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Hey guys im Michelle!! Some people think im annoying, some people think im crazy.. but who knows im just ME!! I bite my nails, i know its a habbit i have to stop. I love getting my nails done, its my obsession. My goal in life is to become famous, but who doesnt wanna be? Im mean to people if they're mean to me first, otherwise whats the reason to be mean to someone? I dont understand life.. although it can be fun sometimes. I love the color pink, and when i say that people automatically think im a girly girl. I love to dance and sing, although i dont see myself doing it when i get older..

advice

Can you get pregnant from pre-cum?

yes!
HOPE I HELPED!
x♥ x ♥ Michelle

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Yeah im 14 1/2 and I have had sweaty armpits for about 2 1/2 years now , and it still hasnt gotten any better! I have used almost every deoderant and anti-perspirant. i have also tried prescripted stuff. My mom thinks i sweat when im nervous. But that would mean i would be nervous everyday. I just got my period a couple of days ago too. Please Help Me!

Thanks,

GET MEN DEODERANT!
HOPE I HELPED!!
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle

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i've been absent from school 7 1/2 days this year. ive been sick a lot and there are lots of bugs going around.plus i broke my elbow earlier. well i was absent today and the vice principal called. he said i had to go school or they'd get the county involved. he said that the max number of days you can be absent in a year is 10, but the rules state 20. it also says you cant miss more than 5. well the first grading period i was absent 5 days, so that isnt breaking any rules. should i be in trouble for this because he is clearly lying? i dont see how im breaking any of the written rules. ive heard of no such change in them either so it isnt like i missed it. what do i do?

well u have an arguement if they get contry + u didnt do anything a good way to get rid of colds are to get medicine like echnasia or vitamin c! srry and all you need to do is go to school!
HOPE I HELPED!
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle

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What are some good ways to make your girlfriend feel special, like make her feel like you are the best guy in the world (well I know that's probably around impossible. So I am exaggerating a bit, haha.)? What do you girls think would make you special if your guy said them to you or things like that?

kissing doesnt do anything for me i like rings or somthing as a token of our 'going outness' or somthing like a bear write her a card about you love for eachother!
HOPE I HELPED!
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle

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why is it that everytime a guy i like starts to like me back, i stop liking him completely?

it is normal, you get uncomftoable around him.
HOPE I HELPED!
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle

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Ok I have this friend (we'll call her K) and were really tight and all. And April 2004 she introduced me to the guy she liked (we'll call him J) that lives in our neighborhood. Yes, I thought he was cute. Well this October she hooked up (only made-out) with him for about an hour. And J got my # from one of his friends so we started calling each other almost every night and saw each other on like sat.'s and fri.'s and now since last Wednesday we are going out. Yes she is in love with him and let me inform you right now the only reason probably why she likes him is because she thinks he's hot. And J and I have a very strong relationship and he does not like her at all. I know this because his attitude towards her. They aren't really friends but she always talks to him on the internet and J tells me what K says about her asking personal stuff about what we do...its pissing me off sooo much. Its none of her damn business. K knows that I know shes in love with him its she just exaggerates it soo much. Like on her advice column! And don't worry I am NOT a bad friend because I asked K before J asked me out, that if we do go out if it would be ok with her and shes like "I don't care" And I know she meant it. Because I was like "are you sure?", "you can tell me" and once she found out we were going out like on Fri. she wanted to explode she was mad at me! and then I was like I can break up with him if you want me to for our friendship and then like 5 mins later K was all like, "oh, don't if your happy I want you to be!" and she meant it sincrely
So what should I do?
thanks in advanced & I rate high, and sorry for it being so long! :)

well... i would expect more from her! she is jelous.. she is confused doesnt no wat is going on! talk to her about it. ask her her true feelings honest feelings not like oh i totally want him to b ur bf i dont care ask her as a friend. after awhile the jelousy will go away!
HOPE I HELPED!
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle

