.Hope i could help on your decision!

♥ danielle

Q: i had sex for the first time the other day
we used a condom and it didnt break
he didnt bust when we did it either..
he just had a little bit of cum and pre- cum in the condom...
so my question is..
is there still any possible way i could be pregnant?
what are some signs that you could be pregnant?

1.Theres ALWAYS a chance of you getting pregnant even if you used a condom.But,since it didnt break and as long as none of his cum went inside you you should be okay.

2.This website gives you the early signs pregnancy http://www.surebaby.com/

♥ danielle

Q: well i went to the movies with this guy and i have liked him for a while and then that night we told each other that we liked each other, but thats it he didnt ask me out, he didnt ask to me to be his gf, thats it he just likes me. what do i do do i make the first move and ask him or what idk what to do please help me.

I think maybe hes a little too shy to ask you right now.You could possibly make the first move.You could tell him "hey since we both like each other,what do you think of us possibly having a relationship together?" and then see what he says.If you dont want to make the first move and want to wait for him to do it,dont wait too long because if he dosent say anything about having a relationship after about say a week or two,then you would have to make the first move.Hope i could help!

♥ danielle

Q: HELP I have so many pimples, is there any way to get them gone in one day, or atleast significantly reduced.

I would try proactiv it works extremely well (results may vary though) but everyone i know whos tried it liked it and look much better.If all else fails go to your dermatologist and ask him/her to maybe prescribe you something for it ; ]

♥ danielle

Q: ok, well every time i shave, when im done, my legs are always really itchy. its not like a rash, but it wont go away. what should i dot to stop this?

Well,it could be one of two things.One,it could be your not using any gel or shaving cream and soo its irrating the skin you HAVE to use something while you shave even if its just shampoo.Second,if you do use shaving cream,gel,shampoo,etc you might be allergic to the stuff thats in the product,try looking at the label and see what things you might be capable of being allergic too.So for now,dont scratch at your legs! It will irrate your skin and leave some red rash looking spots.I hope that helps!

♥ danielle

Q: 17/f
My boyfriend's favorite animal is a cow, and we have inside jokes about it. I was thinking of getting him a stuffed cow and chocolates for Valentines Day. But I was wondering, do guys like getting stuffed animals from girls? I mean he's kind of like a "man's man." And I've been dating him for 5 months, so do you think chocolates and a stuffed cow would be enough? Or should I get him more? Or maybe make him dinner along with the stuffed cow and chocolates? Or would that be too much? Help!

Aww thats soo cute and real creative! I think guys dont mind getting something thats not that "manly" once in awhile.You should like maybe recreate your first date or the time you came up with the inside joke about the car that would be cute.If you get him more things dont spend too much on it, i would suggest going with the whole "inside joke" theme if you have anymore.I hope i gave you some good advice!

♥ danielle

Q: what are some web sites i can go to for puberty...i know puberty101.com but what are some others?

It would really be more helpful if you said what gender you were because i only really have two www.beinggirl.com and www.gURL.com but those are for if your a girl.I typed in "puberty" on googles search engine and i came up with TONS of good sites http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&lr=&q=puberty&btnG=Search.Those should really help you out ; ]

♥ danielle

Q: i need help...ok im going though puberty i know because i have some pubic hair and i have semen but on my penis i have like a seed...or looks like a seed in my penis...under the skin and i have had in for like i tihnk my whole life is it normal or do i have something wrong...?...i have gone to the doctor when he make sure everything is ok and he didnt say anything but i dnno....i masterbat 1-2 if that has anything to do with it
PLEASE HELP!

Well since im not a boy,i was thinking maybe you could type in google something like "seed under the penis" or "seed under skin on penis" maybe try some other searches along those lines also. Im sure your fine if your doctor didnt say anything,and if youve had it there your hole life im pretty sure its supposed to be there ; ] I hope i could help!

♥ danielle

Q: for english vocab i have to draw a pic. that goes with a word and i got the word commodious but im not sure what to draw . . do you have any ideas???

thanks in advance :)

commodious \kuh-MOH-dee-us\, adjective:
Comfortably or conveniently spacious; roomy; as, a commodious house.

hmm well i thought maybe you could draw your bedroom if its a comfy place for you,or a basement mabye with comfy chairs,and alot of space in it? lol im sorry i hope that helps you out a bit!

♥ danielle

Q: I wanna know how you can make that red dip, the one with lots of tomatoes inside it...and the sour cream and onion one.

