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Hey! First off, i'm going to start by saying I came here on this site to give people advice. Some people actually don't know the real meaning of advice. They think its the answers they want to hear. But i'm not here for that. I'll give you advice, and it might be something you don't want to hear. But deal with it! You may take my advice or not, its completely up to you and you are not gaurnteed a correct solution.

Ok so now that's clear, I'll talk to you more about myself. Hence the username... I play volleyball. It is my passion and basically my life since I've played for about 7 years. Most of my friends say i'm 50/50 tomboy and girly girl. I LOVE sports!! I play volleyball all year round, and then I go to the park during free times to play some soccer, football, hockey, basketball or baseball with my friends. But then again, I could be inside trying on my new Sephora makeup i'd just gotten, or reading the latest Seventeen magazine or even arranging my clothes for school tomorrow.

You can ask me just about anything and i'll be happy to answer it. You can count on a full and detailed answer.

Oh and another thing... I love getting feedback! Even if its a negative comment. It tells me what I need to work on or even what I did correct.

-Volleyball2150



BODY EXERCISES AND WORKOUTS! my way or the highway

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I have 3 C's, 2 1 B, and 2 A's. I need help to raise my C's to a higher grade before my parents get a notice.

What are some good study tips?
Also, what is my point average?
Thanks!

A study technic is record yourself saying something ((ex. a math problem with the answer)) when you go to sleep... play that over and over again. So when you wake up.. you'll memorize it

I hope I helped!
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Okay, so there's this freshman at my school. [I'm a sophmore.] His name is Jon, and he's really cute! I have 2 classes with him, and he makes me laugh tons. He's so adorable, and he makes funny faces at me. He's got blonde hair/blue eyes. He's skaterish, I guess. My label would be more "scene." He always looks at me and smiles, or does something goofy to make me laugh. Anyways, I think he's really cute, and that he's got a great personality, so I decided to tell him I liked him. Well, I'm super shy, so I had my friend Angela tell him. Well, she told him at lunch, and all he said was "oh." And I've been single for so long, I'm not sure if he's flirting or whatnot, because I forgot how that even goes. Do you think he likes me, he's shy, or he only likes me as a friend. I'd really like to know, since I really like him, and I would love to go out with him!

Thanks!

Well it depends really on how is expression was then. You cant really tell if he likes you by the word "oh". Did he smile when he said it? When your friend angela left, did he look at you? Those could be signs that he was thinking of you and likes you and is just shy to admit he likes you. BUT if he said "oh" and had a disgusted look on his face, he probably doesnt like you... why dont you ask Angela what is expression was? Until you actually know if he likes you or not, just flirt with him. Next time he does something to make you laugh, laugh and twirl you hair and look at him in his eyes. Or bite your lip. You dont want to go overboard on the flirting thing, but just a simple thing will make him think really hard on if he likes you or not.

I hope I helped!
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does anybody have a picture of 2 puppies that are cuddling close to each other for a best friend card?? I'll really appriciate it!!!

http://img113.imageshack.us/img113/6940/key70067qm1.jpg

http://img68.imageshack.us/img68/3264/key70070wy3.jpg


I hope I helped!
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I'm going purse shopping in a little bit today and I was wondering if anybody has any ideas of cute purses I could buy? I would like to have a forgein purse made in the Europian countries but sold in america.

http://img113.imageshack.us/img113/7001/key70063vj6.jpg

thats a purse of mine that was made in china, you can buy it at most purse stores because its very popular. just print out the picture and ask somebody if they know where you can get a puse like this ((if you like it of course!))

I hope I helped!
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does anybody have any cute pictures of fabric that I can look at.... I don't really know why I'm interested in this, but I LOVE to look at different types of fabric styles and such... THANKSSS!!!

http://img168.imageshack.us/img168/6855/key70065mf2.jpg

thats my blanket... I think its a pretty cool design.