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i have LOVEHANDELS! i hate them they arent even that big but in a bathing suit or something they make me look soo nasty. and when i wear jeans u can see them alot 2...its grossin me out! i always have like extra flab on my back upper thighs like by my butt. im not fat or anything i just need to tone up...how can i do that? i dont eat healthy i eat ALOT actually....its hard for me to go on a diet i never stick to it!! and i get lazy when i workout...help...*im also in soccer at my school and we run EVERYDAY for 2 hrs..will that help me lose my extra fat?*

hey! you prob arent fat! all you need to do is have smaller portions of food do sit ups crunches that will work your stomach jogging will work but not as much as actual excersising! here are a good selection of dieting food:
fish
salad
veggies
fruits
milk (ALOT)
water
soy
chiken
NOTHING WITH A LOT OF OIL (you need oil in some food)
DO NOT EAT PAST 8 unless it is a special occasion
HOPE I HELPED!
x ♥ x ♥ michelle

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So, i've been thinking about but not really knowing if... I mean it's not that I want to commit suicide... I guess i'm just depressed and no I don't want to go on medication cause it's not like my brain is screwed up... it's just that I dunno I feel ugly I feel bad and whenever I tell anyone it doesn't seem to be relevant to them... and yes I know by posting this there will be people (stupid) saying that "YA U SHOULD U WORTHLESS PEICE OF ****" and I really don't care cause I probably should... I know that you guys probably don't care whether I live or not cause I mean it'll just mean one less mouth to feed and one more room to fill...

Basically the reason why I am depressed is that cause I'm gay and i've told people but not everyone... and I just want to have someone to be able to love me back and someone to be able to cuddle with on winter's cold... I've tried online chatting (no not AIM) but actual sites that are serious and no respons... I guess it's cause I'm ugly... but I just feel... *sigh*

AWW... well... all i can tell u is that i care about you! DONT KILL YOURSELF! you are not a worthless peice of ****! it is normal for people to feel like this especially when you are gay! being gay is not a bad thing at all!! people love you! a good way to help this problem is... RIGHT A LIST OF EVERYONE IN THE WORLD who loves you! (include me in it!! michelle) then you will get a list of about over 100 people! that will help you alot!
HOPE I HELPED!
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle
tell me how long ur list it!

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hey, well i had this blackhead on my nose and stupid me picked it and now theres like a scab type thingie there is there any fast home remedy i can use to get rid of it, i heard after shave like kills the bacteria or something or toothpaste? any others?

hot water (reaply hot water after it gets cold) alchole
HOPE I HELPED!
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle

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I know I've seen a question similar to this before, but I haven't been able to find it. So, I'll just ask it again. I'm usually have my period anywhere in between 21 and 28 days. Well, I'm a bad, stupid little girl and I forgot to mark my last one down on a calendar. I'm pretty sure the last time I had mine was on November 2, but I'm not sure. That would make today Day 27 if I'm right about the last one ending on November 2. I'm still kind of nervous about it though. I've never -- well, I have once -- missed a period. I'm a 13 (nearly 14) year old virgin female. Is this normal? I've had my period for about two years.

ya it is normal! it might b irrgular
HOPE I HELPED!
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle

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k, i've had my industrial since July, and i was wondering if I could take it out, and if so, how long? its a 14g and i was wondering if i did take it out, if i could put regular 18g earrings to fill the holes? please help, i'll rate

probably, to b sure iw ould cheak with a doctor!
HOPE I HELPED!
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle

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ok this is a weird question and im guessing that no one knows but its worth a try i guess. i downloaded what i thought was "Lying from you" by Linkin Park.. but it wasnt that. I can't figure out what it is. I'm guessing its still by Linkin Park and whoever put it on the internet messed up the title. it sounds like them too. ok well i really like the song and i want to find out what it is! Heres the beginning of the song.

