last monday i told my boyfriend that i was running away. (it was a joke) i didnt tell him that it was a joke until tuesday morning. he got all mad at me and ended up breaking up w/ me over it. Now he wont talk to me or even walk past me. i have last hour w/ him (he sits in front of me) what should i do? talk to him or wait until he talks to me?
AsKmE135 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 7:48 pm: Okay, im not saying this is TRUE..and i dont wanna get u hurt for something that might not even be the real case..but this is a possibility ... Sometimes when guys wanna break up with their g/f, they will pick ANY reason to break up with her.. even the smallest thing, they will use it as an excuse to get out of the relationship...~~and again, that might not even be the case with u and ur bf!!~~ [ AsKmE135's advice column | Ask AsKmE135 A Question ]
sweeTie3 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 3:17 pm: well tell him tht wen you said tht you were testing him to see wut he wud doo..tell him tht wut you said the other day..wasnt intended for you twoo to end your relationship. 3 months and 2 weeks..i dont think it worth it..he dumped you cuz of tht..whoa..i dont think it even worth it for you to even bother talkin to him..but if yah wanna tell him tht you still love him and tht you'll ever do tht agai..but you have to speak up cuz he wontt!!
xOMsRunninAwayOx answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 12:00 pm: You should talk first. He prolly was scared out of his mind. I would be too, he truly likes you and he doesnt know if he should trust you now since you scared him like that. Talk to him first and appologize. Or write him a note saying sorry. That you like him and didnt mean any harm to him breaking up with you. Just let him know how you feel. WRITE A long note how you feel. Wait a couple of days then talk to him. okay. <333 Sammy Sam <333 [ xOMsRunninAwayOx's advice column | Ask xOMsRunninAwayOx A Question ]
Baby2Gurlie7 answered Wednesday November 17 2004, 7:20 am: * =/..Well you should talk to him. Tell him how sorry you are and that you shouldn't have been joking around like that. Just explain how you feel to him. <3 [ Baby2Gurlie7's advice column | Ask Baby2Gurlie7 A Question ]
xsunkiszed3x answered Tuesday November 16 2004, 9:03 pm: Well that shows that he must really care about you enough not to talk to you after it. It sucks i know but you should just give him time. Obviously he has seen that you havent ran away but maybe you should pass him a note or give him to time to cool down then tell him it was a joke and that you didnt think that he would take it seriously. Here to help! [ xsunkiszed3x's advice column | Ask xsunkiszed3x A Question ]
xokaylanicoleox answered Tuesday November 16 2004, 8:41 pm: Obviously he isn't going to talk to you at the moment so you really need to talk to him. Write him a note or something. I think the whole 'joke', he didn't find it very funny and it scared him very bad and then you said you were joking the next day. You should've told him you were joking right after you said it! -Kayla [ xokaylanicoleox's advice column | Ask xokaylanicoleox A Question ]
Michelley answered Tuesday November 16 2004, 8:07 pm: Talk to him, be like "____ don't be mad @ me! I was just joking and now that I think about it...I shouldn't have joked around like that and scared you but I wasn't thinking about it and now I'm sad I don't want you to be mad @ me!!" If he ignores you, then give him some time and try talking to him again in like 2 days
=) HoPe I HeLpEd! [ Michelley's advice column | Ask Michelley A Question ]
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