There is this boy who really likes me and I did like him...we were a 'thing' for about 2 weeks and then I realised he's too serious about it and I'm too young and stuff. He still likes me but I don't! I told him that we're better off friends and seriously that's a good thing right now.
How do I get him to get the clue again??????????
xoIDOLox answered Friday August 4 2006, 10:13 pm: Ever seen the movie "How to Loose a Guy in 10 Days"? Refer to that. ;)
Seriously... come right out and say what you feel. It is possible to be straight forward while being passive. Something like "I really like you, but I think we're too young to be getting into a relationship this serious" will do. =]
dibrwi7 answered Friday August 4 2006, 2:58 pm: Make sure you are clear about it. There shouldnt be a clue babe. There shouldnt be a clue. Women always think that we men are smart enough to figure out a subtle rejection or even not one so subtle. BUt the truth is that we like you already, and we are gonna either deny the rejection, or keep trying (is our nature). If you really want him out of your face, you have to be very clear. Tell him the truth, you dont like him. Dont say something like "I dont wanna bf right now" thats the classic. To men that means "if I keep trying, she might want a bf later. Obviously u dont want anything to do with him, so say it. Be honest even if you hurt him a bit. He'll get rejected probably a thousand times in his lifetime, is something he must get used to anyway...all of us guys have to. [ dibrwi7's advice column | Ask dibrwi7 A Question ]
missblonde answered Friday August 4 2006, 2:44 pm: hi! try talk to him face to face and just say that you dont like him as much as he likes you but that you still want to be friends with him and explain your reasons! yer it might hurt him a bit but if he likes you as much as it sounds he will understand!!
good luck :-) [ missblonde's advice column | Ask missblonde A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.