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I would like to know what the difference is between using a tampon and using a pad for girls when they have their periods.
A pad is more comfortable and easier to use, but you can feel it more once it gets full. A tampon is hard to put in and uncomfortable at first, but it makes you feel more secure when you're in public b/c you know you aren't going to "leak".
ok i have a question. i was suppose to start on the 17th or 18th. well on the 16th i had sex with my boyfriend and he cumed in me. i haven't started my period yet. could the reason why i haven't started be bC of the fact i might be pregnant or is there another reason that i haven't started yet?
Periods don't come at exact times all the time. Wait another 2 or 3 days, then buy yourself a pregnency test.
i'm a 13/f and all of my friends have already started dating. i havent even found out 1 guy that even likes me! my best friends called up my crush and asked him if he likes me. he said i'm not his type and that i'm too tall. i play volleyball and he plays hockey. so i think we have things in commen. but i just dont get it. i'm about 5'6 or 5'7 and he's around that height too. i am so sad now because i feel so behind. all of my friends have bf's and i dont even have a guy that likes me! i need some advice on how to make myself feel better about myself. please help!!!! thanks soo much!
You're not THAT tall. You're tall, but I mean like its not like you're abnormal. At age 13, most people are around 5'4", so you're not that far off.
About the boy thing- you want a guy that will break away from the crowd of guys that likes "the popular person" to like you. And a guy like that is worth waiting for.
Even if you haven't found a guy that likes you YET, I guarantee there is a guy out there that thinks you are the most beautiful girl on the face of this planet. So don't freak just because you haven't found him yet-- he's out there. =]
In the song London Bridge by Fergie, does the term "London Bridge" mean something bad? Because I was listening to the song with my Dad and he said, "This song is innapropriate."
Its a very sexual song... I mean you can tell just by the way she sings and stuff. That's probably what your dad was implying. I know that it does have sexual content and swears in the lyrics, but personally, my parents can't even understand the words, lol!
i have this friend and we are really close shes one of my bestfriends and i have a feeling that she might be racist against caucasian people because like all of her friends are black and she like only has one caucasian friend and everything to her has to be black and it really bothers me im colored myself and i have friends of all different racis and when someonelse is another race or color i dont notice it until she brings up the color or race that they are and it really buggs me because it kinda insults me because i am a little bit caucasian and my family is mixed of different colors and i asked my friend if she was racist and she said no and got mad that i asked that and she also doesnt like black and white couples she thinks theres something wrong with that but honestly i dont see anything wrong with it and i really dont know what else to do she says she's not but i think that she might be a little bit racist but not a whole lot so what should i do because i dont wont to have a friend like that and i also dont want to stop being friends wit her
As sad as it is to say, even in the 21st century racism is still common in the United States. But you shouldn't stop being friends with this girl just because you have a different belief than her. My parents are slightly racist, not exactly to the extent of your friend, but they believe a certain race of people are rude. I get into many arguments with them about this topic, but I can't seem to change their opinions. Despite this, I still love them. Keep being friends with your friend. If she brings up that she sees something wrong with black and white couples again, politely ask her not to talk about that subject again.
i have a problem. during the first meeting of my photography club,my friends and i sat at the second row and liked it.during the second meeting,there are these girls who were at the third row who asked us to move forward to the first row so that their friends could sit at the seconnd row.we moved because we only thought it would be temporary arrangement.but i was wrong.the next meeting,my friends and i sat on the second row for dibs.but those girls came back and asked us once again to move forward.but my friends and i are really uncomfortable in front.but we moved anyway and i saw my friends were annoyed.i wanna do something--but what? and how can i stand up to them without saying something mean? or should i just let them push-over us for nth times???
please help...thanks in advance
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Its not a huge deal, nothing to be worried over, at least. Just say politely to these girls, "Excuse me, but we were here first. If your friends would like to have a seat in this row, maybe they should get here earlier." Sure, the girls might be mad at you, but hey, you got your seat!
my brother and i are both realli depressed. i was wondering if there is anything i can do about us being depressed before something happens. if you get my drift. i fear for both of us. he's 17...almost 18 and im 15. if that helps.
I know this sounds corny, but you really need to talk to someone. A parent, aunt, uncle, cousin, guidance counselor, trusted teacher, I think you get my drift. They can take you to a doctor. Yes, a real doctor, not a psycologist. Depression is treatable, and it can be cured before its too late.
