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ok im 13 and i live in miami....does anybody know anywhere that i can volunteer that theyll accept someone my age? most places require that u b 16 or older....but i need community service points

Go to that volunteer web site. plus you could always help one of your teachers or go to an animal hospital or pound to help out there. Hope I helped!!!

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hi, ive been looking through people's advice column and i noticed there was like moving piks and images on their column. i wa wondering, how do u that.
plze help
xxx

well i personally went to google and found an animation that i liked. then i went to profile settings and put the URL of that website there in the pic. of u bar. if u have ne questions just ask! Hope I helped!!!
~Linda

I only answered your question to a tee and tried to help but i can see that that is not good enough for u.

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I'm a 15 year old girl, he's 17. We both like eachother. But he's not sure if he wants to go out with me. He's worried about our age difference since he's turning 18 in like 5 months. Even then we'll have 2 years between us still. He's told my friend that he does want to go out with me, but he's concerned about the age thing. Should I just give up on him, or still try to hook up with him? Help? :)

I think that you should still go for it. Like many people say.... age is just a number.... it depends on how the two of you fell together. Hope I helped!!!
~Linda

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my Boyfirend is a complete sex ADDICT! This is the first guy I have actually had true feelings for! I have known him since I was 7 and I have liked him since. We started goin out 3 months ago and we made out the first night. We have madeout countless times now and I SO LOVE HIM!but, he has boners all the time when I'm leaning on him. and he was kinda humping me last time we were makin out.TOday, he was askin me all these questions like, DO U LIKE IT HARD? DO U WANT TO BE ON TOP? I AM A VIRGIN CATHOLIC and i love him so don't say break up with him! I am only 14 and I don't want to risk pregnancy!

The very first thing that you have to do is tell him how you feel.. let him now how far you want to go. If you want to continue to be a virgin then let him know. If he is the right one, then he will respect that. The ones you love should never push you into something you do not want to do... Hope I helped!!
~Linda

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There's this guy named Jeff and sometimes, he is soo nice and funny to me..but other times, he always tells me that I'm ugly..he says it in a "just kidding" voice but idk if he is being serious or if he really is just kidding. It hurts my feelings. What can I do?

Just tell Jeff that you don't appreciate those comments that he makes. If he doesn't then he has no business being able to talk to u. Guys can be retarded sometimes, cuz when they are around a certain crowd they can act totally different. Hope I helped!
~Linda

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Okay so I met this guy (we are both 16) and we hit it off. spent like 10 hours together he was totally flirting holding hands cuddling and he would just stare at me and would always sit next to me and he tried to kiss me and such.. (it was a church retreat. We were helpers lol for the little kids) so at the end of the night when its time to leave and we are right next to each other in the seat but my friend is between us and he got up and kept looking back at me and then he just left no good bye and didn’t ask for a number or anything! what does that mean? What happened?

I know what you are feeling because the same thing happened to me. I personally think that he was just trying to get some attention from someone. As bad as it may sound, he might have been trying to take advantage of you. When I was in that position, i saw him at school and he acted like he never saw me before, but know he like tells one of my friends that i like him or something. I just pretend i don't know him. lol. he doesn't deserve my breath. Just forget about him. The faster you do the faster you can get on with your life and find someone new that will truly like you and not just try to get whatever he wanted. I HOPE I HELPED!!!!! plz, rate. Give me feed back on wat u think.
~Linda

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ok so my friend says shes not obbsessed with this guy but she is and he is the only thing she ever talks about it is soo annoying!!! she is always talking about how rich he is and how his parents might rent a limo to take them to a formal dance im not jelous at all b/c he is like my brother but ever other word that comes out of her mouth is his name! and so this has gone on for about 2 weeks and about a day or two ago i have been saying loser a lot and i dono y and she is getting mad at me for that and i dono y b/c she has said his name about 50 times today and i have only said loser about 10 ugh! its making me so mad! can someone please tell me why she is doing this?

Well, I'm like in the same position as your friend. I like my friend's brother. She knows and she doesn't care. I feel really awkward talking to her about it, so your lucky your friend talks to you about him because you don't want her to go behind your back. Anyways, your friend is probably really excited that she has a "connection" to her crush. Just let her go off and tell you whatever and just try not to say anything because she may feel offended by thte fact that you call her a loser, just because she likes your bro. At least that is what i think is going around in her head. I know that when someone has a crush on someone they become and let out all their energy on talking about him to the closest person she can rely on, which is you. I know cuz i've done it. lol. but at least i catch myself talking to much about something. If she continues just tell her that you are getting tired of her talking about him because you see him all the time and wouldn't like to spend all of your time thinking about him. Hope I helped!!!!
Plz, give feedback! :)
~Linda

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well, my bf and i go to diffrent schools so we try to hang out as much as we can inbetween my soccer and work for both of us. during the week i try to go over his house every night i dont have soccer adn she always fights with me about it...

i mean id have him over my house but she doesnt like people over??

what can i do to make things better between my mom and i?

well it all depends on your relationship with your mom. If you have a good one just talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel and what her options are. I would just talk and keep it casual and avoid any confrontation. Let her know how your feeling. Hope I helped!!!