I hope I helped!
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what does this mean in german? my friend takes german in school and her teacher said this to me
" Hallo v gayn see hoyta? " sorry if its not spelled right. thanks

Hey,
i'm german so I know what that means... lol
Hallo wie gehn sie heute
that is the correct way to spell it and it means "Hi, how are you today"

I hope I helped!
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what's the song that has a lyric that says
" whoah...whoah....whoah...whoah...." and then I think its spanish that they're speaking. but then they say some words that ends with ANO and ENA....

any body have any ideas?? I heard it on the radio and its been bugging me!

is it Oye Mi Canto by- N.O.R.E
?
I think that might be it...

I hope I helped!
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I'm really into drawing, so I was wondering if anybody knew any celebrity websites that have drawings of them?? please and thanks

http://zindy.zone.dk/html/drawings/stars_index.htm

I hope I helped!
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Hi Ok im kinda pale with blonde hair and my mom said my hair would not look good black i need some advice because i want to dye it black but i dont know how it is gonna turn out ?

Okay first, I have no experience in dying hair... so choose a company that you trust. I trust L'oreal... but your opinion could be different. Choose a company that you trust that you know that the color isnt going to come out blue or pink... lol. You have to look at yourself in the mirror. Imagine yourself with black hair. If you can imagine yourself do this: go on http://makeover.ivillage.com/IVillage/flashRemoting/index.html?
make a username ((free)) and upload a picture of yourself, then you can choose a hairstyle and color. So for you, just upload a pic of you, and then choose your hairstyle and click on the color black. Then see how you look. If you dont like you pale skin color but still want the black hair look, dye your hair black and then go get a tan. If its sunny where you live, go to the beach for a couple of hours, if you're stuck in cold weather, you can try tanning booths or that spray can stuff.

I hope I helped with your decion!
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i have a couple of red marks on my face and arms..they're little red dots..i gotten them about four years ago, and more and more keep developing...theyre not pimples or not anything i think i seen on anyone..i dont know what they are, but they wont go away..i cover them up with makeup every day. can any one tell me what they are and how to get rid of them..i really hate them, they make me look flawed and ugly..help please! ♥

I think what you have is what the other advicenators suggested, but heres a tip... DONT cover it with make-up. It'll get oily and dirty and maybe cause more. Go see a dermatalogist ((sp?)) asap!

I hope I helped!
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I was just wondering is there a trcik for studying? Like write with colors or something? Some like tips would be great!


I dont know anything about writing with colors.. but I do know that if you record yourself saying something ((ex. a math problem and then the answer)) into a recorder.. and then when you go to sleep, put in headphones and listen to it over and over and over again! then you start to fall asleep cause its so boring, but when you wake up... you'll memeorize it! Its amazing!

I hope I helped!
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how do i stop caring about what people think of me?

ignore what they're saying, think of all of the positives about you that nobody has.. it'll make you feel better about yourself.

I hope I helped!
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well, i live in leicester , england. and my birthdays in october so whats that? autumn i think...

Well my friends birthday is also in autumn, and I'm always invited there. And some ideas for what she does is make everybody rake leaves, and then we have a leave-pile jumping contest... its sooo much fun! Then you just use leaf-blowers and have a leaf fight! Another idea is playing outside. Play yard games such as kick-the-can, ghost in the grave yard, 3 step... etc. Be creative, make art projects for everybody to do. Have a dance-off or a kareoke night. Take them out for a fancy dinner... or better yet, If your birthday is close to halloween, have a halloween party and have costume contests and a scare house.

I hope I helped!
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hi, well i know this is kind of stupid, but my birthdays coming up soon, and i told my friends i would organise it instead of them, because they do a lousy job. last year my friend tried to collect some money from people so they could chip in for a present.. he got £1.50 thats like $3 or something. so does anybody have ideas on what i can do? by the way im turning 15, and theres nothing much to do in the city.

I cant answer this question until I get more details... ask me the question again from my Inbox...
1. what city are you in?
2. what's the weather going to be like on your birthday? ((winter, summer, fall, spring?????))

