Hi well i love playing the piano but i hate goin to lessons. I just HATE lessons. Does any1 kno how to make myself want to go to lessons?
Well how r u going to learn if you dont get lessons? Or just teach urself bye BOOKS of NOTES and try and learn them on your own. Our just make up your own music.
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okay so this is the deal i have always had boy friends and well yea i liked them at the time and we only lasted like 3-4 weeks yea not long at all well now this year i met this boy trevor and well i really really really think im falling in love...but i wouldnt knoe wut luv is cuz like ive never been in it b4 i mean we've been dating for like 2 months and well i really feel different around him i feel like i can b myself and i can open up to him about n e thing. well trevor on the other hand i never knoe if he feels the same way About me..cuz well yea he calls me every night but when i c him he always acts soo shy at school and he always is soo short temperd like im always affraid that if i do some thing bad that he will like hate me and it doesnt even have to b n e thing big just like me not callin him when he tells me to call him back i mean ive seen him totally flip out on other peeps but i knoe he never would on me cuz he has great respect of women and gurls. so i guess me question is would you call this love?? and not only from me but form him too??? answer me sooon i really need to knoe
Gurl if you can be urself. Then yea its LOVE! Love is something you can be urself with someone and be totally in to them and they have respect for you! I Deffinately say "YES" Wow! Go you got ur first love;)
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Yeah so I like this guy and ya I don't know him and I really want to get to know him. I am good friends with his best friend but his best friend wont help me at all bc I think he likes me. I really want the guy I like to like me....not his best friend. I really want to freakin meet him! But nooooo his best friend won't introduce us...and its buggin me. I dont want to tell his best friend "oh you wont introduce me or set me up beacause you like me"...that'd be kind of odd. HELP! What do I do to get introduced to him? His best friend is the only one of this guy's friends that I know!
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Write him a note. I do it all the time, I get in those spots all the time. Talk about yourself and say sorry that im writting this but i want to get to know you, you seem cool and blah blah blah! Trust me it works. Then you give him ur # and u start talking. :)
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ok i have this best friend kinda....she wasl ike my realllllly good friend all thru middle skool n shes a really good friend but she has been getting REALLY annoying...we still talk even tho we go to diff highskools now...but shes soo annoying!!!! shes the NICEST person ever tho lyke she would never hurt ne 1s feelings...but whenever i sign on she IMs me lyke the second i sign on and she ALWAYS talks about her boyz probs...and they r s0o0o long....EVERYTIME! i dont kno how to tell her that its annoying to hear about the same thing every time i sign on...i dont wanna hurt her feelings but its soo annoying!
You wont hurt her feelings. What you just said tell her. She'll understand. If i was her and you said how nice of a person i am and tell me that i am annoying cause of that. I wouldnt be hurt. I would be glad you told me, It would make me feel better because i would stop embarassing myself. Dont be afraid to tell her. Just be gentle and nice.:)
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Well I've known this guy for about 2 years over the internet. (I met him through a friend who met him 6 months before me) We've talked on the phone, sent letters, pictures, webcams, and all of that, also I've talked to his family and friends so that I know everything he says is true. I've told him that I love him, and he says the same to me. When he gets his liscence, he was going to come and visit me. We only live about 5 hours apart... Yeah, we've had our ups and downs but i still love him, even though we're not "going out" or anything. I know he's had sex once before with his ex girlfriend of a year. I would have sex with him, but I'm still a virgin and I think I'm too young. He's not pressuring me or anything, it's something I wanna do. (Please don't lecture me about it, I know, I also don't need inappropriate vulgar remarks thrown at me for this) He's 16 and I'm 14, but I'll be 15 by the time he gets to visit. I just need some help on what to do to make me feel more open with him. I guess I just feel intimidated because it's not his first time. (It's also not like I've never done anything sexual before, just not sex itself) Please help me out with this.
