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Hi, I'm Emily. Call me Emily or Em, I prefer either. I have been a featured columnist 2 times now. After disabling my account I had about 3 years ago, a lot has happened which made me want to come back. I feel as though helping people with their problems, helps me solve mine, even if that doesn't make a lot of sense to any of you. Don't hesitate to ask me anything, I will answer fairly quickly depending on the question. If you want a hard-thought out answer, which is what I usually give, it may take a little longer- it benefits everyone in the long run.

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i am 11 yeas old and i asked this guy named branden to go out and hi sed hed think obout it and my bff shelby caled him later that day and asked him if thay can go out an he sed yes to her what shuld i do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Your 11. You have a long time to be thinking about serious relationships with guys. Lots more will come around. Don't let him get in the way of you and your friend's friendship.

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I have a boyfriend that no one but me and a couple of really close friends know about. Ive made out with him, but never went "all the way". I kinda don't want to, but its all he talks about. What should I do?

Tell him. If he really likes you, he will understand your feelings. If you aren't ready for sex, DON'T DO IT. If he breaks up with you for not having sex with him, he wasn't worth being your first.

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I'm thirteen. my period started a year ago, and i still lose it for months at a time. i didn't have it once this summer.I am a virgin. Is something wrong with me?

Your period is irregular for the first 2 years of your period. They will start to get regular as time goes on. Mine still aren't regular and I have had mine for 5 years.

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Hey so I was at a b~day party and I was dared to ask Seth {my crush at the time} out on a date. So I texted him and he didn't respond. So now I've moved on to like another guy that is my bestie and I love him more. How can I tell him that I don't like him anymore?

If he doesn't ask, you don't have to tell him.

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what jobs now are hiring 14 yr olds

Most jobs don't hire people under 16 years old, and even then its difficult to get a job.


Try babysitting.

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So I made a facebook yesterday and my news feed isn't uploading shit! It's stuck on the posts made by my friend who I don't even have added yet.. it also doesn't have a most recent or top tags!
I can't figure it out.. and I know for a fact my friends have made status's since. It's just not showing up..
HELP!

I really don't want to make a new one either.. I already got a lot of friends and that would just mess everything up/:

Look next to the box that says 'Whats on your mind' and it will say something like 300+ recent, and click that. The recent posts should show up. Sometimes though, once you leave the page the recent posts get deleted and you have to do it again.

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Hi, i just saw your answer to getting teeth pulled. I also need to get 5 pulled and im scared out of my mind. 5 is a lot and im afraid that it will hurt a lot.

They numb you. First the novicane shot, and then they knock you out. Thats why whenever someone gets their wisdom teeth pulled, they are all loopy. Its the laughing gas they give them so they don't feel anything. It probably won't hurt while your teeth are being pulled, but after the novicane wears off, the after affect might hurt.

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What are some things that me and my boyfriend can do to spend time together that doesnt cost money or at least is cheap? ...he lives like 40 min away so he comes over or i go over there and we meet half way. Either that or we go to the mall, movies, bowling, KD, and stuff like that. Anymore ideas? please help! :o)

Me and my boyfriend sometimes just chill in his car if we don't feel like spending money. We talk about life and such and listen to our favorite songs. I made a playlist for us when we hangout, and we play that.

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I am a 14 year old brunette, freshman. I want to go trick-or-treating again this year but I don't have any costume ideas. I have already been a witch, fairy, hippie, pippy longstockings, and stuf like that. YOu get the idea. Do you have any ideas that aren't sluty ir trashy? THanks a lot!

Go with friends and do a group idea! Me and my friends are all being different colored M&M's and its gonna look really cool. You guys could be skittles since there are more colors.


Tell me what you end up doing!

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How do you know which hole the penis should be inserted in?

It can be inserted in the vaginal hole (where a tampon is supposed to do up) or the butt hole. Although, most women prefer it in the vaginal hole.

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My boyfriend wants to see my vag and I told him OK and planned to take a few pics of it. I kinda told my bff who was like I shouldn't do that cos somebody can hack his phone && get my nude shots later. How safe do u think it is to take pictures of my vagina && send them to his cell phone?

Not only is it not safe, but it's illegal. Boys love to brag. No matter how much you may trust your boyfriend, the chances of him keeping it to himself is very slim to none.


Don't do it. There are many other ways for him to see your vagina other than taking pictures. Be safe.

