okay..so this has been my problem for 2 months now. me and my ex broke up 2 months ago. i wanna forget about him but it seems like i cant. like i mean i try liking another guy to keep him off my mind but..he just shows up again. i know he's going to stay in my heart because he was my first kiss and love. after me he already has 2 exs and now a gf. but.. in my head it feels like he's rubbing his gf and his last 2 exs on my face to make me jelous but..they didnt last as long as we did..which was 2 months. my ex and i almost have the same friends and we hang out at the same place and we have 5 out 6 classes together. so its hard to get him out of my face. we try to be friends[i guess] but it doesnt work because all we do is argue or make eachother feel bad. i tired of going back to him. help me.
This sounds so familiar.If you can't get him out of your head and hes always showing up and stuff hes suposed to be there. You don't forget your first love and kiss, it's just one of the things that will stay with you forever.Guys are like that, they will try to make you jealous by having other girlfriends. Don't let it get to you either. He probly still thinks of you and has feelings for you but he doesn't want to show it. You need to really talk to and tell him how you feel. DON'T HIDE ANYTHING. You say all you do is fight and aruge when you friends that means you two do like each other sounds weird but true, you fight with the people you most love and care about. ♥
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Theres this boy, Jake, who is one of my best friends, ever. I love him, but he doesn't like me. I'm almost positive that he likes my best friend Jenna, who likes him. It hurts, but I love him and I just want him to be happy, even if its without me. But i'm afraid that she's going to hurt him. his ex girlfriend hurt him really badly last year, and im afraid that it Will happen again. I really, really want him to be happy, but i'm afraid that jennas feelings for him arent really that deep, or that its just a little thing that she'll get over. I really dont want to see him get hurt.
Talk to him and tell him you really don't want him hurt, and if he still likes her then let him learn from it. I know it probly hurts you to see her and him together but that's just how life is.They can't help the feelings they have for each other. Maybe after all being you and him being best friends will work out best for both of you.♥
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I care about my boyfriend ALOT im love him soooo much. We have been together for 6 months. The problem is that he does stupid shit to piss me off ALL the time. We fight what it seems like everyday. When i get pissed at him i think that i could find someone who treats me so much better but then i think i love him so much. What should i do? Because i dont want to loose him but he doesnt listen. And its like hes using it to his advantage that i wont break up with him.
Six months is a long time to be with someone..so I don't think you should throw all that away. But you do need to talk to him and tell him it seems like he is taking advantage of you and anything thats on your mind, just give him a heads up. If he still keeps going it move on and find someone who will treat you better. But I do think after you have a serious talk with him he will realize stuff. ♥
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i just broke up with my bf of 1 year and 2 months. it started out that i was really annoyed with him and all of that but now i think i made a mistake..this is not the first time this has happend. before we broke up then got back together because i thought i liked someone else..i dont know though i just cant stop crying and why is it now that i realize how good he was to me. i cant help but think that if i keep going back to him then breaking up with him that it just isnt meant to be..but i still love him. now we never talk but he talks to my friends like nothing is wrong and i hate that. he acts like he dosnt even care that we have broken up and that really hurts for some reason. There is also this other guy that i have been talking to and we both really like eachother and are planning to hang out but not like jumping into things just hanging out(he dosnt go to my school). but he is out of town right now so i cant talk to him about how im feeling like usual ..I guess my question is should i go back out with my ex or how do i get over it..this is my first long term relationship so i dont know how to get through it.
Don't get over him just yet.If you still think about him and cry then that means you like him. Yes, you did make a mistake but we all do and you can't blame it all on yourself.He is acting like nothing happenend so he seems "cool" and he knows that makes you mad so he does that. Don't let that bother you.If you really and truely love him don't hook up with that guy whos out of town. Talk to your ex and tell him how you feel he probly feels the same because if you were in a long relationship, he can't just be over you. ♥
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so theres this guy and we sorta got really close over winter break and we made out and stuff and then all the sudden he stopped talking to me.. i found out that my friend told him i liked him and to back off because i did. well, he listened to her and doesnt talk to me much and idk i sorta do like him but not enough that it even shows, but i still want to be friends with him.. and i try to have online convos with him but they just seem akward so i guess... what can i talk with him about.. like what are guys interested in talking about with girls.. or how do i get into like a really flirty convo with him?
Not to be rude or anything like that but if he isn't talking to you as much and it seems like hes being a fag then he isn't worth your time so I don't think you should even bother talking to him.♥
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im 14/f
almost 130 pounds
5feet 8 inches
am i overweight?
No your weight is fine. ♥
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how does your best friend act when he really loves you?
how do guys act about that?
i dont wana lose our 7 year friendship.
i love him.
he loves me like a bff and gf?
im 13/f hes 13/m but were bffs maybe bf gf?
?im confused help me?
Seven years of being friend is a long time. You two probly know each other good and everything about each other. It does seem like you both like each other. You should talk to him about it but also tell him that no matter what happens you don't want your friendship to go to waste. And about making first moves just flirt with him and get close and that should give him the clue.
