i keep trying to make this boy jelous so he will like me more...sometimes i feel he doesnt like me even tho he really does. should i keep trying to make him jelous..help me out!!
No don't try to make him jealous. If you keep doing that, maybe someday he really won't like you. If you like him, why don't you umm I don't know, flirt with him? If you flirt with him he'll probably flirt back. If you try to make him jealous, you are sending him mixed signals.
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tonight, my boyfriend invited me over to his house to watch king kong with him. we`ve been together for about 2 months now, and we`ve done everything up to making out. the last time we did, he bit my tongue and it bled. but, that was his first time making out, so i just shook it off. but tonight, i think we will again. so my main problem is, what are some good ways to make out for beginners?
Well let me tell you this, since he invited you over to watch King Kong, you guys will have PLENTY of time to make out considering the movie is 3 hours long and boring as hell. But anyway, just start out with normal kisses on the lips then open mouth kisses with no tongue then start using your tongue a little bit. He bit you probably because he was nervous. Try to make him feel comfortable. Then once you get your tongue in just start playing around with his.
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well i used to masterbate but i dont anymore... i haven't started my period yet
could this of affeceted it? please help
No not at all. Don't worry about not getting your period. To me, you're lucky lol. Girls get their periods from age 10-16.
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So this weekend I have a hockey tournament and Im playing 6 games in 2 days. But thats not the problem. It takes 1 hour to play a hockey game and I will be playing 2 games with only 10 minutes of down time. Yeah, and its tiring to play! I'm going to do this 3 times--- 2 games on friday, 4 on sunday with 10-20 minutes of downtime between each pair. OK. thats not making sence. But all I know is that my coach told me to get energy drinks. Which are really good ones that work pretty fast, like within 1 hour or so? I'll RATE!
Thanks
Cat
Amp, Monster, Red Bull. They even have energy pills that work REALLY good. They have them at mini marts for only about 2 dollars.
They are safe, just don't mix the drinks and try not to drink more than one a day.
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Hey, sorry if this is in the wrong category, but I wasn't sure what to put it in.
Well, to start things off, I'm very self conscious. I think I am fat & ugly & just not a cool person.
Last night, I was at the pool & I was wearing a bikini. There were two of my guy friends there & one of my girl friends. I started feeling really self-conscious & I sat on the step of the pool [still in the water] hugging my knees. My two guy friends asked my friend what was wrong with me, so she came over & talked to me. They found out that I thought that I was fat & started rambling on about how I wasn't fat & how if I was any skinnier that I'd be anorexic...etc. It helped a bit but I still feel so self-conscious.
Now, for the guys on this site, do ya'll think really confident girls are attractive? or the more humble quiet ones?
& How do i get to feeling better about myself? I hate being the party pooper when it comes to swimming & such. Anyone got any good advice?
I rate high for thought-out answers.
I'm not a guy, but my guy friends always tell me they rather be with a average size girl who loves her self than a skinny girl who hates herself. Of course they don't like girls who flat out say that they are hott, but they like girls that aren't afraid to love themselves. Just look in the mirror everyday and pick out one thing you like about yourself. Do that everyday. (My aunt is a psychologist and she told me to do that when I didn't feel good about myself)
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I have to write a report on Anorexia for my health class final. The thing is, I don't understand how people go for so long without food? How do they resist temptation? And does being anorexic mean you don't eat AT ALL, or do you still eat, but just a little bit? And what are some "side effects" or problems that may occur from being anorexic. ( I've already looked at ALOT of sites I've googled, but they just all say not to go anorexic, I need more info then that!) Thanks so much guys!
Anorexia nervosa is a disease that affects alot of young women and even some men. They feel as if they are fat even though most of the time they aren't. It's a chemical imbalance in the brain that tells them they are fat everytime they look in a mirror. They resist temptation because they are afraid of gaining any weight. Some anorexic people eat only VERY little, if they didn't eat at all, they would die in a little over 2 weeks - and sometimes that's the case. Side effects from being anorexic are - mood swings, hair loss, skin discoloration, infertility, dry skin, bone loss, and depression.
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I was suppossed to get my period around the end of last week and the beging of this week but i havnt gotten it......whats wrong??
I rate good
Nothing is wrong. Periods are irregular. I have had mine for about 2 years now and I still don't know when I'm getting it. Sometimes it used to skip a month then I'd get it the next month. It's nothing to worry about.