From the top to the bottom
bottom to top i stop
(some other stuff)
theres a place so dark you can't see the end
(and the only other thing i can make up 100%) clear is "The darkness holding me tightly"

thanks so much

forgotten... a great song!
HOPE I HELPED!
x ♥ x♥ Michelle

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ok so my ex boyfriend and i have been on and off for a little over 4 years. i did see other people in between but its not the same. he has been my best friend for what seems to be my whole life. i have been able to go to him for everything. well a year ago November we got back together and things were great. he means everything to me. i love him more then anything and i know that he truly loves me.. however things got rough this past September and we broke up again. i dumped him. but we promised to be best friends still. for a while things were still great. like we still hooked up and kissed and everything but i don't want to be friends with benefits. but i cant help it when im with him. so last week the week of November 15th was great. we hung out Monday, Wednesday(what would have been 1 year) and then Saturday. Wednesday was the best. i mean he told me he loved me and everything but then Saturday he was a jerk. we hooked up and i told him i loved him and hes like i know u do. but was gay about it. he ended up leaving shortly after. then we didn't talk all week. till i called him Friday upset needing someone to talk to and he couldn't be there for me. then on Saturday i told him again that i really needed him and hes like well im busy. BLAH! i cant take this anymore. its like he cares about me but he doesn't show it. he never calls me anymore like he promised he would and like how tings were b4 we got back together. what should i do? im not happy anymore. i want to express myself to him and tell him how im hurting but i don't know how to. i don't want to stop talking to him cause he has always been my best friend but its like i have too. i don't know what to do. please help me!

HEY!! okay well he is messing with your feelings! you have to confront him and get your feelings let outget your voice herd! be like hey...((name)) i have been doing some thinking latly and have gatherd my thoughts... and continue! somtimes in life we have to do things we dont want to and is hard for us like confronting someone but you have to otherwise you wont get herd and you will b stressed you whole life! he is messing with your feelings and until you dont tell him he will think that it is a joke and get enjoyment out of bothering you boiz are like that! so you need to tell him b4 somthing even worse happens... good luck and srry he is a jerk!
if you need more help on this subject please leave one in my inbox!
HOPE I HELPED AND BEST OF LUCK!
x ♥ x ♥ michelle
ps my bday was nov 16 the week of nov 15!! lol

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I am a 14 year old boy who will get a caniche toy poodle in less than two months and I am very, very happy about it but there is a problem. Waiting is killing me. Those two months seem like eternity for me. What do I do to make me feel like the time is going faster. Hope you know what I mean.
Any advice will be appreciated.

hey!! wow u sound educated lol! i love your correct use of grammer! srry i just had to say that!
anyway... a good way to take it off your mind at least is to listen to music and have fun! as 'friendofyours' sed fiz up were it will live would be a great thing to do! well good luck!
HOPE I HELPED!
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle

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Hey! Well there's this guy I like I'm 14 he's 16 and I think my BGF(best guy friend) told him I liked him and ever since, he's been looking at me and I see him alot more than I usually see him like he'll show up in the same place I'd be at where I ususally don't see him and when he's with his group of friend's he stands apart from them and talks loud. And then yesterday my BGF had asked me if I still liked him and I just laughed and he asked again and I did the same. I was like "why?" he said " I ain't saying shit"
Is that a bad sign? do you think he likes me?

HEY! well.... it isnt a bad sign bcuz he obviously likes you a lot!! i mean who else would do the things that he did? you have to tell him b4 it is too late bcuz a chance like this never comes! and it is a good sign as i sed!! good luck srry for the delay!!
HOPE I HELPED!
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle

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me and my gf always get into fights...but yet i still luv her as much as i have since the beginning...it seems that every time we get into a fight it is in front of out friends and i am tired of putting up with some of the stuff she says to make me look like the bad guy...so do i dump her or work things out?¿?¿?¿

well.... i would work things out! bcuz u love her i mean b like wat is it? why are we constantly getting into fights wat is wrong wid me? then if her answers dont meet ur expectaions then break up wid her!
HOPE I HELPED!! GOOD LUCK!!
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle

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I have wavy hair that is very thick and very frizzy in humidity. I live in Maine we have pretty humid summers. I am looking into getting a striaght perm in the summer. Does anyone know:
1.) If they have harmful chemicals that are carcinogenic or damage your hair?
2.) If they don't get frizzy even in humidity
3.) How long they last
4.) How much they cost
5.) Anything else about them!
Thanks much!

hey i got my hair chemichally straightend and...
1. yes
2. no
3. 6 months
4. it depends on the place i live in la so it is about $100 + or -
5. no thats all!
HOPE I HELPED! if u ha ve ne other question about this subject lemme no!
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle

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Okay well i like this cute guy funny awesome guy, but so does my best friend. Well actually i am not quite sure if she likes him.. cause the last thing i heard from her bout him is that...well lets just say she was talking really shallow bout him.. and thats the reason why she doesnt or is afraid to ever go out with him. So is the guy.. well he wasnt talking shallow but he just said he lost interest in her and he said he might like someone else... and then he asked what she said and i was like well she is kinda confused bout yall.. but idk.. i dont want to screw things up and so yea.. .then the next day he comes up to me and would you ever like me and i go yea.. and he goes do you like me.. (ah me being a f****** dumbass.... I said Yea, as a friend!!) and then he was like oh... and i felt really bad cause i was just hoping i didnt bring down his self concious bout himself....
I really really oh so very much truly like this guy.. i mean i actually have big heart feelings...and i want to tell him so bad that i like him but i dont know how.. or should i??
Cause.. 1st of all i am afraid if i tell him.. that he might not like me and theres me all over again being a big ass assumer.. ahh i really hope im not.. and also i am afraid that my friend truly does like him but just doesnt really know until she finds out that we both like each other... ya know?!?!....
I really really like him....!!!
-- So should i tell him how i feel.. or dont??--
§igned ~ConfuZed Heart

if i were u i would tell him i mean the worst he can say is no but he wouldnt do that if he is smart!
HOPE I HELPED GOOD LUCK!
x &heart x ♥

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(16/F) Alrighty then, there is this guy that I've liked since last year. (name is...Frank) I have told Frank that I like him three time to his face, and we are not going out. I was wondering if it would be weird if I got him a Christmas present. I know its not Christmas yet, but I want to figure this out before hand. Please tell me what you think. Thanks in advance.

Signed-
Just Wondering

YESDEFF DO IT IT WOULD B SO ROMANTIC/CUTE/FRIENDLY/NICE/SWEET!!
GET HIM CHOCOLATE AND A ROSE (HAHAHA)
HOPE I HELPED!
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle

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my "best friend" is changing sooo much. and every1 notices it. shes not very skinny (5ft 2 inches and 160 lbs) and she wears clothes taht r waaaay to tight on her. thats not the bad part tho. all my guy friends make fun of her b/c shes got "gramma tits" (the kind taht sag) and lets em hang out and she thinks shes hot. me and my other 2 best friends r considered the most popular grls in the grade. and i just won homecomin queen a few weeks ago and i could tell she wuz sooo jealous. and her bf just dumped her so all she duz is flirt and shes like "o i wuznt flirting i dont even no how to flirt" while twirling her hair. ughhh...i hate that! and she exaggerates EVERYTHIN!!! i just dont no wut to do. ive tried talkin and giving her clues that ppl dont really like who shes turned into but she duznt get it. she just says ugh y would they say that about me?? and its PISSING ME OFFFFFF!
plllzzzz help me out!!!!
*I NEED HELP!!

hey i no ur position like so well that is wat is happend to my bff!! well all i did was i talk to her one on one one day and told her... hey Mariel wanna come to my house i really need to talk to you! and we talked... ya she was mad at me for a week but then she thanked me bcuz she had relized it herself! so all you need to do it talk to your friend about it!
HOPE I HELPED! GOOD LUCK TELL ME WAT HAPPENS!
x ♥ x ♥ Michelle

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