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friend is annoying
ok i have this best friend kinda....she wasl ike my realllllly good friend all thru middle skool n shes a really good friend but she has been getting REALLY annoying...we still talk even tho we go to diff highskools now...but shes soo annoying!!!! shes the NICEST person ever tho lyke she would never hurt ne 1s feelings...but whenever i sign on she IMs me lyke the second i sign on and she ALWAYS talks about her boyz probs...and they r s0o0o long....EVERYTIME! i dont kno how to tell her that its annoying to hear about the same thing every time i sign on...i dont wanna hurt her feelings but its soo annoying!
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go on ivsible on im or just tell her if she is a REAL friend she will understand only the dumb are not friends
i hope you situtation works out
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if you never want to hang wiht her..you are going to have to block her im and avoid her..evnetually she will get the message..but to me..she will be hurt.
you have decided how much you can put up with..if it is that bad you have to cut her off..if not see her only once in awhile and do no answer her im....but she might just deserve your honesty..ok
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You wont hurt her feelings. What you just said tell her. She'll understand. If i was her and you said how nice of a person i am and tell me that i am annoying cause of that. I wouldnt be hurt. I would be glad you told me, It would make me feel better because i would stop embarassing myself. Dont be afraid to tell her. Just be gentle and nice.:)
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wow... I went through the same thing. but my friend was really sensitive so i didn't tell her. ehhh... she ended up falling in love and didn't have problems as often. so... just tell her, but be nice and gentle
"look, your are the coolest, nicest friend and ur awesome but... you keep talking about boy problems EVERY SINGLE DAY... and it's kinda bringing me down a little"
(don't say she's annoying or she'll get mad)
well good luck with whatever you decide to do... :)
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