Tell him that!!! He's your "LOVE" You shouldnt be able to hold back from that. You have to speak up! say whats on your mind. Because he had sex before doesnt mean ANYTHING! Im a VIRGIN Too i have dated alot of guys who had sex. Just dont be afraid to say things, or ask questions. He's the one experienced he can help you feel more open and answer all your questions. If he truly loves you he wont think anything different of you. BE OPEN With him. He seems pretty open with you.
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Can you lose weight by doing yoga?I heard it was only for your flexibility but someone else told me you could lose weight from it?Thanks!
Yes you can!!! Im doing yoga! :)
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i LUV cuttin up big shirts n makin them tight n cute like bows down the side but i almost always do the same thing with the bows n im soo tired of it.does nyone kno anythin else thatll b cute to do to shirts? ill rate u a fvive if u answer! thnx
Cut Strings. Put beads with the Bows. Putt little Dangles. Cut out the neck and wear a sports bra under it, its popular here in the KEYS :)
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Ok art lets call her ms.bob(new teacher at the skool) ok so ms bob is kinda weird and makes the class read out of the art book and she is all like you can only learn art from a book. and we are all like how is the book going to teach us?? how could the class tell that we learn better without the book cause all we do is pass notes and no1 pays attention to her what can i do??
After school talk to your teacher and let her know. If she gets mad say sorry i was just trying to help. Or have kids sign a thing that says they agree with it. Then give it to her. So she understands you guys want to do something not just read a book.
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hey guys! well everyone with xangas ok u no how in some xangas they have a little scroll with different songs u can listen to while yer on the page? well can someone tell me where to go to get that?? and how to do it! thanx!
Try GOOGLE Search!
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last monday i told my boyfriend that i was running away. (it was a joke) i didnt tell him that it was a joke until tuesday morning. he got all mad at me and ended up breaking up w/ me over it. Now he wont talk to me or even walk past me. i have last hour w/ him (he sits in front of me) what should i do? talk to him or wait until he talks to me?
You should talk first. He prolly was scared out of his mind. I would be too, he truly likes you and he doesnt know if he should trust you now since you scared him like that. Talk to him first and appologize. Or write him a note saying sorry. That you like him and didnt mean any harm to him breaking up with you. Just let him know how you feel. WRITE A long note how you feel. Wait a couple of days then talk to him. okay.
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Okay, I know it sounds really weird hearing this from a thirteen year old, but I want to be a cryptographer(a person who breaks codes). I am very interested in the topic, and I have loved breaking codes and solving lodgic puzzles since I was 5. I just want some background information on the topic ( like reccomended universities and classes, stuff like that). If anyone has any info on cryptography, or cryptology, please respond. NOTE: this is not a stupid phase I'm going through
hahaha! Its okay thats an awesome idea. Great job get alot of money just go to GOOGLE.COM and type in cryptography youll find tons of listings and all ur info. you need. Just try it!
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How do u get rid of stage fright? please help! I rate high! I have a play comming up soon and Im fine doing it with my class but im scared to do the play in front of the whole school and then in front of ever1's parents! PLEASE HELP
Dont be AFRAID! Remember when you would play dolls when you were little and you would just be in your own little imaginary little world, while your family and friends look at you like * WHAT THE HECK IS SHE DOING? * and you like take your barbie or dinosaur or w/e and use it to fly around like superman and jump off cliffs, you didnt care what they thought you were having fun, you amzed yourself. Just remember your lines! and be like you were when you were little just ZONE them out, Pretend its like PLAYHOUSE when you and your friends would cook and be the mom and dad and the babies! Dont pay attention to them!!! There nothing. They dont care if you mess up they will just think its part of the play and if you fall or w/e just make it look funny!! be like hahah minor slipage. Be funny if its a funny play be SERIOUS if its a serious be romantic if its a romantic play. Dont pay attention to the auidence their there to watch you perform. Not on if u screw up. DONT BE AFRAID! I used to be afraid. Just pretend its only you and rehersal. Noone cares if you mess up their too busy paying attention to not messing up themselves, Even if you do they will just laugh, and thats good making people laugh is awesome. ALOT of people isnt ALOT! just imagine yourself at home infront of the mirror just you and the reflection of you!! Your not afraid are you? Just pretend thats all acting is. You do it your whole life. Its just another ORDINARY Day. IIght! So dont be all freaked out. ITS NOTHIN! Just take a deep breathe, breathe in breathe out count down from ten and shake your hands before entering the stage. TRUST ME! YOu will be *GREAT* :)
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You see, I'm developing feeelings for this guy who lives near my friends place. Whenever I'm around him, I act like a fool. My friends (girls) can do sporty things he does, but I totally cant. I think he refers to me as "girly", which I am. But I feel left out when I'm with them. I can't run as fast as they do, and I really don't know what to do. I won't be going to my friends place anymore, so I don't know how I can talk 2 the guy who lives near her. I want him 2 like me, but I feel so ashamed to even see him again. What do I do?