Still unsure? Make an anonymous phonecall to 1-800-SUICIDE. It will help. Trust me.
I want just wondering what everyone notices first in both the opposite and same sex. I want to know what to spend more time on so people will notice me. I don't want to say if I'm male or female because I want to know what both sides think. Thanks.
I'm girl FYI.
In guys I first notice their hair, then their biceps and chest muscles and stuff, then maybe their eyes, but if you're a guy I don't really think you could change anything about your eyes.
In girls... I guess I notice their clothes, whether I like them or don't like them. Then I probably decide whether I like their hairstyle or not and would want to try to copy it. (Yes, I'm a fashionista.)
Im 17 female I have 3 siblings. Ages 15, 13 & 4.
We fight over who does the kitchen alotttt. Yea sounds like second grade because it is. Im tired of it. I have a job & im also not home alot.
When i get home from work the kitchen is a mess & i dont clean it because its not my mess. But the next day i end up cleaning up the mess because my other two siblings ( 15, 13 yr olds ) just dont do it.
The 13 year old spends the ENTIRE day on the computer pretty much from the second she wakes up till the second she goes to bed Which usually isnt till 4-5 AM.
The 15 year just doesnt think he has to do anything & watches ttv the entire day.
I feel that i shouldnt have to clean the kitchen Or anything that was messed up when i was not at home. Do you guys agree?
And how do i get them to get up a clean something? Dont tell me talk to your parents. Trust me i do talk to my parent sbut they really don't do anything about it except say " i don't want to hear about it"
PLLLEase help me out here.
And also what age do you think it is ohk for a kid to start cleaning the kitchen.?
Tell whoever makes the mess to clean their mess up. If they only made a small mess out of a big huge mess that someone else made, only force them to clean their own. Unless its the 4-year-old, of course. This will make it easier for you, at least a little bit.
I say that at age 8 you can assist with some things, like mopping the floor or drying dishes. At age 13 I think you are definitely able to clean most of the kitchen. Maybe not scrubbing the floors and/or stove, but definitely doing most tasks.
Have a talk with your siblings, without yelling or sarcasm. Be up-front but polite and nice. Ask them to clean their own messes and at least pitch in for 10 minutes a day. If they agree, you will spend much less time cleaning and much more "you" time. =]
I am 5'2 and I weigh 129 pounds. I know I'm not overweight, and everyone says I should only loose at most 5 pounds. But, my stomach still is flabby and I don't look that good in a swimsuit. What can I do about it?
Aah, I'm about the same as you. 5'3 1/2" && 134. If you're only worried about your tummy, do crunches. I do 2-3 sets of 20 3x a day, at least 6/7 days a week. Add at least 15-20 min. cardio (depending on how hard the exercise is) 4/7 days/week. In 2-3 weeks you should have a flat stomach and have lost 3-5 pounds. =]
Are there any sites that let you make a site for free? Other the freewebs and freewebspace...I want one that is like Furry-Paws.com without having to pay for a server. Thanks.
I don't exactly know what furry-paws.com is, but I'll have to check it out. My personal favorite site to use is Yahoo! Geocities, you can make a free site and add HTML and pics for free as long as you have a Yahoo! account, but Piczo is another alternative.
I been dancing for about 7 or 8 years. But im scared to try out for dance company, because the fact not making it, it kills me! Should i try out? Or should i not try out so it doesnt hurt mee
It won't hurt to try. You've got nothing to loose. If you really want to try to be a professional dancer, you're going to face rejection at some point in time.
I say go for it!!!
does anyone know how to get rid of the words that come up all the time. I go to google and then if i type 1 letter like "C" i get all the other words i wrote before like cat and stuff (underneith the text bar). Does anyone know how to get rid of them words? Thanks :) (I hope you get it lol)
Next to File, Edit at the top of your Internet Window, click Tools >> Internet Options >> Delete Cookies >> OK >> Delete Files >> Check the box that says "Delete All Offline Content" >> OK >> Wait, if it takes too long, do Control + Alt + Delete, End Task, OK, open new window, try again >> OK. That should clear all search engine searches and web addresses that you have visited, except for your History. =]
There is this boy who really likes me and I did like him...we were a 'thing' for about 2 weeks and then I realised he's too serious about it and I'm too young and stuff. He still likes me but I don't! I told him that we're better off friends and seriously that's a good thing right now.
How do I get him to get the clue again??????????