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For the past 2 years, I have had always had discharge coming out several times a day. It doesnt stink or anything, but its annoying to always have to wear panty liners and have my friends think its because I got my period. The thing is, I have yet to get my period, and I did some reading a few months ago (when I found out that it was discharge) and learned it usually comes out before you get your period (or while you have it). Should I see a doctor about this, or is it no big deal? Its not much of a problem for me, I just want to know if its natural or not.
Thanks!
It is perfectly normal. What you read is right, even though girls usually get discharge all the time, not just before you get your period. I wouldn't see a doctor unless it starts smelling and has become discolored.
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I'm 14/f and i'm getting my belly button peirced tom.
I really love to work out my abs so i was wondering after i get this done am i still going to able to? and if so how long after should I star again?
Thanks,
Becca
You are going to be too sore to work out. It's going to hurt to sit down the wrong way lol. But, I would hold off the working out until you can feel that it isn't sore anymore. Or, you can wait the whole 6 weeks until it is completely healed.
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so i party alot and so does my boyfriend and recently i walked off with my friends boyfriend and my boyfriend freaked out like saying he wasnted to kill her boyfreind so i broke up with my boyfriend ))who i really liked(( in front of everybody like cusing at him and the works and so i left ((this was a 3 am ) and he called a million times that night and the next day and he still thinks we going out but i clearly stated ITS OVER but i dont thin he gets that> how should i tell him i want to be friends nothing more and also its hard because we are going to six flags on saturday with his family ugh what should i do?
Well, you guys were both drunk so clearly your actions are unsure of and so are your conversations. He may think that you just broke up with him because you were drunk. But then again, he does have a reason to be mad that you just walked off with your friends boyfriend. But under no circumstance, did he have a right to start saying those things. It could've been because he was drunk. I would talk to him about that and tell him that he can't be that obsessive. He was probably trying to call you to make things right because you guys were both drunk. If you really don't want to be with him, tell him that he is too obsessive and possessive for you and that you would feel most comfortable just being his friend. He probably won't talk to you for a long time, because let's face it, most break ups suck. But, just try to be nice about it.
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I have a best friend whom I've known since the 7th grade, and one of the things we promised each other in our ring of friends is that "Friends come first always before boyfriends." However, I feel that this best friend of mine is not keeping this promise. Besides being close friends with me, she also had this really close guy-friend since the 7th grade, who has now become her boyfriend. I know that I should understand that its okay for her to be closer to him because they were close before, and are now in a relationship together, but I feel hurt that its against what we promised... Like, she would always, always stress it to to us that friends are always first, but this now seems hypocritical... We rarely talk on the phone anymore, or talk at all because she's always spending time with her boyfriend... What can I do to repair this friendship, or to understand???
Thank you very much. (16/f - Junior)
People are going to say what they want and of course people are going to change whether they want to or not. This happened with my best friend and my boyfriend. We made the same promise. But as soon as she got a boyfriend she dicked me over so bad, he treated me like shit, and I hated him. After they broke up, I got a boyfriend. She got mad at me for always being with him when she did the same thing.
Where am I going with all of this?
-1. She thinks her boyfriend treats her better than you do.
-2. She is just growing up.
or -3. She doesn't mean to hurt you.
I would talk to her about this. I mean, she should atleast have time to call you. But think of it this way, when you get a boyfriend that you really like, are you going to not hang out with him as often as you like because of a promise you made in seventh grade?
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What is the age that guys usually bring their girlfriends to their house to like, meet their parents and have dinner and stuff?
I don't think there is a specified age, but whenever the girl and guy are most comfortable. Like I'm sure at the age 13, they are ready to meet the parents because the relationship isn't that serious. Maybe when the girl and guy are around the age 15 and 16 it might feel a little more comfortable to be around the parents. I guess it depends on the person and their social skills, but I didn't start meeting the parents and really going over my boyfriends house until I was 14, almost 15.
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im really short witch makes me have a small pussy and wen i have sex the guys dick wont fit in and ive done it a few times now, what can i do to have it finally fit in so i can be happy and have sex all the way!! because im dieing without it
Well to get a more deeper penetration, you can always have sex with your legs over his shoulders or do it from the back. Also, to make it go in easier, if you are doing it missionary style, lay your butt on like two pillows so it is elevated. It is suppose to make it easier to go in and feel better. And of course, try using lubricant so it will slide in easy.
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If a guy is really tall, does he have a big penis?
No, that's not true in some cases. It all depends on the guy.
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So I read this website that said as soon as you get your period you should go to a gyno but i am only 13 and i have gotten mine, but the thought of going to a gyno scares me because that it the most awkward thing i can possibly think of, going to a random hospital naked and sitting in stirrups? Ummmm no thanks! Is it really weird?