Girl dont be ASHAMED! You have nothing to be ashamed about. I would tell the guy str8 up! Hey you! I think your cute, Hers my number call me sometime and i hope maybe you and I can get to know each other. He most likely will call you. Unless you really want to talk to him hang out with him for a while when your at ur friends house get to know him. Then ask him for his number and if he wont let you have it then give him yours and walk away, and say HEY ATLEAST I GAVE IT A TRY :-/ and guys will be like (whoa she really had the courage,,,, what a babe) I would be all WORKED UP About it. I mean just tell him how you feel. Str8 up! Dont be shy thats what screws everyone OVER! and make there marriage SUCK and make their lives MISERABLE! Speak up girl. Raise your voice, be heard by that guy of yours. Tell me if you use my advice and tell me what happens :)
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hey i wrote to you yesterday. im the girl who thought she was pregnant. well i found out today that i was. this really bites. i know you said i should tell my parents but you just dont know my dad. he is a marine..his dad was a marine..his dad was a marine..his dad was in the navy..and his dad was in the navy..i could continue but you get the point. well my dads brother has a daughter two years older then me. at 16 (my age) she got pregnant. when she finally told her parents her father disowned her. like my dad her dad is also a marine. our grandfather taught them that girls our age just dont get pregnant until married which is after age 18. they were told that for punishment they were to disown them and make them suffer through what they caused. so my cousin got thrown out. and while yea im a daddys girl..he would do the same. he is leaving for iraq here right after thanksgiving and i dont think he should have to have that hanging over his head..do you know any easy ways to tell them..ways that maybe they would see i was really sorry. i mean..technically..i wasnt raped..i said no once..but after that just kinda backed down and gave in to it. i hated it but i love him. i told him today and surprise to me he was happy. he is 18 and said he was ready to be a dad. i know his mom and dad will be cool. his family is also military. but since he is 18 he can choose to stay here when they move on to help me with the baby. we should of used protection. im such an idiot. how could i have been so stupid. this baby is coming in to a family of a very strict family where its tradition the oldest son do the marines and the second son any branch of military he likes. so far everyone has stuck to that but honestly..if i have a boy..i dont want him to follow that. life is just to hard on the kids when your moving all the time. ive had to pack my life up 7 times in 16 years..flown on 86 international flights..it gets real old ya know. well this wasnt really asking for advice just wanted to let you know what was happening . take care.
kayly
Well thanks for letting me know. Hell just tell your parents and if they dis own you then you got your man! You can live with him. I would tell your parents. If all else fails! Ill get you a ticket to come down here and live with me. I will help you. So keep your head high. Im really sorry. Your not stupid! or an Idiot it was just a minor mistake. SInce your man said he was happy, then you should be fine. Well keep up with me. PLEASE! I would love to help you. Once i find out if im pregnant we can go through this together. Okay hun!! Im here for you. Thanks for coming to me.
