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so i have straight hair and it goes down to my chest. usually whenever i try to do something different it never works (ex: crimping or scrunching) i want like lauren conrad waves how do i get them? (link)
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After using a volumizing shampoo and conditioner, blow dry your hair (or wait until it dries, if you'd rather), then use a spiral curling iron. Once you've curled all of your hair, run your fingers through your hair and you'll have instant LC hair.
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if you set your friends list to private, can other ppl still see your mutual friends? (link)
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No, if your friends list is completely private, then you can't see any type of friends, including mutual.
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I am a sophomore in highschool and I am sort of in a relationship with a 22 year old. Do you think this is strange or perfectly fine? Any advice/comments are appreciated :] (link)
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First off, I think this is totally a matter of opinion. I personally, don't see anything wrong with it as long as you're comfortable with the age difference, comfortable with the guy and he isn't pressuring you to do anything you don't want to.
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13 years old.
And im like 5'6 or 5'5.
Im 120 Pounds.
55 kilos.
Is that skinny? or normal. (link)
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I took a look at your BMI and you're at a perfectly normal weight for your height. =]
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Ok so I'm a 14 year old girl in 8th grade... ok anyways, I don't really consider myself popular, I'm actually pretty quiet, and I don't think I'm beautiful or hot or whatever, just pretty. But the thing that's always confused me is guys love being around me. Like, they love teasing me and making me laugh and just being around me in general, and not weird ones, either, like, really cute popular guys. I don't really know WHY though. I love hanging out with boys, I get along with them better than I do with girls. So, could it be because I have a really good, boyish-sense of humor and I laugh really easily? Do boys like making girls laugh? Anyone wanna help me out here? (link)
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Wow, instead of wondering why they love you, I think you should be enjoying it and taking full advantage. There are so many girls who would love to be like you, right now. I'm sure they love you because of your awesome personality, assuming your nice person who is caring and a good person to talk to. I'm sure these are a few reasons why they love you.
Be happy and proud that they love you - you're very lucky!
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I'm a 23 yr old female, who recently got married. Before this, I was a virgin... My husband recently asked me if I would ever feel comfortable going down on him. I want to please him sexualy, but the thing is I have no idea exactly how to perform a blow job. I have a lot of questions, like which areas should I concentrate on, what I do with my mout (is licking or sucking involved, or is it just going up and down the shaft with my mouth?) Also, I know some people like to vary it by using there hands... If doing that, what are some techniques? Any help would be highly appriciated! (link)
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This website will help you, it gives you all the information you need.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/pm_fellatio.shtml
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Iam 15 female &een dating my boyfriend for a year and i think it's about time for us to be sexual but i don't want to have actual sex and i want to know of somethings that we can do to each other without having sctual intercourse.
please don't try to talk me out of it. (link)
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*Fingering
*Oral
*Feeling Up
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i really like this guy that is bi-racial. (black and white)
and i don't know if my family would accept it or not but i'm not sure that i care..
is there anything wrong with a white girl dating a bi-racial boy?
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It's totally okay if you date him, just because he's bi-racial doesn't mean that you shouldn't date him. Believe me, people need to see past the color and I'm so happy that you are seeing past it, and if he's a really good guy, I'm sure your parents will too.
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whats more damaging to your hair. hair products such as curling gels/creams or hair straighteners? (link)
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Hair products are slow-working when it comes to damaging your hair, also, many of them are actually good for your hair if they have the proper vitamins and nutrients. Hair straighteners definitely damage your hair noto nly more severely, but more quickly as well - mostly because of the heat.