Thanks in advance.

http://southernfood.about.com/od/tomatoes/r/bl40625g.htm

I think thats what your talking about.I have some others if thats the wrong recipe.Hope i could help!

♥ danielle

Q: what is flirting exactly? how do you do it? dont you think its rather obvious when your flirting?

Well, the person under me basically summed it all up for you lol Flirting in the dictornary online i looked up said that flirting is: playful behavior intended to arouse sexual interest.You basically flirt by touching ones arm when they take,rub his leg while hes not looking,make a weird kind of giggle when he says something,acting kind of ditzy,rub his back,playfully kissing him,complainting him,eye contact with him,playfully fighting with them,making an excuse to touch his stomach/ass,...etc.Its VERY obvious when someone is flirting with someone else,thats how everyone knows or thinks you like that person by how your acting towards them,though i sometimes flirt when im not interested in the person so they get mixed signals but i kind of cant help it i guess its human nature too flirt lol.

♥ danielle

Q: what age is right for sex? i always thought not till your married. what do you think?

Theres really no "right" age for sex.Theres people who have done it when they were 13 to being just starting to have sex at their 20's,it all depends when your ready to have it.I used to personally think the same way as you which is to wait till your married,which is a good choice,but im starting to think that if you really truly and deeply love the person,and he feels the same way then i think it would be awesome because its actually worth it to do and not just the sake for having sex just because he/she's there,it would actually "mean" something.Well thats my opinion on it,i hope i could help.

♥ danielle

Q: do they make trackers for myspace? like i know they make them for xanga and i have one on there but what about myspace?

No,im sorry they dont.I asked the same question as you before.I wish they did though it would be really useful.You should write to tom about it maybe he will start working on it ; ]

♥ danielle

thats awesome! i LOVE pittsburgh! ive been there like once though lol i live right outside of philadelphia ; ]

Q: I lost the code you have to have to play the sims nightlife anyone have it add the dashes like 8765-89898-0090 thanks!

I have that too,im sorry hun but all the things on the back of the boxes are different numbers so none of them are quite the same.You should take the receipt and maybe go back to the store and ask them to get you a replacement,or trying call the sims company about it,the number might be on their website www.sims2.com or i think its www.thesims2.com one of the two.I hope i could help!

♥ danielle

wow you dont have to be a bitch about it,i tried to help you out.My heart thing isnt gay its acutally awesome by the way ; ]

Q: So i was mastrabating yesterday and when i ejaculated there was a few drops of blood and the tip of the penis hurt so i thought it was just a cut. So today i mastrabated again and it happened again. is it just a cut, what is it

well when i typed in google "bleeding from the penis" i got some good sites on it,so check them out ; ]

♥ danielle

Q: i'm a 14/f

when i masterbate i bleed and hurt a ton!

i used to do it all of the time, but lately i havn't bc it hurts to badly

why do i bleed everywhere?!

Aww hun,whatever your doing your doing it too hard.You have to not be soo rough and just be gentle with yourself ; ] lol i would stop doing it because your making it sore down there,soo try to not do it for a couple weeks and see what happens,if it still bothers you after that,talk to your mom and go to the doctors to get it checked out.Hope i could help!

♥ danielle

Q: Hey. Well, I have a xanga, and I was wondering how do you put pictures (Profile and postings) and music onto your site. Thanks a bunch!

I have one too.Well you might want to try FAQ/Help on the xanga site.But to put on music go to a music site "go to blogring,and then type in music codes,click on a group and then click on the music site you want then copy the link by right clicking and then saying copy,then go to your look and feel and then where it says something liek music box with the http:// thingy erase that and click on it and right click and do paste.Now,if you want to put a picture on your xanga go to public profile then go to upload pictures on like the left side,then click on it then do upload and find a picture of yourself on your computer then click on the picture and do save and there you have it.I hope i could help! if you need better directions,just leave one in the inbox ; ]

♥ danielle

Q: My mind always fills dirty things about guys. I always fantasize about their penises like how big they have, shaved or un-shaved, fat or thin. Its about all men, young and old, known or unknown. Imagine when I talk to a man, my mind goes fantasizing about his penis, Is this sickness?
I am 15/F.

Hun your normal,its hormones.Everyone goes through what your going through with thinking about "dirty" things.Were just some horny teenagers ; ] lol

♥danielle

Q: Many people on AIM with profiles iv'e seen say "via Hiptop"

any reason what that means? or does anyone know why they say that?

later

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