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ok so heres the story i saw this kid i liked when i was in seventh grade and he was in 8th and i never thought he'd like me. then i moved to florida before 8th grade and i forgot about him. so i go back to ny in the summer for vacations and i saw him playing hockey and i thought he was really hot and he thought i was hot. so i got his screen name and we started talking and he asked me if i ever made out and then he asked if i would make out with him. i said if i ever got the chance than yes. We want to get together next summer and i really want to make out with him but im wondering if he's just using me. Should i not do it and i talk to him online and i never know what to tlalk about. i mean i dont want to just blurt out questions. i want to start a real conversation. and how can i make him really fall for me? Please answer all 3 sections of my question or i WILL NOT RATE. Thank you.Please Help
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Sure, talk to him online, the more you talk to him the more he will realize you have feelings, and they need to be respected, if you talk to him and talk to him and realize that he really just doesn't care, obviously he wants you for your body.
If he simply said "Hey, let's makeout", didn't ask about you, your feelings, your intrests, yes, he's most likely using you.
If you talk to him enough, and hang with him enough WITHOUT making out, and if he sticks around he probably wants you for you...
Tell him your intrests, and a few days later ask him questions about the intrests you told him a few days before, see if he was paying attention to you, or paying attention to YOU, if you get what i mean..
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If his longest conversation with you was about making out, then he's just a player. If he doesn't pay attention to your personality and only your looks and how far he can get with you, he's not worth it. Think about that and you have the answer to your first question.
You can continue talking to him online even though you don't want him to be your boyfriend. If you decide he's a player, just try to guide the conversation away from things involving bf/gf stuff.
If you decide he's a keeper, and you want to make him fall for you, there's only one way to do it: BE YOURSELF. If you try and be something you're not, he might either fall in love with someone that's not really themself, which isn't fair to him, or make him not like you because you're pretending to be someone you're not. But... you can add a little flirtiness to the mix and still be yourself. Guys always love to be showered with attention and flirty complements.
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Something I have learned from experience is, you can't make a guy like you. We may be mischievous enough to get them to do something they don't want to do, but tricking them into liking you is not one. But, it does sound as if he is interested. If you want to have a real conversation, talk about future goals (traveling,careers,etc) or even have him explain something to you that he likes and you don't quite understand (i.e. what does the term 'downs' mean in football, or i was watching basketball the other day, what's a shot clock). This will hopefully not just turn in to you asking a series of questions, but something he can participate in as well. By the time, your make out situation arises, you should be able to decide for yourself if it is what you want.
Good Luck
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