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ugly :-(

Question Posted Tuesday May 17 2005, 7:09 pm

There's this guy named Jeff and sometimes, he is soo nice and funny to me..but other times, he always tells me that I'm ugly..he says it in a "just kidding" voice but idk if he is being serious or if he really is just kidding. It hurts my feelings. What can I do?

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MaScArA_xo_TeArz answered Thursday May 19 2005, 7:47 pm:
If I were in your position which I have been before..... ask him why he keeps on saying this and tell ask him to stop if it is really hurting your feelings thats bad

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sdog1205 answered Wednesday May 18 2005, 9:39 pm:
Talk to him. He's probably just doing it to try and show off and be funny. A lot of people make fun of other people just to get a few laughs. That is probably the case here. Tell him that he's being an ass and that you don't like the way he acts sometimes. If he really cares and if your friend if he doesn't then you don't need him. You don't need someone to walk all over you and treat you like that. Talk to him and see what happens.

Good luck and I hope things work out

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karenR answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 11:26 pm:
You let him know that it hurts your feelings. Simple as that. If he continues then don't hang out with him anymore. :)

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bigzcenter answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 9:18 pm:
their are different times when i call girls ugly and im just kidden but then like 5 min before i am really nice its just in a guys nature he prolly dont mean it
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Bob_the_Sword_Test_Dummy answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 9:18 pm:
Boys are so immature. I guess it's the whole "you hurt the ones you love" shit.

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daddysgirl answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 8:44 pm:
guys r sooooooo immature not a little but a lot
sooo give him a taste of his own medician

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oxtinkerbell522x answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 8:40 pm:
tell him 2 stop bein a jackass n callin u dat

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EJ47 answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 8:37 pm:
I do this with girl friends alot too. We're just joking about, and we know we can stil do it if they laugh and joke back. But if you're becoming uncomfortable with it, just as him to stop. Tell him how it's hurting you, and if he's a real friend he'll stop.


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Jess5764 answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 7:58 pm:
i'm sure hes just kidding around guys do it a lot escpecially if they like someone...i doubt hes that big of an asshole that he would actually tell a girl she was ugly guys dont usually do that

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xxBrOkEnxx answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 7:40 pm:
you can tell him that it hurts. and no one is ugly, everyone is pretty in their own way

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shake answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 7:38 pm:
Kick his nuts next time he does it then say "oh, im just kidding"

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Taniqua's-teen-advice answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 7:35 pm:
Hi, to me you should tell this Jeff guy that he needs to stop acting immature and like a jerk. It could be that he likes you and he's trying to cover it up. Try not to listen to him because you know that you are pretty and smart and funny and that's all that matters.

Illinois, 13

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OrangeChikn answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 7:26 pm:
Ok, sounds to me like he really is joking. Some people just have a sense of humor like that. He probably doesn't realize that he is hurting you, because he probably jokes around with his friends just like that all the time. Call him ugly back or something, and see what he does. If he shoots back with something else, he was probably just joking.

Good Luck.

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Teza answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 7:21 pm:
Guys are so immature sometimes! Dont worry about it! Im sure hes joking because you probablly aren't ugly! Joke and mess with him back and say that and just be like just kidding!♥

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angelinluv6767 answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 7:19 pm:
make fun of him back. i know its not alot, but things will change after you do that a while!

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xdesireex0 answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 7:16 pm:
Just tell Jeff that you don't appreciate those comments that he makes. If he doesn't then he has no business being able to talk to u. Guys can be retarded sometimes, cuz when they are around a certain crowd they can act totally different. Hope I helped!

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Gtownhelper321 answered Tuesday May 17 2005, 7:11 pm:
This reminds me of a ass whole from my scool, Brian he can be cool when he wants to bu the is mean other times and what i do is well sometimes i hit him or i just make fun of him

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