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Can you wear a skirt when you have your period? Is it safe to? Because I have my school picture tomorrow and I'm due to get my period tomorrow too! So I dont know what I should do! Help me out here! Thanks

Well, why not. Think about it. If you can have your period with jeans or whatever on then why not a skirt. It would probably be more comfortable. lol. Hope I helped!!
~Linda

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ok well i liked this boy for a really long time, and my friend told him i wanted to talk to him. Turns out he has a girlfriend but what got me was what he said. "I have a girlfriend now, but maybe when we break up." ok who says that? am i overreacting or something cause now i dont even wanna talk to him. Who thinks about when theyre gonna break up with the person they're with? does he think hes a pimp or something? ugh.. i jus wanna see someone elses view. thannks!

I do not think that you are overreacting because if I was his girlfriend at the time, I would break up immediately. No one should think about when they break up with someone. Thats awful. Just forget about him and look around, there are sure to be plenty of other guys around to talk to and would never do that to a girl. So leave the pimp behind and look for somebody else. Hope I helped!!!
~Linda

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how do i uninstall deadAIM?

go to my computer and to the link that says add/remove programs. then click on AIM. hope i helped!!

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this dude at my school likes me and i dont like him back....i dont have the heart to say no to him...because i mite have a LITTLE crush on him.........i dont really knw what to do please help

Well I would just get to know him better as friends. Just go out with friends. Just don't make him think it is a date. You don't want that when your not sure on your own feelings. Since there might be something, you don't want to destroy it. Hope I helped!!!
~Linda

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i like lots of guys and i don't know why... i just thnk so many are hot!! ugh it sucks not knowing which one to choose!! please help

I don't think that you are a slut if you like a lot of guys. You're only a slut if you sleep with all of the or date all of them in a short amount of time. Just pick one that would potentially like you back. That is what I personally think. Hope I helped!!
~Linda

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i have an 11 year old sister who asked me to write here. she has alaways been really atletic, but has never found a sport just for her. can you guys please write abouts sports you like, what type of people they are for, and some info on it. please exclude soccer and basketball

Well, I personally like the following:
baseball
softball
soccer
basketball
racketball
surfing
wake boarding
skateboarding
swimming
ect.

Hope I helped!!!
~Linda

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I know that most of the people that ask a random weirdos question are being stalked by a random weirdo, but I really like this one girl, and well, I am a girl too. I know it's weird though, but every time she sleeps in my study hall I watch her and fantasize. She woke up one time and saw me and got freaked out...and called me a weirdo. I have a picture of her in my class when we were in kindergarten when she dressed up as a chicken and I look at it every morning when I wake up. This is the only girl I'm attracted to, usually I like other guys. Am I really a random weirdo lesbian or am I just a straight girl with a big strange crush? help!

16/f

Well I think that you are bisexual. Maybe just for now at least. You are a girl and maybe you are just feeling something that you are not sure about. I personally think that this might be a crush, since the fact that you don't like other girls. Hope I helped.

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My friend got a new puppy. Its a Yorkshire Terrier and its brown and black. Its a boy and she really needs help thinking of a name for it. Can some one please help! I rate high! Thanks!

Snicker, Chocolate, Dunken, Riley, Rocky, ect.

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okay. when i go to go get an airplane it says i need a higher flying liscense..i know how to get the plane by jumping the fence but still is there really a flying school? and where is it?

Yes, there is a real flying school. Once you get far enough in the missions then there will be one that you have to complete flying school before you can continue with other missions. it's part of the last gray part of the map. Hope I helped!!
~Linda

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I have this gigantic crush on this guy named bob, and i think he likes me too. But, theres also this other gut named billy who i also like.Now, i know for sure that billy likes me, he's even said so!I mean both guys are smart, funny, cute and nice, so who should i pick?

It depends on who likes you and who you like better. Which one of those guys really make you excited and really makes you want to hang out? Thats the question you need to be asking yourself. Both guys sound amazing so just go with your gut feeling!! Hope I helped!!
~Linda

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I'm the one who's boyfriend killed himself and it was basically my fault. Well, I've been getting help with that, I'm in counseling and I've been starting to go to school a little bit, but I only go like 2 days a week. I still go to his grave everyday and cry and just talk to him as if he was there. I also go to his house every wednesday and friday night to have dinner with his family, and we talk about things. Anyways..Last sunday on mothers day, my best friend killed herself. She had been suicidal and getting help for a while, and had tried to commit suicide 6 times before that..and I guess this time she succeeded. I really dont know what to do anymore. All this stuff is just wayy too much for me. I have no idea how I'm going to pass school, I just..dont know what to do... :(

I'm so sorry for your lost. Just live each day as a normal day because each day you will get stronger. This will make you stronger. Live for them as well for yourself. I've felt sucidal at one point in my life, but thats a whole other story. Just live and don't forget, but don't let it run your life. Hope I helped!
~Linda

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(13/f) I live in Rhode Island and want to become an actress. Does anyone know of anywhere where I could go to get started? Please dont say my school because I need something for the summer! I'll rate 1's for people who say do something at my school and for "i dont know" and any other stupid remarks. I'll give 5's for anyone with a real answer and put effort into it.

*Stadium Threater is putting on one but you have to be 16+

I'm 15 and i want to be one too. My teacher said to get involved with a lot of communtiy theater. You might even get service hours for school if you need them. Hope I helped!
~Linda

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