There's this guy named Jeff and sometimes, he is soo nice and funny to me..but other times, he always tells me that I'm ugly..he says it in a "just kidding" voice but idk if he is being serious or if he really is just kidding. It hurts my feelings. What can I do?
sdog1205 answered Thursday May 19 2005, 1:39 am: Talk to him. He's probably just doing it to try and show off and be funny. A lot of people make fun of other people just to get a few laughs. That is probably the case here. Tell him that he's being an ass and that you don't like the way he acts sometimes. If he really cares and if your friend if he doesn't then you don't need him. You don't need someone to walk all over you and treat you like that. Talk to him and see what happens.
EJ47 answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 12:37 am: I do this with girl friends alot too. We're just joking about, and we know we can stil do it if they laugh and joke back. But if you're becoming uncomfortable with it, just as him to stop. Tell him how it's hurting you, and if he's a real friend he'll stop.
Jess5764 answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 11:58 pm: i'm sure hes just kidding around guys do it a lot escpecially if they like someone...i doubt hes that big of an asshole that he would actually tell a girl she was ugly guys dont usually do that [ Jess5764's advice column | Ask Jess5764 A Question ]
Taniqua's-teen-advice answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 11:35 pm: Hi, to me you should tell this Jeff guy that he needs to stop acting immature and like a jerk. It could be that he likes you and he's trying to cover it up. Try not to listen to him because you know that you are pretty and smart and funny and that's all that matters.
OrangeChikn answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 11:26 pm: Ok, sounds to me like he really is joking. Some people just have a sense of humor like that. He probably doesn't realize that he is hurting you, because he probably jokes around with his friends just like that all the time. Call him ugly back or something, and see what he does. If he shoots back with something else, he was probably just joking.
Teza answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 11:21 pm: Guys are so immature sometimes! Dont worry about it! Im sure hes joking because you probablly aren't ugly! Joke and mess with him back and say that and just be like just kidding!♥ [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
xdesireex0 answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 11:16 pm: Just tell Jeff that you don't appreciate those comments that he makes. If he doesn't then he has no business being able to talk to u. Guys can be retarded sometimes, cuz when they are around a certain crowd they can act totally different. Hope I helped!
~Linda [ xdesireex0's advice column | Ask xdesireex0 A Question ]
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