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ok i'll get to the point. i had sex with my boyfriend of 7 months about a month ago. well the thing is..im late. my period has been on tight schedule for 3 years now. never missed or been late. well now im late or missed or whatever. im 16 and freaked out here. my mother will slotter me if i'm pregnant. and i know my boyfriend will completely freak out as well. my dad is in the marines so we move a lot. so if i am pregnant, i won't be able to stay with the father anyway even if he excepts whats happening. if i am pregnant how do i tell my family and randle? randle is the dad.. i don't want him to call me a lier or anything because i was a virgin until him. i know i shouldn't of done it with him. he was just pressuring me and i guess i broke under the pressure. im so lost. please help me!
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Right now! Im in your position i was raped a couple of weeks ago. I might be pregnant too. I understand exactly what your going through. My dad is AIR FORCE we move alot too. If he was pressuring you, just to let you know.. Thats rape! you shouldnt be pressured to have sex with anyone. 16 is a young age for a girl to get pregnant. I bet you are scared. If i were you i would go to ur nearest hospital to get a check up on this matter and make sure your alright, ask them to give you a pregnancy test and if you cant do that then go to the store buy a pregnancy test. I would see and make sure if your pregnant. If you are pregnant you should TELL YOUR PARENTS! Its very important. If you explained that you were pressured and that you knew it was wrong that your sorry they will understand. At first they might be mad for a few hours but then they will relax and be like "OH SHIT! MY DAUGHTER MIGHT BE PREGNANT" And talk to them into helping you through this problem. They will always love you and get your back. My mother was 16 when she had my oldest sister. My Grandparents are sooooo STRICT you have no idea. They would beat my mother and all kinds of things. Forced her to get married to her ex-husband and made her live in the house away from her ex- husband. It cant be that bad!!! You seem like you come from a really good WEALTHY Family. Since your still under you parents wing your baby would get all the things you have with the military free medical care and all kinds of things. I really think it would be better to be pregnant now before you leave. YOur mother will help you. You save soo much money, if your young and have a child in a military family. I wouldnt be to scared. Having a child is something part of you! That will always love you, no matter what. Dont be afraid. Girl speak up let your parents know. They wont hurt you. They wont get mad. They will help you. Then get pissed off at your boyfriend if he doesnt believe you! You dont need a guy who pressures you anyways. Thats rape when a guy PRESSURES YOU to have SEX! Gurl dont let him take control of you. That child is TEN TIMES As good as that fool. If he doesnt believe then SCREW HIM! Find someone better. You seem like a great girl. You can get better. Randle should still love you and believe you and help you if he is a great boyfriend. If he doesnt your life will be hell trying to please him when you do have that kid he might break up with you or might fight over the baby and go to court. So unless he aint like that i would tell him, if he is like that i wouldnt tell him your pregnant and when you grow up and the baby wants to know its dad u can say he died or he was not there. You know theres alot. Of explaining for this. Dont be freaked out your family loves you no matter what so tell your parents its better off. Sit down with them in the living room and say mom, dad we need to talk. Then sit them down and tell them you love them and your truly sorry and tell them about what happend, they will understand. I hope i helped you out! and im happy u came to me. Please keep me updated on anything this is something i would like to help you with!!! My Cell is 305-393-6201 my name is Samantha please if you need anything you let me know. I hope i helped you! Keep updated please.
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