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lets say you hooked up with one of your guy friends a while ago. you think hes really cool but after you guys hooked up, you just stopped talking... yea well this happened to me. we hadnt talked or seen in each other in months but get this! he just started talking to me again! how should i react to this?
Well gurl. I would be like whats wrong? why did you just stop talking to me and seeing me. Ask him what has he been doing. Tell him this. Just be like yo what the heck were u up to? Arnt we hooked up? like man you just kinda disappeared. Then just ask him and tell him everything to want. Just figure it out by not being shy just Str8 up tell him! so he knows he screwed up.
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ok i'll get to the point. i had sex with my boyfriend of 7 months about a month ago. well the thing is..im late. my period has been on tight schedule for 3 years now. never missed or been late. well now im late or missed or whatever. im 16 and freaked out here. my mother will slotter me if i'm pregnant. and i know my boyfriend will completely freak out as well. my dad is in the marines so we move a lot. so if i am pregnant, i won't be able to stay with the father anyway even if he excepts whats happening. if i am pregnant how do i tell my family and randle? randle is the dad.. i don't want him to call me a lier or anything because i was a virgin until him. i know i shouldn't of done it with him. he was just pressuring me and i guess i broke under the pressure. im so lost. please help me!
Right now! Im in your position i was raped a couple of weeks ago. I might be pregnant too. I understand exactly what your going through. My dad is AIR FORCE we move alot too. If he was pressuring you, just to let you know.. Thats rape! you shouldnt be pressured to have sex with anyone. 16 is a young age for a girl to get pregnant. I bet you are scared. If i were you i would go to ur nearest hospital to get a check up on this matter and make sure your alright, ask them to give you a pregnancy test and if you cant do that then go to the store buy a pregnancy test. I would see and make sure if your pregnant. If you are pregnant you should TELL YOUR PARENTS! Its very important. If you explained that you were pressured and that you knew it was wrong that your sorry they will understand. At first they might be mad for a few hours but then they will relax and be like "OH SHIT! MY DAUGHTER MIGHT BE PREGNANT" And talk to them into helping you through this problem. They will always love you and get your back. My mother was 16 when she had my oldest sister. My Grandparents are sooooo STRICT you have no idea. They would beat my mother and all kinds of things. Forced her to get married to her ex-husband and made her live in the house away from her ex- husband. It cant be that bad!!! You seem like you come from a really good WEALTHY Family. Since your still under you parents wing your baby would get all the things you have with the military free medical care and all kinds of things. I really think it would be better to be pregnant now before you leave. YOur mother will help you. You save soo much money, if your young and have a child in a military family. I wouldnt be to scared. Having a child is something part of you! That will always love you, no matter what. Dont be afraid. Girl speak up let your parents know. They wont hurt you. They wont get mad. They will help you. Then get pissed off at your boyfriend if he doesnt believe you! You dont need a guy who pressures you anyways. Thats rape when a guy PRESSURES YOU to have SEX! Gurl dont let him take control of you. That child is TEN TIMES As good as that fool. If he doesnt believe then SCREW HIM! Find someone better. You seem like a great girl. You can get better. Randle should still love you and believe you and help you if he is a great boyfriend. If he doesnt your life will be hell trying to please him when you do have that kid he might break up with you or might fight over the baby and go to court. So unless he aint like that i would tell him, if he is like that i wouldnt tell him your pregnant and when you grow up and the baby wants to know its dad u can say he died or he was not there. You know theres alot. Of explaining for this. Dont be freaked out your family loves you no matter what so tell your parents its better off. Sit down with them in the living room and say mom, dad we need to talk. Then sit them down and tell them you love them and your truly sorry and tell them about what happend, they will understand. I hope i helped you out! and im happy u came to me. Please keep me updated on anything this is something i would like to help you with!!! My Cell is 305-393-6201 my name is Samantha please if you need anything you let me know. I hope i helped you! Keep updated please.