You don't have to go unless you are having like weird things happen to you or you get some kind of infection, until you start having sex with people. It's not all that much weird, but it hurt really bad when they gave me a pap smear. When you do go, just make sure you have a girl doctor do it.
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What would happen if someone like 15 that hasn't had their period yet has sex? It's not me, I'm just wondering.
Well since you don't know when you are getting your period, you can get pregnant because you could be ovulating at anytime. And when you ovulate, that's when you can get pregnant. Also, it would probably hurt alot more to have sex since you are more tight.
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I want to do my room over. I want it to be kinda funky/retro. People I need ideas of how to decorate my room! I'm 14 and female by the way. I will rate soo high if you give me items AND store names and even websites!!!!
www.pbteen.com
They have awesome things, you can order online.
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Mkay.
I'm dating this guy. Ryan. We have been dating for about three weeks now, Yeah, I know - It's not that long. But this isn't the first time we dated.
My best friend, almost hooked up with the same guy. But we went out one night and she did things with another guy and almost went all the way. Ryan found out and told me about two months ago that he didn't want a girl like that, So we started talking more, My bestfreind hates it with a passion. She claims that she wants him to die and that she hates him and doesn't want anything to do with him ever again, and that she has no feelings left for him what so ever, So I thought - What the heck, I'll date him and give him a chance.
We started dating. My bestfriend found out and told me, it's me or him. Take your pick. Of course, I chose my best friend. Me and Ryan broke up. Then about two weeks later, me and Ryan started talking about, and everything was cool with my bestfriend, We even pledged to not let another guy get between us ever again. Everything was perfect, So I gave Ryan another chance. I told my best friend, but she was too drunk to remember that I said anything.
Last night I hung out with both of them. My bestfriend was a complete ass to Ryan and I felt bad but I couldn't do much because I hate being in the middle of fights, So I just stood there and talked to all my other friends. Apperently everyone but my bestfriend knew that me and Ryan were dating. Well, I didn't want to tell my bestfreind last night either because we were not only with a buncha friends but she was also wasted.. So I didn't say anything.
Somehow, she found out. She called Ryan and completely bitch slapped him and called him on everything. I haven't talked to her yet but I'm not so sure I want to. I don't know what to do because I know it's going to come down to the same thing, Her or Him. I don't want to choose for the sake of myself, but what do I do?
I'll rate 5s.
You can date whoever you want. If your friend hates him and whatnot, why does she care if you date him? Tell her that she can't make you pick. What kind of friend is that? If she doesn't want to be your friend then you know what, screw her. She shouldn't have the authority to choose who you date.
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Ive been with this guy for a few months over a year now. We have our ups and downs, but lately i dont feel a connection. We will probably get it back and im not too worried. I have problems getting over past boyfriends. I still have feelings for them long after we break up. I have managed to get over all of them but one. And my feelings are building. He was my first serious relationship. We broke up because i didnt feel i was ready for it. However now i am much more comfortable with sex and that and i think we could really make it work. (im 15, my boyfriend is 17, and my ex is 14) Last night i told my ex i missed him and we remminissed about are time together. He asked me out, saying i didnt seem too happy with my current boyfriend. Which i guess is true. I was thinking about telling my boyfriend i wanted to break up for a couple months or so. Just to get some space and if we got back together we would appreciate eachother more. I feel we take eachother for granted. I would make it clear that we could see other people because im not going to make him be single for that long and its up to him if he has another realtionship. I have already suggested this and he said it was up to me and we are talking properly tonight. I would then say yes to my ex so we could try and make things work and if i couldnt then i would probably finally be able to get over him and no it really wasnt meant to be. I need some input. Am i being mean? What do you guys think i should do? Thanks xxxx
Why don't you just tell your current boyfriend the truth. Tell him that you miss your ex and you would rather be single than be in a relationship and still be thinking about your ex. I wouldn't tell your boyfriend that you should break up for a few months, because what if you don't want to go back out with him. Also, he is going to think you were lying if you break up then go out with your ex.
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i really just want to commit suicide. i just can't stand my life anymore. i just feel like i would be better in heaven where i would have no worries. someone please help. i can only take so much. i don't know how to cope. i'm just going to end up killing myself. i know i am. i have no reason to live.
First of all, who says you would go to heaven.
The 6th commandment-
Thou shall not kill.
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Maybe you should call a crisis line. What is killing yourself going to prove? It's going to prove that you were too much of a coward to even try to help yourself. How selfish are you being now? Think of who it will affect if you commit suicide.
1-800-SUICIDE
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