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Ok so I have a boyfriend. He's on the school football team. Nd I went to the game today to find him sitting on the bench with the parametics. Nd they took him in an ambulance. Nd he's at the hospital with a concusion. Idk how bad it is. Nd bc he's at the hospital I'm sure he doesn't have his phone. Nd I wanna tlk to him. To c if he's ok. I'm really nervous to c how he is. I googled it. Nd it sed something about short term memory loss. Does tht mean he culd forget who I am or something. ???

Just like the person below me said, usually concussions just produce short term memory loss. If you guys have been dating for a while, he will remember you. Try going to visit him in the hospital if your worried about him. Try getting a hold of his parents to see if you could take a ride with them to see him. Or, just wait until he comes home and surprise him with lots of hugs, kisses and gifts.

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Why does it hurt more to take out a tampon when it hasn't soaked up enough blood??

Its due to the friction. When a tampon is dry, it doesn't need to be taken out. There isn't enough blood for it to come out smoothly. Wait longer to take it out.

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i get blatter infections and don't even know it/

See a Doctor.

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does toothpaste really work??? I have 2 GIANT pinples on my face and i need them 2 go away fast. i spent all day trying 2 hide the pimples with my jacket. i cant spend another day like that. How long do i need 2 put the tooth paste on for?????????

I've heard that toothpaste does tend to work on pimples. But, don't expect them to be away completely, but they will definitely go down in swelling and redness and wont look as noticeable. Put it on at night, and then wash it off in the morning when you wash your face or take your shower.

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me and my boyfriend have been dating for a couple months now. and all of a sudden hes asked for a naked pic ( i wont and havent given him one) i told him i deserved more respect than that, and he didnt seem to care that he hurt my feelings.
so school starts tommorrow and i will see him again. io want to break up with him and have waited till now to do it face to face.
how do i break up with him.
he wont care when i do, i doubt he even had feelings for me.
so suggestions?

That is a very bold move, and a smart one too. It is good that you have respect for yourself and for your body. Just tell him straight up what he did wrong. Don't lie to him because then your being the jerk. Tell him the truth.


Good Luck!

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So lately my friend has become really close with a girl from her work. She hasn't blown me off for her, but she's postponed our plans a few hours later several times lately. And while doing this, she was arranging plans with the other girl, although she's not aware that I know this.
Today, we were hanging out and she informed that she needed to be home early because she had college work to do. So an hour after I find out that she's at her house. I can't help by being slightly offended by this and I'm wondering if I should confront her?

Same thing happened to me a few years back. You need to talk to her and tell her that it's bothering you. You have every right to be annoyed with her, she's postponing plans you had before her and this other girl had. It's not right. Talk with her about it, and tell her your offended and if she keeps doing it, you don't want to hangout with her anymore. That's what I did, and the girl finally stopped. Suggest maybe all 3 of you hanging out together.

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Well there is a girl that I really really like at school. I have known her for about a year. She came to the first few weeks of school. Like me, she has perfect attendance but she has not showed up for a week. Nobody seems to know why. She did not say anything the week before. I do not have her number and she does not use social networking sites. I am really worried because this was unexpected and I want to see her again. We were friends last year but now I am really starting to like her and I do not think she has noticed. Anyway It is a three day weekend and if she does not return on tuesday I will be even more worried and sad. I want to be able to see her again. : (

If she moved schools or something tragic happened to her, the school and teachers would know. I don't think there is anything to be worried about. It's very possible she came down with a bad case of the flu and should return soon. I wouldn't let it get to you.

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ok so i have really tiny boobs and im in 10th grade and i feel like im the only one becuase there are so many girls that have huge ones. I know i dont want to have huge ones but i would like at least a little i guess this is one of my self asteem issues. My mom never had huge boobs but she got a boob job and i was shocked when she told me. i would never do that. but this has really affected me becuase she never had alot so she did what made her comfortable and I dont care if thats what makers her happy. But i feel so uncomfortable with my body becuase all my friends have some and idk my questions is ...is there any way NATURAL way to make them grow any bigger not a whole size or whatever just a little

Try pushup bras. They're a little more on the expensive side, but they do wonders. I wore them until I felt I was comfortable and my boobs were big enough. There isn't a natural remedy to make them grow.


I know its probably a middle school thing but don't stuff...the tissue will just fall out.

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i'm afraid my boyfriend might be cheating on me. i don't want to ask him. cause i'm scared that he'd start a fight, and i dont want any drama with this. i want to get ahold of his phone records, but without him knowing. i dont really know how to get onto his phone account. how can i get them without having to know any of his information?

You can't. It's illegal and you would need his permission to do so.

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