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i have this friend who is to afraid to admitt that she abuses herself. she isn't the first friend i have had like this but she sure is the hardest to convince herself. she just thinks its normal. and i mean it's not. yes a lot of people do it but it scares me. what brings people to that point? can you please explain that? she acts like her life is great and nothing ever goes wrong. but today she didn't wear her long sleeves and i saw the scars. she burns herself and i saw cutting scars and some new cuts. i'm worried for her. she is going to go too far one day and i just want to help. she just keeps pushing me away. i just don't want to leave my best friend. please help me!
Hey hun! Thanks for coming to me. I had a friend who used to do that. Its hard, people do that.. They do it because they hurt inside but dont want to believe it. There scared to face the facts. If your friend isnt listening to you and you dont want to lose her as a friend and you try your best to convince her how much you care for her as a friend and that your always going to be there for her no matter what and that you love her. Just let her know how much you care for her. Then i would call a hot line or tell on a teacher or counselor. She *NEEDS* Help, Therapudic and Thereapy to help her stop cutting herself. She needs someone to be there for her. It wont get her in trouble she wont be put into a insane aslam or nothing. They will take her to counseling. Counseling helps. They make you smile and figure things to do to help you when your upset. She keeps pushing you away from her problem because she 'LOVES U AS A FRIEND' she doesnt want to hurt you, so she doesnt want you getting involved. She's scared, she cant stop herself. She needs some serious help to help her STOP PUT to this harm to herself. If i were you i would tell someone. Help your friend. She might be pissed for a while, but your saving a life and in the long run she will thank you with her life. You make the move dont let her make the move first and end up DEAD! Please.. Help your friend. I hope i helped you. Please let me know if u have anymore questions. Im sorri about your friend, but please help her out.
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how can you be tired when you sleep like 10 hours a day?? from your love
Its called too much sleep... haha. And thinking of you! Its alot of work!!! :) From your love.
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HEY SAM WHAT WOULD YOU SAY TO YOUR BOYFREIND TO REALLY LET HIM KNOW YOU LOVE HIM?
What would i say... What i would say is that he is an awesome guy. I can tell him anything. He listens and helps me through alot. I love spending time with him. I can act like a COMPLETE Idiot and he still loves me. I can look like CRAP (Literly) And he will still love me. When i squirt him with the hose he drags me and throws me off the dock into the *FREEZING* Cold water.haha. Takes me to go eat SUSHI and Doesnt like SEAWEED on it! (What a weirdo) But i still love him. He helps me with soo much. Calls me alot. I know he wont cheat on me. He never ever gets REALLY mad at me. We like to tease each other. When it comes to our romantic times we go out on the dock! and we look at the stars and talk alot. We kiss and have our 'alone' time together. Sit on the hammock and relax and him flip over and hurt him self. Or me siting down and listening to his "THEORIES" and sit on the couch and watch movies and lay together with my BUTTERFLY Blanky:) and ill be just chatting away and he wont be answering me and then ill look and he'll just be DEAD ASLEEP! and make me feel like a complete idiot. My neighbors and friends and family on the porch look atme like who is she TALKING TOO? since they see him sleeping and i dont. We laugh about alot of things. We go diving together. We cook and do some weird shit in the kitchen. We go jetskiiing (WAVERUNNER) So we have spent alot of times and memories with each other. Im so happy when he is down here. All my worries and pain just go AWAY and its just amazing. I Love him! and thats all i can say is that i truly LOVE HIM :) With all guys i have dated nun- of them spent this much time with me like he does. He is like FAMILY. His dad and i are buddies and our family is close. Its just PERFECT :)
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can someone please tell me how i can become a model? like im not expericened but i really want to become one! how can i go get pictures to where i can enter in a modeling agency?
Im a MODEL! Ill help you out. Just instant message me xOMsRunninAwayOx or email me mssammerz89@yahoo.com and ill help you out :)
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