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Okay so my boyfriend name is Patrick who i am in love with well yeah me and him are getting into fights about rediculous crap! and he lives like 45 mins away and yeah i wanna see him on weekends but i dont wanna loose my friends cause of it, cause when they say wanna hang out i have to say no cause i have to be with him and he'll get mad at me if i cancel and idk i just dont know what im suppose to do. i dont want my life revolving around him and i dont know what to say or do when he does it.

you have to think... whats more important

friends that last a lifetime
OR
a boyfriend that argues with you and will break up in a few years

???
what's more important to you?
think about this

I hope I helped
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14/f

I've fallen for this boy but hes in 7th *im in 8th* and i know age is just a number but since hes younger than me and i never really talk to him except for in two classes, i dont really know about him like if he has a girlfriend or if he would ever go out with me. i dont rly have any friends in that grade that would know except for one. i could ask her but she would make a big deal about it. any advice?

I dont think asking that girl is a good idea... just like you said, she could make a big deal about it. First off, talk to him as a friend. In those 2 classes, talk to him as a friend. DONT flirt with him or anything, because you still dont know if he has a girlfriend and he could get upset. So talk to him as a friend, become best friends with him. Then casually drop the question if he has a girlfriend. If not just be like "oh, ok" he'll get the picture that you like him. On the other hand, if he says yes he has a girlfriend be like "cool, what's her name?" and just ask questions about her. Because if you say "oh..." and act all sad, he'll know that you like him and he'll have to keep that as a secret so his girlfriend wont find out, then if she finds out there will be a huge cat fight... which I dont think you want.

I hope I helped!!!
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Okay. I have to choose between two boys. Now, me and sal went out. Then he dumped me. He realized he made a mistake and wants to go back out again.

Matt, on the other hand. I have never gone out with. It's totally obvious he likes me. Everyone says he's going to ask me out. But I've been waiting for like, 3 days.

I would prefer to go out with Matt, but if he isn't going to ask my out than I might as well go out with Sal. Because I like both of them.
So what's going to happen? What should I do?

I think this one is a toughy. You have to think to yourself, who do I have more in commen with? Who is easy to talk to? Who understands how I feel? Just because Matt hasn't asked you out in 3 days yet doesn't mean it won't do it. Maybe he's too shy and wants to wait until the time is right. All it takes is patience. Compare the 2 guys and see who is better for you. You also have to think about Sal, maybe he really feels bad that he left you. Just see who is better. If Sal is better, get back together than. But if Matt is better, talk to him and just hang around him more often. If he wont ask you out in about 1 week and a half, YOU ask HIM out. All it takes is patience.

I hope I helped!
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okay well idk what kind of hair styles to do with my hair. help!!!!!!!

i do my hair like this a lot
http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a389/melisx3/P8100575.jpg



and like this



and my hair is straight so it also looks like this
http://i15.photobucket.com/albums/a389/melisx3/P8150595.jpg

www.geocities.com/mka_wonderland

that website is full of hairstyles that are easy, they have directions too which make it even more easy!!
just go there and click on Hair.

I hope I helped!
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my bf and i are goin to this thing where everyone dresses up so we decided to be rockstars and he wants me to help him w/ his hair & make up haha [were goin all out on this] soo i was wonderin how do guys like benji madden and gerard way etc wear eyeliner? top and bottom and then they jus smudge it or what? cuz im goin for that look. and also to spike his hair [its kinda short] do i jus use gel and like run my fingers through it to make it stand up in diff. directions? thanks in advance

ook... anyways, just put on make-up on him just as if he was a girl. First try eyeliner on the top... then if that looks good, try on the bottom. Smudge it a little for a smokey eye look. For the hair, yeah, its just like what you said. Take gel in your hands, and rub it on your fingers, then run your fingers through his hair and make the hair stand up in different directions. Then if you want blow dry it so its hard and will stay that way.

I hope I helped!
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I'm 14 yrs old and i need help on how to get a girl to like me. I am very shy and don't know wut 2 do!!!!

well when you see a girl that you like, talk to her! You cant really MAKE her like you... she's the one that makes that decion. But you can become friends with her and see what comes next. Talk to her in a normal conversation. Then casually start talking to her and inviting her to places with your other friends. Become friends with her. Then see what comes next. Go with the flow.

I hope I helped!
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