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i am really starting to like this guy at school and well i don't know him very well, kinda just met him. So like the first day i find out we like the same music so we talked about that. Then like the next day we had to do a presentation in class. So like at lunch i was with one of my friends and he was nearby so he walks over and says "hey your presentation was really good. mine kinda sucked." And we kinda talked but not so much. Pretty much it is still pretty much small talk, but I ran into him today and he gives me this smile which was personally the cutest smile I have ever seen. When I say it all like this it sounds pretty convincing that he likes me but idk because he is really friendly and has a lot of girls as friends. He is just really charming and sweet, so maybe lots of girls like him. Maybe he just wants to be friends? Please someone help. Thanks so much! =] (link)
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You have some very good signs saying that he does like you, take some time to look over this link and it'll help you figure it out more. =]
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507294
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i get discharge everyday liek a lot of it
is this bad?
how do i stop this (link)
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Absolutely not, discharge on a daily basis is totally normal. Unfortunately, you cannot stop discharge as it's a normal part of a woman's life and it's there for a reason (a good reason), however, there are things you can do to cope with it better. Pantyliners are made for this sole purpose, they're thin and make it more comfortable when you discharge.
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im with a girl now and i love her but their is this other girl that every time i see her or talk to her i fall harder for her making me want to leave my curret girl what do i do???? (link)
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You need to take some time to figure out who and what you really want. If you love your girlfriend and are sure that you want to stay with her, and want to have a serious relationship - you should probably stay away from the other girl, then you won't be so tempted.
However, if you're not looking to stay in a serious relationship and believe that you would be happier with this other girl - then I think you should break it off with your girlfriend and try something with the other girl (only if you're sure that she feels the same as you do).
If you're confused and can't decide which one you want and the relationship that you want, I think it would be best to take a break from your girlfriend, take that time to really figure out what you want in your life, and then make your decision.
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I'm going through Amazon ordering books right now, and am wondering if anyone has any suggestions to read.
I'm 16, f, if that helps
Some other books i've read recently are: The Twilight Series, The Book Thief, Wicked, and the Giver
THANKS
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*Summer Boys Series by Hailey Abbott (Absolute best books you will find, they're my favorite!)
*The It Girl Series
*Gossip Girl Series
*Nights in Rodanthe
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I've been looking for a good brand of makeup lately, and I was wondering what your favorite is? (link)
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Personally, I like CoverGirl. Their makeup always provides great coverage and is definitely the best at hiding blemishes.
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In your opinion, how stupid are boys? (link)
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Actually, I don't consider boys stupid. You see, male or female, we all have our faults and things that we know that we shouldn't do or don't mean to do that may be considered as "stupid."
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What should you do when a friend is lying to you? (link)
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You should talk to your friend and let him/her know how you're feeling and that you do not deserve to be lied to.
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ok this is kinda embarrasing and it sounds totally stupid but i really want one of those summer flings, and summers almost over and i havent really had one sooo is there anyway to get one haha (link)
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Not stupid at all, most of my friends feel the same. I always liked that too, except I'm not into flings, but I do have a really great boyfriend now. =]
You could try to start up something with a guy you already know or have some kind of inclination that he likes you. Or you could try to find a new guy at a public place, such as a beach, library, etc. Also, getting a summer job or going off to camp also makes good for a fling, or something more at times.
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im like 110 pounds or so. and i have this friend. shes on the bigger side. im a tall person ( like 5'6ish) and shes like 4'11. she always thinks taht shes smaller than me. when everyone knows shes not. she yells at me for thinking that im not fat. she really makes me feel bad because i used to be like 90 pounds in like 7th grade and then i gained that weight as i got older ( im in 10th now ) what should i do about this girl and her 'your fat, im not' thing? (link)
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She is upset about her weight and insecure with herself, therefore, she complains about you to make herself look better (even though it's making her look worse). I think you should try talking to her about it and letting her know that it hurts your feelings when she says those things, and that she would not want you to treat her that way and that you wouldn't do that to her. If she doesn't change soon, I wouldn't be her friend anymore. Friends are there to support each other, not be jealous and hurtful to one another.
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ok im 14 my boifriend is 16 which means he will be 18 when im 16 can he go to jail cause im under age and should i break up with him till i get older (link)
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He can only go to jail if the two of you are having sex, but you can date and he will not get into any trouble, as long as everything is okay with your and his parents.
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what does it mean for a person to be shady?? (link)
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Here is the exact defintion...
" fishy: not as expected; "there was something fishy about the accident"; "up to some funny business"; "some definitely queer goings-on"; "a shady deal"; "her motives were suspect"; "suspicious behavior" "
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