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photography push-overs
i have a problem. during the first meeting of my photography club,my friends and i sat at the second row and liked it.during the second meeting,there are these girls who were at the third row who asked us to move forward to the first row so that their friends could sit at the seconnd row.we moved because we only thought it would be temporary arrangement.but i was wrong.the next meeting,my friends and i sat on the second row for dibs.but those girls came back and asked us once again to move forward.but my friends and i are really uncomfortable in front.but we moved anyway and i saw my friends were annoyed.i wanna do something--but what? and how can i stand up to them without saying something mean? or should i just let them push-over us for nth times???
please help...thanks in advance
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the next time you go, try and get the second row before anyone else does. if they ask you to move say sorry but we were here first. and if they start getting bitchy about it just ignore them till they leave.
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Hi my name is brandy and i think that next time they ask you just say this:
you know me and my friends are not really comfortable on the first row other-wise we would have sat there so im sorry but no but maybe you guys should move,that way all of you can sit together instead of asking us to move because its kinda rude.
okay i think you should say something like that, that way you dont sound like you are being rude or mean.
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BRANDY BELL
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Its not a huge deal, nothing to be worried over, at least. Just say politely to these girls, "Excuse me, but we were here first. If your friends would like to have a seat in this row, maybe they should get here earlier." Sure, the girls might be mad at you, but hey, you got your seat!
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Just tell them that your sorry but you don't like sitting in the front row. Make sure your friends are all on the same page and know you are going to do this, if the other girls become snarky simply tell them that you would be willing to comprimse by sitting in the 3rd row so they can still sit together? If you don't like the 3rd row then I would remain firm about the 2nd row, not move after being polite and then the week after make sure you guys are at least 10 minutes earlier so that the other girls don't get there first.
Hope this helps
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Just let them know that you don't really like sitting in the front row, because otherwise you would move, but you are not going to because you got there first. That may mean that next time they will try to get there before you to take your seats, but it's ok...they're just seats. But as long as you get there first, you shouldn't have to move for anyone else. Just don't give them attitude, and they should be cool too. If they're not...oh well they are not going to carry you out of the seats.
Good Luck.
-Teacup
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