Ever seen the movie "How to Loose a Guy in 10 Days"? Refer to that. ;)
Seriously... come right out and say what you feel. It is possible to be straight forward while being passive. Something like "I really like you, but I think we're too young to be getting into a relationship this serious" will do. =]
And if that doesn't work.... THEN refer to How to Loose a Guy in 10 Days. ;)
ok so heres the story i saw this kid i liked when i was in seventh grade and he was in 8th and i never thought he'd like me. then i moved to florida before 8th grade and i forgot about him. so i go back to ny in the summer for vacations and i saw him playing hockey and i thought he was really hot and he thought i was hot. so i got his screen name and we started talking and he asked me if i ever made out and then he asked if i would make out with him. i said if i ever got the chance than yes. We want to get together next summer and i really want to make out with him but im wondering if he's just using me. Should i not do it and i talk to him online and i never know what to tlalk about. i mean i dont want to just blurt out questions. i want to start a real conversation. and how can i make him really fall for me? Please answer all 3 sections of my question or i WILL NOT RATE. Thank you.Please Help
If his longest conversation with you was about making out, then he's just a player. If he doesn't pay attention to your personality and only your looks and how far he can get with you, he's not worth it. Think about that and you have the answer to your first question.
You can continue talking to him online even though you don't want him to be your boyfriend. If you decide he's a player, just try to guide the conversation away from things involving bf/gf stuff.
If you decide he's a keeper, and you want to make him fall for you, there's only one way to do it: BE YOURSELF. If you try and be something you're not, he might either fall in love with someone that's not really themself, which isn't fair to him, or make him not like you because you're pretending to be someone you're not. But... you can add a little flirtiness to the mix and still be yourself. Guys always love to be showered with attention and flirty complements.
i'm usually really shy around guys and im going into my first year of high school.how can i start conversations with guys. I dont know what to say or talk about. how do i strike up a conversation. how do i know if they will want to talk back? i really could use some tips. please help
Talk about whatever you would talk about with your best friend. Your favorite TV show, a big test coming up, what teachers you have, things like that.
Don't try to seek out guys to have conversations with, it will {for the most part) get you nowhere. If you're assigned to sit next to a guy on the first day, start talking to him! There's nothing you can really do to go wrong.
You'll know if they want to talk back if they look directly at you, or better yet, look into your eyes. If they look right at you, you know you've found good friend material. If they look in your eyes, you've definitely got a potential guy BFF there, or maybe even a potential boyfriend!
If the conversation runs dry, try to think of another topic. If THAT runs dry, you might want to find yourself another guy to talk to, because that dude obviously isn't much of a conversationalist.
Hey everyone,
I know you guys hate these types of questions, but when I talk to my crush I become completely tongue tied and always end up making small talk that goes NO WHERE. I really want to get closer to him and this just isnt cutting it. Someone please help?
Thanks in advance.
Think of him as your best friend, not your crush. Talk about a cool TV show you saw last night, a test tomorrow, or one of your favorite/least favorite teachers. Just be calm and be yourself, and he will respond. =]
im a girl by the way...
i know this is like totally gross but ive tried all types of deoderants and i don'tknow if it's just me or the deoderant i use, but im always like feeling sweat(ew) under my arms...like it doesnt smell bad but it's just wet and sometimes it shows a lot when i lift my arms. does anyone know if it's me, or a good brand to try and stop wetness?
thx a bunch. =)
Try an anti-perspirant deoderant. That will help you stop sweating [as much] AND block the stench. Also, you sweat more if you don't shower often enough. Make sure you use that rubber ducky daily =]
ive been doing a lot of ab excersises lately
so i think the muscle is getting bigger but that layer of fat is not so my stomach is getting bigger...anyone know how to just make my stomach as flat as possible?
Ab exercises are good, but the only way to get the fat out of the way so that you can actually get the flat tummy is cardio. Since your ab muscles are already getting bigger, you don't really need to work them as much as you need to flatten your stomach. Try 3 sets of 20 crunches daily with at least 20 min. cardio 5/7 days/week and you should be all set.
okay so i dont have alot of acene and its not bad but its bothering me!! its on my forehead it wont go away! i've tried proactive and it worked for a while but i dont know why its just not working like it used to! any suggestions? thanx
Any good redness reducing, skin cleansing cream might work if it isnt that bad. I use Clearasil every morning/night and Eucerin Redness Relief every night and its works fine.