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hey...well my boyfriend and i have been together for a year and a couple of months now and we were doing really well...now we've been through a whole lot and we pretty much know how it is with each other...it hasnt been so great...it seems that ive been the only one putting in effort into the relationship and he says himself that he doesnt care about most things...i changed some things about myself for him but when it comes to him its like he doesnt even try...i would say everything on here that happens but theres way too many things that go on...it seems like now its comming to an end and at the same time ive learned a lot from it...i talked to him last night and he said that he doesnt think we're right for each other...i couldnt bear with what he was saying i felt so hurt but he wants to wait a little longer just to see if it gets anyt better all but i dont know how long that'll last and i dont know if i should wait...i need some advice on how to get over him...ive stayed up all night for weeks with this...missed school...cant concentrate..i cant let him go i just cant see him with another girl it hurts too much...and i dont know if i should end it...i know i should but i cant...thanks for anyone who tries to help i really appreciate it...
17/f
I went through this same exact thing. Feelings fade and that's how it is. It will take a long time to get over but it can happen. It does sound like you should end things if he isn't giving much effort in the relationship then why should you? When you guys break up don't call him, totally ignore him, don't look or talk to him,and pretend like he was nothing to you. I know it may sound really hard or impossible it's not. A year is a long time but you have to move on, and if you do the things I just told you, you will move on faster. Good luck with everything!
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Okay...is a hickey basically when like youre making ut and then like the other person...a boy for me in my case...will just move down to my neck and bite?
I'm confused as to how it all comes about with getting one and stuff...
No, it's just when the other person / the guy in your case sucks on your neck.
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im 13.
and ive only had 1 bf
and he was younger then me
well he stayed back a year but still
he was so short and stuff differnt!!
is this bad
whats some ways i could get a boyfriend?
It doesn't matter how many boyfriends you have had, as long as you liked him and he liked you that's all that matters. Him being short and differnt isn't bad.A way to get a boyfriend is just be yourself, start hanging out with him, and flirt alot.
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15/f
i have this friend that i admire. she always makes me laugh and shes just amazing and shes always been there for me. ever since this school year started she made so many new friends, and i kinda got jealous so i didnt really pay attention to her because i wanted to see if she would do anything. she still acts really nice to me when the few times i actually do see her. im just kinda sad cause i dont see her as much as i used to and im afraid of being replaced by someone else. am i doing the right thing by not paying attention to her? if not what should i do?
No..your not doing the right thing. She seems like a fun person and I don't think you should just not may attention to her. Talk to her about it maybe she doesn't even realize it. Never let a good friendship like that just drop..you said she has always been there for you and that's something not all friends do. Talk to her and try and hang out. ♥
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How can you tell if your boyfriend is cheating, mine started acting really shady a few days ago..and doesn't seem as interested in me..any ideas?
He will act all weird towards you like he doesn't like you and he won't hang out with you as much. But if he is .. just be a bigger player back.♥
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15/m
okay i was dating this girl sammie, then she kissed another guy i flppped and we broke up, she said that that kiss didnt mean anything... then for a month she bothered me and said she wanted me back, now i finally relieze i still really like her, and shee doesnt want me back... wat do i do to get her back, or is it even worth it?
Yes, it is worth it. It was wrong of her to kiss the other guy but at least she admited it. If he bothered you before about it chances are she still does want you back but maybe the feelings have faded. Just talk to her about it even if she doesn't want to and tell her exactly how you feel.♥
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I think hes feeling "down" or having second thoughts about us.I need to start a spark!!HELP!!plz if u have any advice comment!
THAKZ!!
Just talk to about stuff. And make some moves on him =]
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what are some good cheap websites (preferably free tho) where i can download music for my ipod? like what do you use?
and how can i transfer the song to my itunes account?
thanks.
Limewire.
You just press explore on limewire and the song you want you right click and put open with itunes.
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Ok i cant stand my family. they make me want to kill myself. First off. my little brother of 11 years old, is a selfish little brat, who crys and crys about everything. and if he doesnt get his way he flips out. my sister of 15 is always pointing out the bad things about me, she is always yelling at me, and always makeing me feel like crap. My older brother of 17 is always beating on everything and needs to take anger mangament classes. My mom is always telling me, how i should feel about things, and yells at me for things i dont even do. Please tell me, what do i do?
My family is kind of like that too. There isn't much you can do about it. Sooner or later things will get better. If your mom tells you to do something just do it and go to your room. And about your brothers and sisters ignore them they know it ticks you off so they make you mad even more. Just hang out with your friends more and spend less time at home. ♥
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what does it me when someone says "hes whipped"
thanks
That the girl has all the control of him..he kinda does everything she tells him to. ♥
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hey gourges. okay well is having a shiny face bad?
& i have some acne. like what do you use for your face? do you just use a face wash? or a cream with it too? what do you use? thanks. godd i wish i looked as stunning as you ♥
Heyy. Having a shiny face isn't bad..For my face I just use Nutregena and the creame with it. I use it when I wake up and go to bed. Your so sweet =)
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if you cant get someone out of your head, were they meant to be there?
If you have tried over and over again to get them out of your head and you still can't yeah chances are there meant to be there. ♥
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well i started to get over my girlfriend but me and her jus cant stop flirtin and starin into each other's eyes. i love her soo much still and i kno that she loves me too but she still wont get back with me bcuz she said she doesnt wanna go thru all tha arguin. wat can i do to get back wit her?
Aw that's cute how you two flirt =] Maybe you both need time away from each other I know it's hard but it's the best thing for both of you.Just let a month or two go by and see how things go and if you still like her talk to her then. Good luck =]
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